‘I’m Married, My Ex Just Said She’s in Love With Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do’
“I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.”
“I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.”
“How do we get back to where we were without literally going back to where we were during lockdown?”
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“Feeling like I can’t break up with her is making me so unhappy, which makes me want to break up more!”
“I recently mentioned to my partner that I want to have a (temporary) break from receiving during sex in order to give myself space to be with my body fully, which didn’t go over terribly well.”
“It feels like she’s never going to be fully out and that this is just how the rest of our life together is going to be.”
“I know saying my situationship broke up with me a week ago and we’re trying to be friends already is probably the most lesbian-coded sentence on the planet…”
“A few years back, my best friend got married, moved to the suburbs, and had kids.”
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“I just feel like a huge 30-year-old crybaby thinking about asking for more physical affection and, on my worst days, starting to think ‘maybe moving in was a mistake.'”
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“She’s basically my dream girl. We’ve hit it off fast over the past few months, and she’s one of my closest friends here at this point, and I am so incredibly calm around her.”
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“I have strong sexual feelings for another good friend of mine. They have a partner already and are poly.”
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