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Grease Bats: Digital Hangouts

“Turn your mic on!”

Archie April 4, 2020 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: It’s All Sweet Sunshine Kisses on “Station 19”

Plus: “How to Get Away with Murder” returns for its final episodes ever, and we’re still #HornyForMermaids on “Sirens.”

The TV Team April 3, 2020 14 Comments
Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: Anti-Trans Legislation Succeeds, But So Do Whole Foods and Instacart Strikes (Sort Of)

It’s been a long week, you guys. This week’s Extra! Extra! covers all the news you didn’t even know was happening.

the team April 3, 2020 16 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Sex Coven: A Saturn in Aquarius Quarantine Spell

When Saturn moved into Aquarius on March 21, society began to look to the future and collective ways of thinking and living.

Sophie Saint Thomas April 3, 2020 1 Comment
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Talking, Laughing, Loving, Breathing, Fighting, Fucking, Crying, Drinking…At Home

“2020 has been full of unexpected plot twists but Mel and Sue teaming up as contract killers has got to be up there.”

Darcy April 3, 2020 3 Comments
Geekery Gender

How Solace, the Transition App Designed by a Trans Woman, Will Lifehack Your Gender Transition

Evergreen State tech entrepreneur Robbi Katherine Anthony is one of the people hoping to solve the struggles that exist for transgender individuals in the 21st century. Billed as the gender transition app, her company Solace was launched at last year’s LGBTQIA Hackathon in Austin, Tex.

Winter Breedlove April 3, 2020 13 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Celia Laskey’s “Under the Rainbow” Is Dark, Redeeming, and Very Very Queer

Both light and heavy, dark and redeeming, this book is sure to be a comfort and resource for many, as we try to bridge the growing gap between “coastal elites” and “flyover states.”

Kate Gorton April 3, 2020 1 Comment
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Rest in Infinite Power Trans Latina Activist Lorena Borjas. We Will Continue Your Work.

LeVar Burton is bringing back Reading Rainbow when we need it most, remembering lesbian singer Lesley Gore and the anthem that powered “The First Wives Club,” and friends don’t let friends cross picket lines.

Carmen Phillips April 2, 2020 11 Comments
Recipes

Happy Hour at Home: Rebranding Leftovers as a Chef’s Tasting Menu

Earlier this week, I was simply couldn’t cook another meal. In an effort to spice things up when a restaurant date night is so far out of the question, I decided to rebrand the random shit in our fridge as a “tasting menu” — complete with wine pairings.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 2, 2020 9 Comments
Book Lists

9 Poems to Read in These Trying Times

One place that I have found comfort before and continue to find it now is in poetry, the words of others who have experienced and seen unspeakable things and come out on the other side. I hope you can find some comfort in them, too.

danijanae April 2, 2020 6 Comments
First Person Gender

What Self-Quarantine is Teaching Me About Gender Dysphoria

Three weeks ago I began my Coronavirus self-quarantine. Faced with the reality that I wouldn’t see anyone, I started an experiment. I wasn’t going to shave, paint my nails, or put on makeup — until I wanted to, for myself.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 2, 2020 15 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Vivek Shraya Remains an Original with New Novel “The Subtweet”

It’s one of many reasons Shraya is such a singular artist. She’s making work for herself and her communities – everyone else is welcome to appreciate her, but she doesn’t seem much to care.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 2, 2020 2 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Horoscopes for April 2020: What Are Your Keys to Control, Connection, and Staying Centered?

The astrology of this month is about deepening into the places where we need to heal. Losing control, we find our connections. Here are some tools for working with fear.

Corina Dross April 1, 2020 4 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Kate McKinnon Is Obviously Playing Carole Baskin in the “Tiger King” TV Series

Lizzo is sending lunch to hospital ER staff, Tessa Thompson is helping save the arts orgs impacted by COVID19, Dolly Parton is going to read us bed time stories, and television streaming was up 85% in March.

Heather Hogan April 1, 2020 9 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The We-Vibe Wand

There are only a few lucky toys that regularly appear in my sex life. The We-Vibe Wand has officially joined the ranks.

Guest April 1, 2020 2 Comments
Straddleverse

Ensure Autostraddle’s Future: Announcing Our Spring 2020 Fundraiser & $23,000 Match Gift!

In a time when digital resources and connection are more vital than ever — including workplaces that employ LGBTQ people sustainably — Autostraddle wants to not only keep our lights on, but ensure they’ll keep burning as brightly as possible.

The Editors April 1, 2020 17 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

Stay Home and Squirt: A Preparedness Guide

Please, help me help you. Push your puzzles aside. It’s time to squirt.

Ro White April 1, 2020 9 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Ashley Benson and Cara Delevingne Get Real Cute With Really Cute Puppies

Like all of us, Ali Krieger is waiting for a Zoom call.

Christina Tucker April 1, 2020 4 Comments
Money + Work

Queered & Careered: 10 Tips on Working From Home in the Era of Social Distancing

Since working from home is a part of the national call to practice social distancing, many of us are also navigating loneliness, restlessness, and anxiety. Here are a few tips that can help you on your journey.

Tiara Dee April 1, 2020 7 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Sabrina Imbler’s “Dyke (geology)” Makes Science Horny

Science and sexuality collide with swift force in this short but striking chapbook.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 1, 2020 3 Comments
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