‘I’m a Sexually Inexperienced Stud Afraid of Doing It Wrong’
“Honestly I know I’m straight up lesbian ( stud ) and I’ve been in a few relationships with girls and I always ended it when things were about to get sexually heated.”
My Girlfriend Has Money to Spare, So Can I Ask for a Loan?
She knows you can’t afford the thing you need, but hasn’t even offered to help?! Also, we settle a debate about bookshelves!
‘My Wife and I Haven’t Had Sex in Almost Two Years’
“We still kiss, cuddle, and go on dates, but that’s as intimate as it gets.”
Why Am I the Only Friend Not Invited to the Wedding?
Do you think the invite got lost in the mail?? Also we help a reader who’s stunned by a sudden friend breakup.
‘Is It a Good Idea To Date a Girl With Internalized Homophobia?’
“She said that we couldn’t date properly because we were both girls because of our religion.”
Will She Dump Me If I Don’t Wanna Join Her Wellness Journey?
Is it OK to tell your girlfriend you’d simply rather watch TV than exercise with her? Also, what to do when texting people back feels like homework!
How To Create the Ultimate Solo BDSM Experience
This is about savouring every moment, every sensation, and indulging yourself in a deeply intimate and fulfilling solo BDSM journey, which yes is totally achievable and can be a way to explore new interests or kinks even if you don’t have a partner to play with.
‘How Can I Be a Good Girlfriend When My Partner Is Extremely Anxious About Sex’
“I feel like we intuitively understand each other and our needs in a lot of matters and are willing to figure it out when intuition isn’t enough. One area that we have not been able to find understanding around is physical intimacy.”
How To Last Longer When Eating Someone Out
There’s one trick that can help you mitigate jaw and tongue tension when going down.
I Don’t Think I’m Hot Enough Anymore To Date on the Apps
You’re newly single and worried your face card has expired on these dating apps. Also, we help a reader not text their ex!
‘I Just Realized I’m Bi and Am Extremely Anxious’
I’ve flirted with women at bars, online, and have even had a few steamy make-out sessions, but I’m extremely anxious about taking it any further.
I Love Living Alone, But My Girlfriend’s Ready to U-Haul
You’re not sure you’re ready to live with your girlfriend yet! Also, a reader is hurt by a friend’s rejection of her mother.
‘Is It Okay if I Stay in Love With My Best Friend?’
“We’re not going to get together for a lot of reasons — I don’t really have time for a new partner, they’re monogamous and I am not, and they’re just not into me in the same way that I’m into them.”
Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again?
Now that you’re sober, you’ve forgotten how to successfully initiate sex! Also, a reader’s partner has checked out post-election.
‘I Want To Be With a Woman, but My Inexperience Makes Me Feel Really Insecure’
“I fear being ‘made fun of’ or ‘rejected’ in a way.”
Am I a Self-Hating Lesbian for Crushing on a Straight Woman?
A grown-ass lesbian is finally and fully crushing on a straight woman — now what?? Also, let’s all get back into reading!
‘I Want To Support My Partner Who Is Starting HRT’
“I know there will be need to be a lot of conversations about what they’re feeling and conversations specific to how I can support them.”
Should I Get Married Before Trump Takes Office?
An international couple ponders a visa marriage before Trump takes office. Also a reader wonders if dietary restrictions can be a dealbreaker.
‘Every Time I Go Down on My Partner, I Get the Nastiest Acne of My Entire Life’
I haven’t struggled with acne almost at all in my lifetime, but after eating my partner out, I break out with a “beard” of zits that lasts all week.
My Straight Friend Wants Gay Attention
She’s straight but acts pretty gay at the parties! Is it allyship, or something else? Also, a reader requests some tittyfucking specifics please.