‘My Partner and I Have Completely Different Concepts of Bedtime’
I really do want to be able to go to bed together.
My Girlfriend and I Did a Boudoir Shoot With Our Gay Bestie and It Was Great for Self-Esteem
There was also something to be said for the beauty of women bonding platonically over sexuality.
The Ultimate Guide To Being Happy in a Lesbian Long Distance Relationship
For as long as there are lesbians, there will be lesbians in long distance relationships it seems.
‘My Girlfriend Thinks About Her Ex More Than She Thinks About Me’
My girlfriend will say things like “I know you hate Halloween” but here’s the thing: I feel fine about Halloween. It’s her ex who hates Halloween.
‘It’s Not Lesbian Bed Death but Something Like It’
“I don’t want to be like “let’s spice things up!” because for some reason that framing feels so idk…straight? to me.”
11 Queer People Share How They Flirt
“Did Shakespeare teach me how to flirt? MAYBE SO.”
The Ultimate Guide to Having a Lesbian Crush on Your Friend
Find answers to questions like “should I tell her?” and “what do I do if she’s unavailable?”
‘My Ex Is Doing the Art Project We Planned Together Without Me’
Creative jealousy is understandable in a lot of contexts, but especially this one.
Broke and Lonely? “Lavender Marriage” May Be For You!
Gen Zers who are tired of being “broke, single, and lonely” are drawn to the idea of a rebranded “lavender marriage” as a way to enjoy marriage’s practical benefits without all the sex and romance.
‘The Girl I’m Vibing With Thinks I’m Still Into My Ex’
Queer relationships often don’t take the shape or trajectory of cis-heterosexual ones.
‘I Want a T4T Relationship but Worry About Chaser Behavior’
So, shame about sexuality. Lots of us have some. Some of us have lots.
‘I Can’t Stop Thinking About the What-Ifs With Someone I Dated for Two Months’
While using knowledge about one’s attachment style to build lines of communication with a partner and to manage conflict can be super helpful, letting yourself hang onto false hope because of attachment theory is not going to help you.
What Are Mixed Orientation Relationships?
And what can we learn from dating people with sexual orientations different from our own?
I Asked the Women Who Follow Me on Instagram if They’d Like To Receive Nudes. Here’s What Happened
This started as an exercise in self-love and turned into an exercise in personal connection.
‘My Gay Guy Friend Is Rude and Blames It on Gay vs. Lesbian Culture’
“I’ve started hanging out with him less because he’s just annoying at times.”
‘I Can’t Tell if My Coworker Is Flirting With Me but I Kind of Hope She Is’
“At work, we already have a bunch of inside jokes, and we find excuses to hang out during the day between meetings and spend so much of our time messaging each other even when we’re sitting literally a few seats down from each other.”
‘I Haven’t Felt a Spark With Anyone Since My Ex’
“is it leading someone on to keep repeatedly seeing them and going on dates if I’m unsure about them?”
‘How Do I Date When I’m Attracted to Hardly Anyone?’
“I’ve been out and queer for a long time now, and I get quite a bit of attention from people. I have a lot of self-confidence and if I’m into somebody, I’m not afraid to make a move. My problem, though, is that I’m just never into anybody.”
The Many Ways Trans Women Find Sapphic Love
“As a trans woman, lesbian is about how I understand my gender as completely separate from men. I don’t ascribe my gender to perform for men. It gives me space to say that my attraction and my identity exists outside the bounds of what a man finds desirable.”
‘I’m Married, My Ex Just Said She’s in Love With Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do’
“I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.”