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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s the First Dish You Made on Your Own?

It’s time for the Friday Open Thread, an undercover project I instituted at this website to slowly collect information on someone I have a crush on who’s very into sharing details about their life via the comments.

Brittani November 14, 2014 203 Comments
Recipes

Let’s Get This Party Started: Fancy Smoked Oyster Dip

A fuss-free, quick and easy hors d’oeuvre for all your holiday and party needs.

July Westhale November 14, 2014 1 Comment
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #59: Luminous Misandry

Texts from Jane Eyre as a new form of literary criticism, whether to finish every book you start, strong opinions on book lists and more.

Ryan Yates November 13, 2014 10 Comments
Queer Fashion

He Said/We Said: Laid-Back in Vermont

It gets bleeping cold in Vermont, so the dappers there are not playing around when it comes to style that is both fashionable and functional. The collection is rugged, stylish, and perfect for cold weather wardrobes.

dapperq November 13, 2014 16 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Orange Is The New Black Episode 213 Recap: And I Will Never Finger Her

It’s the season finale of Orange is the New Black, and so much shit is about to go down. Ride with me.

Riese November 13, 2014 24 Comments
Politics + Activism

Michigan Same-Sex Couples Get a Court Win, But State Legislature Wants to Leave Trans People Behind

Republicans are trying to exclude trans protections in a civil rights amendment, while a federal judge has struck down a state law banning domestic partner benefits.

Mari Brighe November 13, 2014 4 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: You Think You’re Bad At Sex

“Forget all your ideas about what the person across the table from you might want until they tell you so you can actually listen when they do.”

Ryan Yates November 13, 2014 42 Comments
Beauty

6 Blue Lipsticks Road-Tested for the Ice Queen In You

Something truly wonderful is happening. Cosmetic companies are expanding their lipstick colors beyond the standard red-orange-pink-purple-burgundy spectrum and into the land of black, yellow, green and blue lipstick.

Elena November 13, 2014 13 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Faking It Episode 208 Recap: The Flavor Of The Month Is Lezberry Blast

This week on “Faking It,” Amy doesn’t win Miss Congeniality, but neither does Lauren, and neither does Karma. Neither does Liam! Or Duke or Shane or Reagan. But everybody’s hair looks GREAT.

Riese November 12, 2014 37 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Stronic Drei

The first week I had the Stronic Drei, I spent about ten hours in bed with it.

Guest November 12, 2014 5 Comments
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Playlist: One More Time Without Feeling

Dance the pain away.

Araguaney R. Da Silva November 12, 2014 8 Comments
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Coming Out to Your Friends: The Autostraddle Roundtable

Come out, come out, wherever you are! The Autostraddle team gives you tips on how to come out to your friends.

the team November 12, 2014 89 Comments
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEF! LOVE, A+ AND THE INTERNET

It’s Stef’s 31st birthday and we have so many birthday cards for her — and YOU made them!

Riese November 12, 2014 29 Comments
Parenting & Family

“This Is A Book For The Parents Of Gay Kids”: A Coming Out Conversation with Bruce and Phyllis

I emailed my dad, Bruce, and my grandma, Phyllis, and asked if they’d like to have a three-generational conversation inspired by the book. They agreed, and so we all read it and converged on my dad’s house to discuss.

Maddie November 12, 2014 37 Comments
LGBT History

Rebel Girls: 5 Bad Theories on Gender and Sex From Way Back When That Still Impact us Today

Not everything science has given us has made our lives better.

Carmen November 12, 2014 14 Comments
Politics + Activism

President of Lincoln University Slut-Shames Black Women, Incriminates Black Men, Asks for Silence Around Rape

“The other thing I want to tell you about brothers is that we will lead you to believe that you’re the best thing since sliced bread. But we’re slicing your bread and somebody else’s bread, too… if you allow us to do that.”

Hannah Hodson November 11, 2014 11 Comments
Sex

Pornotopia Fights the Good Fight for Diversity and Sex Positivity in Porn

“Sex shops should be inviting, safe spaces. Porn should be enjoyable and representative of many different communities. I feel like each year, we’re making more strides. It can only get better if we keep pushing.”
[NSFW images inside.]

Tina November 11, 2014 5 Comments
Community

See You At Facing Race 2014 in Dallas

Facing Race 2014 is happening in Dallas on November 13-15. Let’s hang out!

Yvonne November 11, 2014 3 Comments
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Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: Jenna

” I, it turns out, am even more kinky than I had previously imagined, and you are less so, and so and thus.”

Ryan Yates November 11, 2014 33 Comments
Politics + Activism

LGBT Veterans Deserve Equal Rights and Recognition, Not Just a Free Bloomin’ Onion

This Veteran’s Day, let’s give back to the queer service men and women who have put their lives on the line to protect us.

Heather Hogan November 11, 2014 11 Comments
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