My Straight Friend Wants Gay Attention
She’s straight but acts pretty gay at the parties! Is it allyship, or something else? Also, a reader requests some tittyfucking specifics please.
‘I Want To Call My Partner Mommy’
“The issue for me right now is talking about it!”
Should I Hold Space For My Ex-Friend Detailing All The Times I Hurt Them
What do you owe someone during a friend breakup? Also, a reader wonders about the right time to ask if someone’s interested in dating them.
‘I Want To Sext a Stranger for Self-Discovery’
“Last year, in my 30s, I started a self-discovery process that has included getting on dating apps after not dating since I was a teenager.”
10 Questions for Couples To Ask Each Other Before Moving in Together
Asking each other these 10 questions can set you up for a smoother move-in and create ongoing conversations about your needs and expectations for living together.
My Girlfriend Thinks Bad Service Deserves a Bad Tip, I Disagree
Your server was really bad, but is it ever ok to leave a bad tip? Also, should you give unsolicited relationship advice to a friend?
‘I Love My Girlfriend but Sometimes She Annoys Me’
“I feel bad because obviously she’s texting me because she wants to talk to me, but I don’t like texting and I don’t want to constantly have such empty conversations.”
American Highway Infrastructure Is Evil and Other Lessons From My Long Distance Lesbian Relationship
Also: Podcasts are extinct — just call your yappy girlfriend!
I’m Inexperienced and Panicked That I’ll Be Bad at Sex
How to navigate dating apps when you have very limited sexual experience?! Also, a reader feels isolated after experiencing profound family loss.
‘How Can I Talk to My Friend/Crush About Sexual Compatibility Without Being Weird?’
Does it make sense to suggest talking about how we feel about kissing/ cuddling/ sex-related stuff/etc.? And if so, what’s the best way to go about it respectfully and in an ace-affirming way?
Should I Dump My Trump-Loving Girlfriend?
Your girlfriend just straight up voted for Trump, so now what?? Also, a reader feels conflicted about Trump voters throwing her baby shower.
14 Queer People Share Their Favorite Dating Apps and Sites of All Time
For pretty much as long as the internet has existed, queers have used it to find each other. We were online dating before it was the norm.
Forget U-Hauling — These Queer Couples Don’t Want To Move In Together At All
You’ve heard the one about lesbians wanting to move in together on the second date, but what about the couples who aren’t looking to move in together at all?
‘My Partner and I Have Completely Different Concepts of Bedtime’
I really do want to be able to go to bed together.
How Can I Convince My Girlfriend To Accept Her Shot at Financial Freedom?
Your parents can help your girlfriend achieve some financial freedom, but she super doesn’t see it that way. Plus, a reader wonders if cis people can use “they/them”?
My Girlfriend and I Did a Boudoir Shoot With Our Gay Bestie and It Was Great for Self-Esteem
There was also something to be said for the beauty of women bonding platonically over sexuality.
My Ex Would Rather I Rearrange My Entire Life Than Be Friends
Your ex doesn’t want to see you at public spaces, but is that your responsibility? Also, a reader wonders if it’s empty flirting or something more?
The Ultimate Guide To Being Happy in a Lesbian Long Distance Relationship
For as long as there are lesbians, there will be lesbians in long distance relationships it seems.
‘My Girlfriend Thinks About Her Ex More Than She Thinks About Me’
My girlfriend will say things like “I know you hate Halloween” but here’s the thing: I feel fine about Halloween. It’s her ex who hates Halloween.
Can I Ask My Non-Binary Partner to Pretend To Be a Cis Man For My Sister’s Wedding?
Is it selfish to ask your spouse to pretend to be someone they aren’t, just so you’re not alone? Also, a reader has penis envy, possibly, maybe?