50 Gay Questions To Ask on a First Date
Have you ever seen a ghost or experienced a haunting?
Help! My Friends Won’t Shut Up
Plus advice about leaving a controlling partner and getting second dates.
25 Things About Being Chronically Single
“I’m not sure that people who’ve spent most of their lives in relationships receive this same type of ‘Why?'”
You Need Help: All I Want Is a Relationship But I Can’t Make it Past the First Date
“How do I somehow give off that I’m girlfriend material? I just want to be wanted back for a change.”
What’s a Nudes Protocol and Why You Should Have One
A nudes protocol (or whatever you wanna call it) is a personalized framework of rules about how your digital sexual data should be handled.
Top 15 Questions I’ve Asked to Vet People on Dates
10. I’m a bit ashamed of this, but it’s the honest truth. I could never be with a Swiftie hater. At best, I can deal with indifference.
Top 15 Strangest Things I’ve Done (or Have Been Done to Me) on a First Date
9. Got rejected because I didn’t pay enough attention to someone’s dog
8. Got rejected because I paid too much attention to someone’s dog
You Need Help: I Don’t Get Excited To See My Girlfriend
“I feel guilty about being so confused and not being able to decide if I like her or not. I’m worried that I’m leading her on.”
Lesbian Sex: Your 15 Favorite Ways To Have It
How do lesbians have sex? Well, we have an actual answer for you: here are the 15 sex acts we consider a regular part of our sex lives.
How To Handle Traumatic Resurgence During Sex
Trauma has a way of resurfacing in vulnerable moments. It can happen even if there’s no relationship between that trauma and sex.
You Need Help: How Do I Date With Devastatingly Low Self-Esteem?
Approach cultivating a friendship with yourself as you would with other people.
I Confronted My Girlfriend About Cheating On Me, She Responded By Coming Out as Poly
Is this ever an okay way for a poly relationship to begin?
Anonymous Sex Diary: A Couple Rekindles Their Sex Life with “Intimacy Boot Camp”
We’re both trying to avoid the lesbian bed death trope, hoping to be remembered in history as lovers, not “really good friends.”
Salons and Divorce Doulas: How Queers Are Fighting the Trauma and Stigma of Divorce
“I’ve been ostracized, people don’t even know my side of the story. And they just stopped talking to me because they’ve talked to my ex.”
You Need Help: I Want To Ask My Couple Friends Out but Don’t Know if They’re Poly
“I have a crush on a lesbian couple I know, and I want to test the waters to see if they might be interested in dating, but I don’t want to make it weird if they’re monogamous.”
25 Movies Just Perfect for Crying Through Your Divorce
Even if you’re not going through a divorce right now, here are some very pretty movies to look back at you while you blow snot bubbles into your t-shirt (no one is watching, it’s fine).
Rumors of Our Lesbian Divorce Rates Have Been Greatly Exaggerated (But They’re Still Pretty True)
You may have heard that lesbian divorce rates are exceptionally high, and perhaps you may have found yourself wondering — are they really?
Tiny Butch Shoes, Lightly Worn
A good pair of boots are LIFE okay??? Is that a gay opinion? Likely.
I’m a Psychologist Who Didn’t See My Own Divorce Coming
Psychologists can see potential in every patient who is seeking therapy. I can’t look at my marriage without seeing all the ways we could still fix it.
Reactions People Have Had To Finding Out I’m Divorced, Ranked
YOU were MARRIED?