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The Future is Disabled by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha
LGBT Book Reviews

Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha’s “The Future Is Disabled” Should Be Required Reading

After reading The Future is Disabled, I feel more hopeful, and I think you will, too.

Katie October 3, 2022 15 Comments
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First Person

Empty Magic: Dinner

When you’ve reached the bottom of anything, you create a hollow.

danijanae October 3, 2022 3 Comments
Three girls hide under a blanket while watching a scary movie in bed. A fanged monster woman's face hovers over them and creepy green hands with black nails reach from the corners
First Person Movie Features

Revisiting the Scary Movie Sleepover

Horror movies are for the depressed and anxious gays.

Valerie Anne October 3, 2022 6 Comments
A smoky background with the text HORROR IS SO GAY in the style of a retro horror movie poster.
Culture

Horror Is So Gay

Welcome to Horror Is So Gay, a series of essays, lists, and fearsome explorations of queer and trans horror, running throughout the month of October.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 3, 2022 13 Comments
Photo 1: Jadzia Sax and Lenara Kahn make out on DS9. Photo 2: Calista Flockhart and Lucy Liu kiss on Ally McBeal. Photo 3: Alex and Marissa kiss on The O.C. Photo 4: Winona Ryder and Jennifer Aniston kiss on Friends.
Quizzes

Quiz: Which Sweeps Week Lesbian Kiss Are You?

A legacy of the Nielsen TV ratings system, sweeps were a couple of weeks a year when TV shows brought out sensational content, like women kissing, to reel in viewers.

Darcy October 2, 2022 12 Comments
Before We Were Trans by Kit Heyam
LGBT Book Reviews

Gender Nonconformity Has Always Existed

Trans activist and historian Kit Heyam’s new book Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender examines gender nonconformity throughout history.

Stef Rubino October 2, 2022 1 Comment
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Movie Lists TV Lists

What’s New and Gay To Stream in October 2022

We’ve got new seasons of Derry Girls and One of Us Is Lying, an Aisha Dee horror film set at a lesbian bachelorette weekend, queer ’90s teens in Tegan and Sara’s “High School” and more!

Riese October 1, 2022 3 Comments
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Beauty

AM/PM: Skincare For The New Mama & All Day Minimalist

I’m exhausted — but even a tired and hot new mama needs a bit of a skincare routine.

Casey October 1, 2022 13 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for October 2022

The quality of light, the crispness of the air, the sweet, fallen apple smell of the earth — my mind feels lighter and clearer in this time of year.

Corina Dross October 1, 2022 2 Comments
In a two panel comic, colored in shades of blue and white: A drawing of a Carabiner with keys on it, alongside the following text: AH, THE RING OF . I. *KEYS$: CLASSICI ICONIC!! DYKEY AS HELL !!!
Webcomics

Reine #39: Carabiner – A Love Letter

I’m in love with function, utility, and cool clangy sound effects.

Ren Strapp October 1, 2022 17 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Nostalgia Is Quite Simply Not Enough to Light Hocus Pocus 2’s Black Flame Candle

“That line is written for someone who knows what it sounds like for their knees to creak, who has pondered the liquid gold that is Vitamin C serums (coincidentally, another gag in the film). There is no other way.”

Carmen Phillips September 30, 2022 6 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Trying to Tell Us Something

“When I was eleven, I made my computer password ‘bisexual.’ …Cue to my mom needing it for something!”

Darcy September 30, 2022 3 Comments
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AF+

The Autostraddle Insider Issue 96: September 2022

“Is “Puzzle Box” central to Hellraiser?”

The Editors September 30, 2022 17 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Kate and Lucy Go Public With Their Love on “NCIS: Hawai’i”

Plus updates on 9-1-1, New Amsterdam, Vampire Academy, and Monarch.

Natalie and Valerie Anne
September 30, 2022 5 Comments
The Idiot by Elif Batuman and Either/Or by Elif Batuman
Book Features

Life Is Not a Novel

I’ve always had a very active daydream life.

Autumn Fourkiller September 30, 2022 10 Comments
The books Siren Queen by Nghi Vo, We Play Ourselves by Jen Silverman, Something to Talk About by Meryl Wilsner, and Everything Leads To You by Nina LaCour
Book Lists

Eight Queer Books Set in Los Angeles About the Movie Industry

A solid half of these are romance, which is entirely unintentional — but you’re welcome if queer celesbian romance is your jam.

Casey September 30, 2022 7 Comments
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Queer Fashion

Five Outfits To Make You Look Like a 70’s R&B Album Cover

I’m talking Marvin Gaye, I’m talking Labelle, I’m talking Teddy Pendergrass.

danijanae September 30, 2022 3 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Megan Thee Stallion Launches Mental Health Site for Hotties, “Bad Bitches Have Bad Days, Too”

GLAAD’s 20 Under 20 is here to tell you about the 20 queer and trans youth who got next and will change the world, Instagram’s having a vibe shift, and stop worrying about what happens if we let kids transition.

Carmen Phillips September 29, 2022 1 Comment
a very cute image of a dog smiling and looking into a refrigerator with a variety of foods in it. the photo is taken from inside the fridge, facing out so as to have a perspective facing the cute dog.
AF+

A+ Roundtable: What’s In Our Fridges?

“The Trader Joe’s tilapia actually slaps I highly recommend!”

the team September 29, 2022 21 Comments
Miss Lawrence, Billy Eichner, Ts Madison, Jim Rash, and Dot-Marie Jones sit around a conference table and all look off camera surprised. Behind them reads The National Museum of lgbtq+ History and Culture.
Movie Reviews

Billy Eichner’s Gay Rom-Com “Bros” Isn’t Revolutionary But It Is Hilarious

Straight rom-coms aren’t expected to properly evoke Marsha P. Johnson and gay romcoms shouldn’t have to either — of course, it helps that straight romcoms don’t try.

Drew Burnett Gregory September 29, 2022 7 Comments
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