How To Make the Website for Your Lesbian Wedding
I put the date on my website homepage no less than three times because apparently GAYS CAN’T READ.
You Need Help: I Was in a Relationship With Someone Who Didn’t Like Me
Does anybody have experience feeling angry with a person after the break up and the anger kind of growing?
Asking My Fiancée Questions I Don’t Know the Answers to a Month Before Our Wedding
“Have you ever called someone the wrong name during sex?”
How To Set the Dress Code for Your Queer Wedding
We’re queering dress codes!
We Asked a Bunch of Queer People To Share Their Go-To Breakup Coping Mechanisms
“Applying to jobs in Antarctica. Not joking.”
Things I Do To Feel Submissive Even Though My Partner Isn’t Super Dominant
There’s room for ‘incompatibilities’ if we find mutually supportive ways to manage them.
You Need Help: I’m Not Sure I Want To Be Friends With My Ex
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to lean into your gut feeling.
How To Support a Sex Partner With an Eating Disorder
I now have three years of recovery and a wonderful girlfriend by my side. I think I’m ready to talk about ways we can support our partners who have eating disorders.
I’m a Trans Woman, and This Is What’s in My Sex Bag
I have the profound misfortune of being a germaphobe who is very into anal sex.
You Need Help: Wanting To Move In Together but Unsure About Sharing Bed With Dog
“My girlfriend has a super sweet lab mix who I love dearly, but I’m very new to the concept of sleeping with a dog in the bed. I thought they made dog beds for this exact reason?!”
Untethered: Ghosts of Friendships Past
I’m, famously, not a stranger to mixing ghosts and all things horror in with the holidays.
The Unexpected Loneliness of Getting Divorced
I wondered if my friends were afraid that the honesty it takes to face that a relationship needs to end might be contagious. If they stood too close to me, they might realize they wanted to take a closer look in that mirror too.
10 Budget Friendly Holigay Dates
We can’t all vacation to a ski chalet to drink hot cocoa and enter their gingerbread house contest for a weekend! Here are some cheaper alternatives to capture some romantic holiday magic.
A Trans Guy’s Guide to Grindr
You don’t have to preemptively feel shame about your body parts. Do you know how many cis gay men hate their bodies? Why do you think Equinox exists?
You Need Help: How Do I Make Myself Like My Girlfriend’s Cat?
You already did things right by talking about this before moving in together. Now it’s time to talk some more.
How To Please a Pillow Princess, by a Pillow Princess
The term pillow princess has its roots in 90s lesbian circles.
You Need Help: Am I Invisible to Other LGBTQIA People?
There isn’t a secret formula for attracting others, but confidence does go a long way.
I’ve Been Non-Monogamous for Eight Years — These Are My Mistakes and Lessons for Happier Loving
My experience of love has been marked by learning, mistakes, and lost relationships.
You Need Help: Dating Makes Me Sad
The best thing you can do for your dating life right now is to actually take a break from dating.
How To Send Your Best Post-Date Text
“There is one post-date texting practice the team universally despises.”