Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Chakrubs Heart Crystal Dildo
Something that will feel hefty and firm in my cunt and look gorgeous on my altar? Come to Mommi.
Sex + Relationships
You Need Help: Are There Any Cheap Strap-Ons?
You may have to drop some cash for a toy that will last for more than one thrust.
Some of Y’all Are Really Out Here Flexing on Tinder with Finger Measurements, Discuss
“@ me when people start doing this with fists”
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Kink Kit’s Spank Box
“I was curious how the Kink Kit planned on elevating this particular activity which I’ve almost always done with just a bare hand (and occasionally a paddle).”
You Need Help: Trusting Yourself in a New Relationship After Early Attachment Trauma
Possibly your trauma history is being triggered out of context in this relationship – but maybe it’s not. YOU are the expert, no matter what your trauma history is.
What We Love and Hate About Dating Libras
“I just know it would end badly and I’m already stressed about it because of all the processing that would inevitably have to happen!”
Sex, Love, and Roleplay: Using Online Roleplay to Connect to Your Partner
How I found my queer identity online, romantically connected with my partner, and how you can too in six easy steps!
10 Things I’ve Learned in 10 Years of Going to Play Parties
A play party is just like any other party — if it’s a good party, it’s probably a loud party, and if it’s a great party, it ends in an orgasm.
Queer Horoscopes for November 2019: Scorpio Season Asks Whether You’re Ready to Get What You Want
Scorpio season is asking us to go deep and get real. It’s time to ask the hard questions, take the big risks, and remember to take breaks and stay hydrated.
Started from the Bottom: A Lifelong Bottom’s Adventures in Topping
Much like how everyone told us “OMG you’re both Geminis? This will never work,” we were also told “OMG you’re both bottoms? This will never work.” Joke’s on everyone else; the healthiest relationship and the best sex of my life has been with another bottom.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Cute Little Fuckers’ Princette Puppypus
Today three different Autostraddle writers review and compare their takes on Princette Puppypus, a vibrator from Cute Little Fuckers, a gender-inclusive toy company with a mission to make exploring sex, sexuality, and gender a lighthearted, affirming, and exciting experience for all human bodies.
Queer Sex Coven: Braid Sex Into Love (and Sex)
There is no chill in Scorpio season, so let’s braid you into a relationship.
6 Easy Steps for Fucking Your Friends Without Fucking Up the Friendship
Let’s rebrand fall as Sex With Friends Season rather than Cuffing Season, yeah?
What We Love and Hate About Dating Geminis
NEVER AGAIN.
Trick or Treat Yourself: 8 All-Black Sex Toys for Your Spooky Season
‘Tis the season for black bats, black cats, and maybe a few adventures designed to give you goosebumps. Enjoy these all black everything offerings from Eve’s and let them keep you up through the witching hour and beyond!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Watching Scary Movies
Why scary moves make you horny, how to get candle wax (from play or ambiance) out of anything, strategies for (not) sending regrettable texts and more.
What We Love and Hate About Dating Virgos
If you want to catch the attention of a Virgo in your life, you might find the following phrases to be useful: “What if we get up early and clean your bathroom?,” “I need your advice,” and “Will you edit this for me?” (The advice, like that in the present paragraph, will just as often be unsolicited.)
‘Wait, What?’ Is the Body-Affirming, Gender-Expansive Sex Ed Comic Preteens Need
The book deftly acknowledges that each of its five main characters is different in their experience of their bodies, sexualities, genders, romantic interests, and overall development. It allows each kid to define their experience on their own terms and shows a little of their process of becoming comfortable with their unique selves, while promoting kind and thoughtful behavior toward all peers.
Queer Horoscopes for October 2019: What Scares You Teaches You What’s Safe
It’s Libra season, but wanting love and harmony doesn’t mean we know how to get it. This is a powerful time to face our shadows side.
Queer Sex Coven: A Relationship Format Tarot Spread
Pull a card to see which relationship format is right for you.