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Coming Out Community

You Need to Help These Ten People Come Out

Girls are always asking me for advice on various coming out situations, and I don’t always know how to answer them. Perhaps you, dear reader, would like to take a swing at it?

Riese December 21, 2011 69 Comments
Gender

Beware “The Reverse Gender Gap”!!!

The New York Times says the gender gap is closed! All the news that’s fit to print, now with baseless speculation!

Ryan Yates December 16, 2011 28 Comments
Gender

Porn For The People: Revolutionizing The Way We Look At Queer Brown Bodies

“Every time we think about porn, it’s always something that’s deviant. I wanted us to see our bodies exposed in a way that’s revolutionary.”

ELIXHER December 5, 2011 12 Comments
Gender

Annika and Sebastian Answer Your Trans* Questions (Part Three)

In Part 3 of the series, we’ll be addressing issues like dealing with internalized transphobia, going “stealth”, and how you can help your partner if they are struggling with gender dysphoria. PLUS a video!

annika November 4, 2011 105 Comments
Gender

Going Public About Privates

Laura’s Team Pick: “The disappearing bush is a burning issue.”

Laura October 23, 2011 54 Comments
Coming Out

It’s National Coming Out Day and We’re Thinking of You

What does National Coming Out Day mean to you?

Rachel October 11, 2011 97 Comments
Coming Out

National Coming Out Day Listling Without Commentary: Selections From Your Coming Out Stories

“I’m gay, dipshit.”

Riese October 11, 2011 98 Comments
Gender

She’s A Boy I Knew: Transgressing Gender, Transforming Film

As both the subject and filmmaker of the documentary ‘She’s A Boy l Knew,’ Gwen Haworth takes gender expression to a whole new level.

Lindsay October 10, 2011 41 Comments
Gender Health

Transgender People, Transitioning and Those Darn Standards of Care

“A disorder is a description of something with which a person might struggle, not a description of the person or the person’s identity.”

Sebastian October 5, 2011 39 Comments
Gender

Our (Extra) Ordinary Evening Watching Nightline’s “Transgendered Special”

AKA “How to not make a trans* documentary”

annika September 7, 2011 70 Comments
Gender

On Display: Navigating the Male Gaze As A Lesbian Trans Woman

“Welcome to being a girl. Get used to it.”

annika September 2, 2011 186 Comments
Gender

Playing Games So You Don’t Have To: Leather Goddesses of Phobos 2

How is gender and identity represented in ’90s “adult” video games? With ultra-permed hair and gender stereotypes, of course!  

Whitney Pow August 30, 2011 7 Comments
Gender

Tide Detergent Thinks Moms Want to Sabotage Their Daughters’ Tomboy Style

How many gender stereotypes can we fit into one 30 second commercial? You’d be surprised! This ad is REALLY special. I mean really really special. You should watch it.

Riese August 9, 2011 134 Comments
Identity

You Need Help: It’s A Hard Knock Life For Bisexuals

What happens when people are weirded out that your girlfriend is bisexual? Or you’re a bisexual girlfriend navigating an open relationship? OBVIOUSLY YOU ASK THE INTERNET.

Rachel July 29, 2011 204 Comments
Gender

Are Dads Cool With Their Sons Wearing Pink? An ‘Investigation’

Good Morning America wants everybody to freak out over boys wearing pink.

Jezebel July 19, 2011 42 Comments
Gender

Annika and Sebastian Answer Your Trans* Questions (Part Deux)

“In this second installment, we discuss topics like “undoing” the effects of puberty, intimacy with a trans* person, and how to address gender ambiguous people.”

annika July 12, 2011 57 Comments
Gender

New Sexual Orientation Study Suggests You Were Born This Gay

A new study says sexual orientation and “gender conformity” in women are genetic traits. Could this be the anti- anti-gay evidence we need? And at what cost?

Ryan Yates July 12, 2011 92 Comments
Gender

Who Run the World? Boys!

The gender gap in Asia leads back to U.S. funding and research.

Laura July 11, 2011 11 Comments
Gender

Annika and Sebastian Answer Your Trans* Questions (Part One)

Do you think gender is a social construction? How do hormones affect your sex life? What can my LGBT organization do to better include trans people?

annika June 8, 2011 126 Comments
First Person Identity

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About My Sexual Orientation And Were(n’t) Afraid To Ask

The eyes are all asking are you in, or are you out?

Riese June 1, 2011 295 Comments
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