I Haven’t Orgasmed During Sex in Five Years and It’s Really Okay
Orgasms never came (hah) easily to me.
She Won’t Date Me Because I Cheated on Someone Years Ago — Ok Miss Perfect!
She dumped you after finding out you cheated on a past girlfriend! Also, how can you interact with straight women without seeming like a man-hating lesbian?
Love Is the Last Rainbow Cookie
Whenever my best friend comes to visit, she brings me a container of rainbow cookies.
‘My Crush Has a Boyfriend. How Do I Get Over Her and Stop Hating Him?’
Even though it doesn’t feel like it, these feelings will pass. What’s meant for you will come to you. In the meantime, dance/cry/sweat/scream it out.
The Married LA Parents Who Are Getting Off Up to 7 Times
These two started out as strictly hooking up for the sex, and now they’re finishing each other’s sentences. This is how they f*ck.
Capitalism Is a B*tch, but I Can’t Help My Friends Anymore
Should you keep recommending your friends for jobs, when they keep dropping the ball? Also, we help a reader whose younger friend isn’t taking their dating advice.
What’s the Best Time To Have Sex?
8 a.m.? 8 p.m.? Noon? Midnight?! When is the best literal time to have sex? A bunch of queers sound off.
Literally Dreaming About Sex With My Ex
The sex you’re having now is fine, but the sex with her was incredible (unfortunately). Also we help a reader whose girlfriend won’t stop singing show tunes!
‘I Want To Flee My Relationship’
“Today, I was talking to a dear friend about the current state of my relationship. They told me that it sounds like I am trapped, and that I am being controlled. Worst of all, they said that my long-term partner ‘basically owns’ me.”
HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship!
Nearly two years of cohabitation and you still haven’t farted around each other?! Also, a reader’s gf might be exhibiting (and triggering) some disordered eating habits.
‘I Am Nervous About Having Sex With My Trans Girlfriend for the First Time’
I would love some insights from other trans women on what to expect when having sex with a trans woman, because I really want her to have a good time and feel comfortable despite my nerves.
My Girlfriend Hates That My Family Is White, But I Can’t Fix That
She roasts your family for being so white, and you’re like… yep we are, that’s true! So now what? Also, let us plan your trip to Italy!
Try This New ‘Wicked’-Inspired Lesbian Sex Move: Shizoring
Wicked obsession is a full-time job, and when you’re in it there’s no real escape — even, it turns out, in the bedroom.
My Kink Is Humiliation, But I’m Too Ashamed to Try It
You want to try some consensual disrespect in bed, but then how could you face her the next morning?? Also, a reader is READY for a new hairstyle, so we help!
How I Learned To Enjoy Receiving (In Honor of ‘The Giver’)
If a stone top likes “The Giver” and it resonates with them, I think that’s beautiful. But to call Chappell a stone top and the song a stone top anthem? A reach!
How Should We Deal with My Fiancé’s Trumpy Dad on Our Wedding Day?
You’ve both got dads, but only want one of them to be involved on your wedding day, but like, without drama. Also, a reader wonders about sharing their erotica too soon.
Can We Make Sure This New Baby Doesn’t Torpedo Our Friendships?
How can you make sure you don’t under-prioritize your friendships after having a baby? Also, recommendations for wax play!
I Forgive Myself for My Past Situationships and I’ma Keep Having Them
I’ve known for a long time that my mom’s lack of emotional availability was a setup for my romantic relationships.
Newly Sober Girlfriend Is Harshing My Mellow
You’ve compromised for her, but she still judges you for smoking weed. Also, is this out-of-state queer wedding worth the PTO?
Are You a Two Fingers or a Thumb Lesbian?
At the end of the day, being a “two fingers” or a “thumb” lesbian isn’t just about physical technique; it’s about preference, pleasure, and the way you connect with your partner.