Have A Slick Holigay: A Guide To Buying Lube For Yourself And Others
The kinds of things you should ask yourself when in the market for some lube. Plus product recommendations to get you started.
A 20th-Anniversary Interview With The Founders Of Babeland
“If we could each have authentic understanding and acceptance of our sexuality and identity, that would make a sex-positive world.”
Herstory In Our Pants: The 1950s-Era Handy Hannah Vitalator
In the first edition of Herstory In Our Pants, we put herstory literally into our pants with a review of a retro vibrator.
How to Keep a Girl for 10 Years: 5 Steps To A Better Y’all!
In my first installment of How To Keep A Girl For Ten Years, I explore the notion of solidarity through individualism, selflessness and creativity!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Sext You All Night
This week on NSFW Sunday: sexy terminology, lesbian sex scenes, representation, vaginal knitting and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Be Pinned Down
This week on NSFW Sunday: why we should be celebrating good sex in literature, naked photos, Femme Sex Week and more.
Dear Queer Diary: Friends That Journal Together
The briefest safari through the overgrown pathways of the fearsome Amazon indicates that there is an entire genus of the journal family that is marketed towards journaling partners—of both the platonic and romantic varieties.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Interested In Orgasms
This week on NSFW Sunday: orgasms in your brain, the ultimate gateway vibrator, Project Bush and more.
On Navigating the Unexpected Death of a Queer Friend
“You may have lost someone who may have meant different things to you than they did to other people, but at the end of the day you know who they were to you, and perhaps what they meant to your community of queers.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Can’t Get You Out Of Her Head
This week on NSFW Sunday: your brain’s sexual response, talking about sexual fantasies, Star Wars vibrators and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows Boobs Are Fun To Look At, Regardless
This week on NSFW Sunday: scissoring, things that are sexy, boobs, coming out later in life and more.
Dear Queer Diary: On Pens As Secret Handshakes
According to one of my favorite children’s books, “The ballpoint pen has been the single biggest factor in the decline of Western Civilization. It makes the written word cheap, fast, and totally without character.”
13 Ways to Make Your Long-Distance Relationship The Most Awesome Part of Your Life
You want to touch them, smell them and, if you’re me, bite their ear. Why don’t the forces of geography and physics rally to both your cries and fold the world up like origami until the front doors of your homes kiss?
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking About You In Bed
This week on NSFW Sunday: interpreting human sexuality, modernist pickup lines, the lesbian sex scene in “Blue is the Warmest Color” and more.
5 Fisting Tips For A Happy (Belated) International Fisting Day!
Because every day should be International Fisting Day.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes When You Leave Marks
This week on NSFW Sunday: what counts as sex, the history of orgies, online dating, how to have anal and more.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Ammo Mei
I don’t even have words for how great this vibrator is.
NSFW Sunday Likes Girls Outside
Sometimes you need to get outside and remember who you are and what you want to be. And ogle.
Listling: Most Hilarious Synonyms For “Vagina”
“4. Beaver cake.”
Bondage 101: How To Tie Someone Up
How to tie someone up when you don’t know how to tie someone up.