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Gender

Tumblrs of Butches Doing Things: A Reprise, Thanks to You

The world is a better place because of your responses to “Top Six Tumblrs Featuring Butches Doing Things.”

Gabrielle Korn December 11, 2012 28 Comments
Gender

Immigration Reform is a Queer & Trans* Human Rights Issue

“The only way that we as queer and trans* activists can fight against homophobia and transphobia as it impacts the most vulnerable members of our community is through working in coalition with other social justice groups to fundamentally change and dismantle these unjust systems.”

Olga December 5, 2012 18 Comments
Coming Out Thanksgiving

You Don’t Have To Come Out On Thanksgiving: On Going Home and Being Quiet

My grandma shoved 30 dollars in my hand once and told me, “Always tell the truth about who you are and know we’ll love you anyway.”

Carmen November 24, 2012 74 Comments
Coming Out First Person

In “Human Sexuality” Class, We Took Academic Honesty To A Whole New Level

On our first day, the Professor stepped onto the floor of the auditorium and said, “Raise your hand if you had sex last night!”

Keena November 19, 2012 31 Comments
Coming Out Thanksgiving

Your Parents Might Need This: Advice on Coming Out Over the Holidays

It’s likely that your parents are mulling over their own special set of holigay related dilemmas.

fonseca November 14, 2012 41 Comments
Coming Out

Six Accidental Educators Who Unintentionally Taught Me I Was Queer

“Sure, my gay studies were fairly superficial and not very diverse at all. But until I left town, my world was the opposite of diverse, and what teenager isn’t at least a bit shallow?”

Jenn October 31, 2012 44 Comments
Gender

Lana Wachowski, Trans* Director of ‘The Matrix’, Gives Touching Speech That Will Probably Make You Cry

“Here in the absence of words to defend myself, without examples, without models, I began to believe voices in my head — that I was a freak, that I am broken, that there is something wrong with me, that I will never be lovable.”

annika October 24, 2012 48 Comments
Coming Out

Straight Allies: Every Little Bit Helps

Resources to help your friends help you.

Kristen October 15, 2012 9 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Coming Out As An Amorphous Weirdo

“It wasn’t until I kissed the second girl that even my therapist at the time laughed at me and told me maybe it was time to accept that my sexuality was not as cut-and-dry as I’d always imagined.”

Stef October 11, 2012 177 Comments
Coming Out

National Coming Out Day OPEN THREAD Wants To Hear Your Stories

The most important part about coming out is talking about it! Let’s all share our feelings in this open thread.

Hansen October 11, 2012 208 Comments
Gender

PSAs Aim To Prepare Citizens Who Are “Voting While Trans”

Vanessa’s Team Pick: More than 25,000 transgender American citizens may face stiff barriers to voting in the November 2012 election; the National Center for Transgender Equality wants to change that.

Vanessa October 4, 2012 7 Comments
Gender

Top Six Tumblrs Featuring Butches Doing Things

This is what the inside of my heart looks like.

Gabrielle Korn October 2, 2012 137 Comments
Gender

Michelle Kosilek’s Surgery Raises Questions About Trans* Prisoners’ Rights

Michelle Kosilek is a trans woman who needs gender reassignment surgery. She’s also an inmate serving a life sentence since 1990 for the murder of her wife, Cheryl.

Rose September 30, 2012 220 Comments
Gender

Meet Two Female Cabbies In “What’s A Girl Doing Here?”

Vanessa’s Team Pick: In which Vanessa has a lot of feelings about a short documentary about female cabbies in New York City.

Vanessa September 26, 2012 21 Comments
First Person Gender

25 Things I Do To Make My Body Dysphoria Feel Smaller and Quieter

Everything’s gonna be super duper.

Kate September 25, 2012 172 Comments
Gender

In a Bind Helps Get Trans* Youth Out of One

Portland-based TransActive’s new program helps get binders to trans and genderqueer youth in need; Autostraddle sat down with the program’s coordinator to learn what it’s all about and how we can help.

Maeve September 19, 2012 67 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Coming Out: Yet Another Roundtable

“Coming out never ends, and for some of you it hasn’t even begun.”

Carmen September 14, 2012 146 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Disowned: When Coming Out Doesn’t Go As Planned

“The truth is that it does bother me that my parents are pretending that I’m dead—probably more than I’ve been willing to admit.”

annika September 13, 2012 87 Comments
Gender

Single-Sex Classrooms Great Place To Learn Stereotypical Gender Roles, Reports ACLU

They have feminists shaking their heads, no research to back themselves up, and the full support and funding of the government.

Laura September 2, 2012 51 Comments
First Person Gender

Femmes: Beyond Lipstick (and Heels and Dresses)

Sometimes you just want a role model.

Kristen August 16, 2012 257 Comments
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