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First Person Gender Issues

The Incredibly True Story Of How Cissexism Made My Same-Sex Marriage Legal

Thanks to a simple governmental regulation, my wife and I were able to exploit a legal loophole and obtain a federally recognized marriage.

Elizabeth June 13, 2013 34 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Brooklyn-Based Queer Musicians With A Lot Of (Upbeat) Feelings

Brooklyn! Brooklyn is a pretty rad place, I hear. They’ve got that bridge situation going on.

Intern Grace June 13, 2013 5 Comments
Music

Crush Of The Week: Meshell Ndegeocello

“Between her bass playing, her come-to-me smoky voice, her gender-bending outfits, and (at the time) bald head, I swoonily followed her through her musical universe as she had some shooting-star hits.”

Andrea Plaid June 13, 2013 20 Comments
Travel

A Prairie Homo Does New York: Ten Things I Hate About Mice

New York is more than taxi cabs, street food, and crowds. There’re also mice, rats, and cockroaches! Lots of them! How exciting, right?

Malaika June 13, 2013 36 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Taye Diggs Puts a Rainbow On It

Put a rainbow on this week’s party as we watch the video for “The Gayest of All time”, listen to Taye Diggs ruin hip hop, and check out the new show about women in prison from the creator of “Weeds”.

Brittani June 13, 2013 13 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Dolores Huerta Stands Up for Gay Marriage and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Familia es Familia, unless you’re in the Salvation Army. Or Louisiana.

Carmen June 12, 2013 8 Comments
The Scene

You Should Go: Babeland Throws Us Another Party

Free cocktails, a workshop on kink, and YOU. NYC, June 20. See you there.

Gabrielle Korn June 12, 2013 20 Comments
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Jenny Owen Youngs Is Super Gay: The Autostraddle Interview

Jenny Owen Youngs just officially came out on EveryoneIsGay.com!

Crystal June 12, 2013 82 Comments
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VIDEO: “Little Horribles” Episode 2: LMFAO

Is “Little Horribles” the lesbian “Girls”? I don’t know. The lesbians in my neighborhood that I’ve never met seem to think so. Watch episode 2 and decide for yourself.

Brittani June 12, 2013 14 Comments
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If You’re Proud And You Know It Clap Your Hands: The International Pride Event Roundup

Pride is upon us, and as such, I bet you’re wondering what that entails for your local city!

the team June 12, 2013 54 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: Andy Bowen

A super interesting trans ‘glitch dub’ artist and activist from DC.

Crystal June 12, 2013 3 Comments
Politics + Activism

We Sorta Won a Thing: Taxation and the Long Fight for Marriage Equality in Germany

A recent ruling could finally pave the way for a more thorough redefinition of marriage and family in Germany and it’s on everyone’s favorite topic: taxation.

Maria June 11, 2013 25 Comments
Queer Fashion

More Than Words: Dapper? I Hardly Know Her

(After you read this post you will, though.)

Cara June 11, 2013 17 Comments
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You Should Go: Top Picks Of All The Things In NYC This Month

Parties and fundraisers and other exciting things happening in New York this June.

Gabrielle Korn June 11, 2013 10 Comments
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Playlist: Bonnaroo Days And Nights 2013

The day starts at daybreak whether you like it or not, so drink a little coffee and a lot of water and take a hard look at your schedule. Don’t miss anything.

Morgan June 11, 2013 7 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Trauma Queen: An Autostraddle Book Review and Interview

Trauma Queen, the new memoir by Lovemme Corazon, is a hard read but equally hard to put down. There are many, many people who will find a familiar history in this book, and the author hopes that will be a jumping off point for healing and discussions.

Mey June 11, 2013 23 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Father’s Day DIY Roundup

Father’s Day is June 16. Prepare yourselves.

Hansen June 11, 2013 14 Comments
Dating

Find Yourself a Wing Ma’am

This not-so-dating app helps you find your community and maybe even a girlfriend.

Kristen June 10, 2013 30 Comments
Politics + Activism

Team Pick: Happy Anniversary To Canada’s First Gay Couple To Get Legally Married!

Kristen’s Team Pick. Two Canucks got married on June 10th and a decade later they’re still together in the world they changed for the better.

Kristen June 10, 2013 8 Comments
Relationships

To Be A U-Haul Lesbian or Not To Be A U-Haul Lesbian: Almost Definitely Not

As predictable as the seasons themselves, it’s the start of the Annual Dyke Moving Season! Hoooraaaay!

Effing Dykes June 10, 2013 121 Comments
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