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O'Shea Sibley, a queer Black man, dancing on the ocean shore in a ballet position
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: All O’Shae Sibley Wanted to Do Was Dance

Black Trans Liberation has organized a memorial ball this Friday for O’Shae Sibley.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 3, 2023 5 Comments
Maisie Richardson-Sellers, Natalie Morales, Megan Stalter
Quizzes

Calling All Celesbian Experts: Can You Identify All 50 Of These Millennial Queer Actors?

They were born between 1981 and 1996, they’re queer, and they are actors. Do you have any idea who they are? Let’s find out!

Riese August 3, 2023 14 Comments
LOS ANGELES, CA - NOVEMBER 4: Gabby Windey is seen on November 4, 2022 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Hollywood To You/Star Max/GC Images)
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

“Bachelorette” Star Gabby Windey Comes Out as a Girl’s Girl With a Gay Girlfriend

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Riese August 2, 2023 5 Comments
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First Person Music

Just Waiting To Be Found

For my entire childhood, I spent every summer in the Appalachian Mountains.

M.R. Brite August 2, 2023 2 Comments
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TV Reviews

Harley Quinn and Poison Ivy Are the Current Longest Running Queer Couple on TV

Harley Quinn season 4 is the best and gayest one yet!

Heather Hogan August 2, 2023 3 Comments
Janelle Monae gets smooched on in a music video from The Age of Pleasure
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Janelle Monáe Is Happy, Having the Best Sex of Their Life

Reneé Rapp is so over it, how to turn someone into a lesbian with the Barbie movie, and more!

Heather Hogan August 2, 2023 6 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Sounds Like New St. Vincent Is Coming 👀

The elder dyke excellence of this white tee under a vest? Thank you, Golda Rosheuvel.

Christina Tucker August 2, 2023 2 Comments
Asexual Erotics: Intimate Readings of Compulsory Sexuality by Ela Przybylo
Book Features

The Erotics of Asexuality

For Ela Przybylo, the concept of “asexual erotics” emphasizes non-sexual intimacy and ways of relating to one another.

Lauren Herold August 2, 2023 7 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Got Really Mad for a Month There

I was going to make myself a belt out of wristwatches

Rebecca Goldstein August 2, 2023 3 Comments
A pink sky with sparkles and zodiac signs, floating in the sky are the following Barbie characters: Margot Robbie as Stereotypical Barbie, America Ferrera as Gloia, Issa Rae as President Barbie, Michael Cena as Allan, Hari Nef as Doctor Barbie, and Kate McKinnon as President Barbie
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Movie Features

Barbie-ology: Your “Barbie” Character, According to Your Zodiac Sign

You’re pretty and pink, you’re staring into the abyss, you’re cognitive dissonance, you’re Barbie!

Nico August 1, 2023 26 Comments
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Dating

You Need Help: When Is the Right Time To Talk About Being Exclusive in a Relationship?

And do I have to have the conversation in person when we’re long distance?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 1, 2023 2 Comments
Uncle Bertie in A League of Their Own
Society + Culture

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“Talking to my fellow trans folks, that’s trans joy.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 1, 2023 4 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for August 2023

Leo season is here in all its exuberance. Release the need to be impressive.

Corina Dross August 1, 2023 1 Comment
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Movie Lists TV Lists

August 2023: What’s New and Gay To Stream

Get ready to have your heart warmed by Season 2 of Heartstopper and “Red, White and Royal Blue” and we’ve also got a new Harlan Coben thriller teeming with queers, a gay revelation on the final season of “Breeders” and so much more!

Riese August 1, 2023 12 Comments
Sex

Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex

We’ve been talking about tops, bottoms and switches for a few weeks and today we’re doing a little glossary of the other words you use to describe how you have sex!

Riese July 31, 2023 53 Comments
Breanna Stewart (L) #30 and Brittney Griner #42 of Team Stewart speak during a WNBA All-Star Game media availability at Michelob ULTRA Arena on July 14, 2023 in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Sports

WNBA Week 9: Brittney Griner Takes a Mental Health Break, League Injuries Linger

Plus Becky Hammon rewrites the ABCs.

Natalie, Heather Hogan and Carmen Phillips
July 31, 2023 10 Comments
Bradley and Alex stare at each other in The Morning Show season three trailer
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “The Morning Show” Is Bringing Queer Chaos to Season 3

Sarah Paulson and Aubrey Plaza are headed to Broadway, Lizzo is a Legolas girl, and more!

Heather Hogan July 31, 2023 1 Comment
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Relationships

18 Really F*cking Cute and Gay True Stories About How You Met Your Partner

“In 2021, our parents ran into each other at Lowe’s and were basically like “Hey, my kid’s gay and mentally ill too!”

Riese July 31, 2023 12 Comments
First Person Music

10 Mountain Goats Songs, Ranked by Transness

I’m not alone in my obsession with finding themes of gender oppression and transformation in their raw, high-wire, indie-rock lyrics about tragedy, monstrosity, drugs, and sickness. 

E.E. Murray July 31, 2023 6 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Staying Up Until 3am Tonight

Why should you never break up with a goalie?

Rachel July 31, 2023 13 Comments
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