‘My Gay Guy Friend Is Rude and Blames It on Gay vs. Lesbian Culture’
“I’ve started hanging out with him less because he’s just annoying at times.”
‘I Can’t Tell if My Coworker Is Flirting With Me but I Kind of Hope She Is’
“At work, we already have a bunch of inside jokes, and we find excuses to hang out during the day between meetings and spend so much of our time messaging each other even when we’re sitting literally a few seats down from each other.”
‘I Haven’t Felt a Spark With Anyone Since My Ex’
“is it leading someone on to keep repeatedly seeing them and going on dates if I’m unsure about them?”
‘How Do I Date When I’m Attracted to Hardly Anyone?’
“I’ve been out and queer for a long time now, and I get quite a bit of attention from people. I have a lot of self-confidence and if I’m into somebody, I’m not afraid to make a move. My problem, though, is that I’m just never into anybody.”
The Many Ways Trans Women Find Sapphic Love
“As a trans woman, lesbian is about how I understand my gender as completely separate from men. I don’t ascribe my gender to perform for men. It gives me space to say that my attraction and my identity exists outside the bounds of what a man finds desirable.”
‘I’m Married, My Ex Just Said She’s in Love With Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do’
“I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.”
‘Quarantine Was Great for My Relationship’
“How do we get back to where we were without literally going back to where we were during lockdown?”
I Don’t Love Gay Marriage but I’m Officiating My Friends’ Gay Wedding
Oh, I love attending weddings. Yes, yes. Flirting with a bridesmaid is like a Top 10 activity for me. But marriage does not fit snugly into my personal definition of queerness.
How To Reframe Masturbation As ‘Solo Sex’
Like all sex acts, masturbation isn’t just about sex.
‘I Want To Break Up With My Girlfriend but We’re Co-Workers’
“Feeling like I can’t break up with her is making me so unhappy, which makes me want to break up more!”
‘I Only Want To Top During Sex and My Partner Is Taking It Personally’
“I recently mentioned to my partner that I want to have a (temporary) break from receiving during sex in order to give myself space to be with my body fully, which didn’t go over terribly well.”
‘My Wife Is in the Early Stages of Transitioning, and I Feel Weird About Keeping Her Identity a Secret’
“It feels like she’s never going to be fully out and that this is just how the rest of our life together is going to be.”
‘How Do I Transition My Failed Situationship Into a Friendship?’
“I know saying my situationship broke up with me a week ago and we’re trying to be friends already is probably the most lesbian-coded sentence on the planet…”
‘I Resent My Best Friend for Moving Away and Having Kids’
“A few years back, my best friend got married, moved to the suburbs, and had kids.”
10 Challenges of a Long Distance Relationship That Have Nothing To Do With the Relationship
Here are the ten biggest challenges I’ve faced as someone who splits my time between two countries because an Instagram crush got out of hand and whoops I fell madly in love.
‘The Lack of Physical Affection From My Girlfriend Is Becoming Unbearable’
“I just feel like a huge 30-year-old crybaby thinking about asking for more physical affection and, on my worst days, starting to think ‘maybe moving in was a mistake.'”
25 Streaming Movies With Hot Lesbian Sex Scenes
Here are some of the most memorable movies in the canon of “films that have significant lesbian sex in them.”
Do I Have To Tell My Friend I Have a Crush On Her?
“She’s basically my dream girl. We’ve hit it off fast over the past few months, and she’s one of my closest friends here at this point, and I am so incredibly calm around her.”
What My Queer Long Distance Relationship Taught Me About Trust
Dating as a lesbian has its own barriers even without an anxiety disorder.
4 Questions To Ask Yourself When Entering an Age Gap Relationship
People in age gap relationships often have to defend our relationships. But there are some questions we should ask heading into one.