‘It’s Not Lesbian Bed Death but Something Like It’
“I don’t want to be like “let’s spice things up!” because for some reason that framing feels so idk…straight? to me.”
11 Queer People Share How They Flirt
“Did Shakespeare teach me how to flirt? MAYBE SO.”
I Feel Like I’m Waiting For My Ex To Want to Get Back Together
He left the door open for trying again, so how are you supposed to process this sudden breakup? Also, a reader asks how to distinguish between anxiety and instinct.
The Ultimate Guide to Having a Lesbian Crush on Your Friend
Find answers to questions like “should I tell her?” and “what do I do if she’s unavailable?”
‘My Ex Is Doing the Art Project We Planned Together Without Me’
Creative jealousy is understandable in a lot of contexts, but especially this one.
Broke and Lonely? “Lavender Marriage” May Be For You!
Gen Zers who are tired of being “broke, single, and lonely” are drawn to the idea of a rebranded “lavender marriage” as a way to enjoy marriage’s practical benefits without all the sex and romance.
She’s a 10 But She Doesn’t Read Books
She has no real interest in reading and you just can’t move past it! Also, what to do when your partner’s new friend is no friend of yours?
‘The Girl I’m Vibing With Thinks I’m Still Into My Ex’
Queer relationships often don’t take the shape or trajectory of cis-heterosexual ones.
I Trusted My Friend With My Cat. Then She Stole My Candle.
Some things are missing, but did the cat-sitter actually steal them? That’d be nuts, right? Also, is it a red flag if someone isn’t friends with their exes?
‘I Want a T4T Relationship but Worry About Chaser Behavior’
So, shame about sexuality. Lots of us have some. Some of us have lots.
‘I Can’t Stop Thinking About the What-Ifs With Someone I Dated for Two Months’
While using knowledge about one’s attachment style to build lines of communication with a partner and to manage conflict can be super helpful, letting yourself hang onto false hope because of attachment theory is not going to help you.
Is It Fair For Our Newly Sober Friend To Make Our Group Hangs Sober Too?
It just feels weird that the one sober person gets to decide that no one else can drink at dinner? Also, these gendered baby gifts ffs!
What Are Mixed Orientation Relationships?
And what can we learn from dating people with sexual orientations different from our own?
I Don’t Wanna Promote My Friend’s Bad Art
Your friend’s art is not great, but they keep asking you to share it on social. Also, a reader is feeling a little too embodied after having a baby.
I Asked the Women Who Follow Me on Instagram if They’d Like To Receive Nudes. Here’s What Happened
This started as an exercise in self-love and turned into an exercise in personal connection.
‘My Gay Guy Friend Is Rude and Blames It on Gay vs. Lesbian Culture’
“I’ve started hanging out with him less because he’s just annoying at times.”
Why Can’t I Share a King Bed With My Ex?
It’s truly platonic, but your new girlfriend has some thoughts! Also, we share ideas for psychosexual power plays, just casually.
‘I Can’t Tell if My Coworker Is Flirting With Me but I Kind of Hope She Is’
“At work, we already have a bunch of inside jokes, and we find excuses to hang out during the day between meetings and spend so much of our time messaging each other even when we’re sitting literally a few seats down from each other.”
Can I Lie To My Mom About My Girlfriend’s Age?
Is it weird to lie about your girlfriend’s age? And then sidebar: how do we all feel about straight people having ‘girlfriends’?
‘I Haven’t Felt a Spark With Anyone Since My Ex’
“is it leading someone on to keep repeatedly seeing them and going on dates if I’m unsure about them?”