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Let’s Do This: April 19th Is Autostraddle’s International Meet Me At The Record Store Day

Meet some people, make some friends, pick up the new Veruca Salt. It’s a win-win.

Stef April 7, 2014 39 Comments
Music

Women of Soul Invade White House, Your Television

After 200+ years of running the American government via several committees of boring old white guys, the Obama administration has finally figured out how to govern this country in a way that makes sense for everybody.

Stef April 7, 2014 3 Comments
Music

Debbie Harry Is Bisexual, Says You Can Call Her Any, Any Time

That sound you just heard was the collective gasp of every warm-blooded woman on planet Earth.

Stef April 7, 2014 31 Comments
Food Lists

20 Appetizers We’re Eating as Full Meals Because F*ck Dinner

You don’t like giant dinners. You wanna make appetizers and by god, that’s what you’re gonna do.

Laneia April 7, 2014 57 Comments
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More Than Words: Bi Bi Bi

When identity terms get thrown in the pressure cooker.

Cara April 7, 2014 58 Comments
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Star Trek N00b, Episode 18: Squire of Gothos (Basically, Napolean)

“Oh, how fallible of me!”

Loraine April 7, 2014 17 Comments
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So, You’re A Trans Woman Looking For A Bra

Buying a bra isn’t always the easiest thing. This can be especially true if you’re a trans woman, and even more so if you transitioned later in life. But don’t worry, I’ve got some tips to help you out.

Mey April 7, 2014 26 Comments
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It’s Sunday Funday and Laverne Cox and Honey Maid Have No Time for Haters

Equality around the world — from Argentina to Ohio.

Carmen April 6, 2014 6 Comments
Sex Toys

Nine Sex Toys and Items That Can Fit In Your Bra

These small travel-sized sex toys and safer sex items can fit in your bra. (Or pocket.)

Ryan Yates April 6, 2014 9 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is So Excited To Kiss You

Electrosex, flirting, orgasms (and worrying less about orgasms), questions about jealousy, the word “pussy” and more.

Ryan Yates April 6, 2014 2 Comments
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Four Actual Real Bra Technologies

This is probably an opportunity for my boobs to get the blue screen of death for no reason.

A.E. Osworth April 5, 2014 7 Comments
Politics + Activism

Good Riddance, DOMA: Medicare and Social Security Now Recognize Trans Spouses and Same-Sex Marriages

Two important decisions will give same-sex couples and married trans people access to benefits through their spouse, regardless of their state of residence.

Kaitlyn April 5, 2014
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are As Supportive As Your Favorite Bra

An over-the-shoulder-comment-award-holder.

carrie April 4, 2014 3 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Are You the Next Host of ‘Late Show’?

This is an OPEN THREAD for you to talk about anything and everything. Come on in, the water’s non-existent.

Brittani April 4, 2014 115 Comments
Politics + Activism

Five Things You Should Know About Women and the Minimum Wage Crisis

Thirty-one percent of women workers who would benefit from an increase of the minimum wage are parents of children. No doubt, raising the minimum wage would make an incredible difference in the lives of women and families in the U.S.

Helen April 4, 2014 7 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #121: You Don’t Want To Fall In Love With Your Own Story Of Tragedy.

Topics include underpaid cheerleaders, the “gig economy,” Circle Football, Rebecca Walker, heroin, sex ed, grad school, Upworthy and moar!

Riese April 4, 2014 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

Mozilla CEO Brenden Eich Resigns Over Prop 8 Controversy, Mozilla Remains Pretty Cool

Earlier this week, OKCupid joined the outrage at Mozilla’s new choice of CEO Brenden Eich by asking their users to uninstall Firefox. Yesterday, Brenden Eich resigned.

A.E. Osworth April 4, 2014 32 Comments
Food and Drink

Wilder Hungers: The Ten Best Meals I’ve Eaten in NYC

There are about 5,000,000 things that annoy me about this city, but the redeeming factors are endless. The one constant thing that keeps me in love with New York is the food. I like to think I have quite a few signature spots now, and it’s rare that I even want to try hip new places anymore.

Gabriella April 4, 2014 11 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion Shopping

A Tomboy Femme’s Dream Come True: Comfortable, No Frills, Badass Sexy Lingerie

“I’m also embracing my tomboy/blue jean/lazy femme realness more and more each day. This means if I’m going to spend monies on something, it better be perfect for all of my skipping and hopping around the gender presentation spectrum.”

Hansen April 4, 2014 36 Comments
Book Lists

Ten Books For Queers And Feminists To Read This Spring

Ten important queer and feminist books coming this spring.

Ryan Yates April 4, 2014 22 Comments
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