“My sobriety buddies warned me that if I violated the ban on dating before I was ready, I might be pushed into a relapse. Instead, I’ve just been pushed into never wanting to date again.”
Valentine’s Day Edition! A collection of lady-loving-ladies I love loving a lady I also love in a somewhat official manner.
“There was so much fucking estrogen and so many ladies who fist other ladies in that building, my ovaries tried to reproduce asexually.”
“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”
Four questions. You can handle four questions. Especially when one of them is, “What’s your name?”
“I’ve been hanging out/ hooking up with this girl for about a month. I have her pretty figured out physically and can get her off fairly quick, but the same can’t be said about her. I don’t have a problem with it, but it’s starting to make her upset. Help.”
Boys creating problems, exes who won’t own up to stuff, flirty best friends, and how to start checking your own privilege in the name love. It’s time to give advice to anonymous strangers on the internet!
Gather ’round, queers, and let me tell you the tale of The Christmas Flogger. It is a tale of how my girlfriend and I negotiated, bought and learned to use our very first flogger.
In a recent Guardian article, British journalist and author Nick Cohen put on his whimsical ally cap and attempted to tackle an age-old question: Why are straight people so darned invested in what gays do in bed?
Meet Esther Zinn, the creator of the iPhone app that lets you find clubs, bars, events and even news for queer ladies anywhere you go.
There’s less than a month to wrangle a NYE date! Make sure your craft the perfect dating pic lest you stay Single Forever and die alone, etc, etc.
18. The only bladder I have to wake up for is my own.
Subjectified is a documentary that gives women a space to speak openly and honestly about sex, and if you’re free this Wednesday you should go see it.
But where will I put my feelings?!
Sometimes you have to break up with someone to save yourself, no matter what time of the year.
“The internet is full of weirdos, and currently when you list yourself as bisexual you’re essentially signing yourself up to meet twice as many of those weirdos.”
I’m here to tell you why there is no failure on OkCupid, only different angles of success. And I have had some pretty bald-faced OkC fails.
“Why do I still feel the need to give her the weird side-eye and awkwardly laugh when people ask how we met?”
Gabrielle’s Team Pick: “12:02 a.m. – We walk uphill, giggling, holding hands, and talking about nothing and everything. 12:18 – We’re still walking. Uphill. She promises we’re going somewhere awesome.”
Tips on proper toy storage and cleaning, with a little help from Good Vibrations, Smitten Kitten and Oh My!