8 Things to Do When You’re Stuck Indoors

The days after Christmas and before New Years can be weird. All the anticipation and joy that led up to the December holidays is gone, but you’re still waiting around for January 2nd when life finally resumes as usual. Maybe it’s still winter break and your kids are home a lot more than you’re used to. Or maybe you’re still at your grandma’s house with your mom, dad and 17 aunts and uncles. Maybe you’ve made it back to your house, only to be faced with blizzard-like conditions that have you trapped in your kitchen.

While it can be easy to get sucked into the ennui that comes calling right around the 27th, now’s actually the best time to get into something new. A new year’s right around the corner, social engagements are limited and if you’re lucky, you might even have a couple days off work. If you’re planning on spending the day indoors, why not step away from the computer and throw yourself into a project? We’ve got eight ideas that will get you out of any funk.

1. Cook


Cooking is a always a good thing to do when you start feeling bored. I might be personally guilty of confusing boredom with hunger, but what I’m suggesting here has nothing to do with my bad habits. Cooking when you’re not hungry means that you’re actually able to take time to follow all the steps and make something you wouldn’t usually try. You can start with one of our four dozen Get Baked recipes or, if you’ve got a sweet tooth, try making these beer-flavored marshmallows. I made them with bourbon barrel stout and topped them with popcorn and they were incredible.

2. Add Glitter to Everything


I mean really, why not? You can add glitter to your keys, your shoes, your phone, your sunglasses and almost anything else you own that has a hard surface.

3. Clean and Organize


Spring cleaning is overrated. Who wants to spend time scrubbing their floors when the weather is finally nice after 3 months of winter? Since we’ve just gotten into the coldest part of the year, take some time to clean your nest so that you’ll be cozy instead of cranky. If natural stuff is your thing, you can even make your own cleaners.

4. Learn to Code

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Okay, so ideally you should be giving a computer a nap right about now, but if coding’s what you want to do, code away. You can learn JavaScript, HTML, CSS, Python, or Ruby with CodeAcademy and get the nerdy equivalent of Girl Scout badges along the way. Lana Turing mentioned CodeYear in her Queer Your Tech post a few weeks ago, but it’s such a cool program that it’s worth bringing up again.

5. Make a Beer Tote


What could possibly be more useful than a handsome wooden 6-pack tote for your beer? It even has a built-in bottle opener. If I ever get a cordless drill, you best believe this is going to be the first thing I make.

6. Soothe Your Skin and Hair

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Francheska Medina of Hey Fran Hey is a natural beauty superhero. She’s got videos for eight different lotion, deodorant and hair gel recipes along with tons of other vlogs on her YouTube channel that’ll help you get started moving from store-bought to natural products.

7. Grill Indoors


I have a confession: I have no self-control when it comes to tiny things. This tiny grill is powerful enough to cook a hamburger and little enough to fit in your pocket. One drawback: it’s made with an Altoids sours tin, a candy that the company doesn’t make anymore. You’ll have to look around to find a good replacement, but it shouldn’t be too tricky.

8. Learn to Sew


Knowing how to sew expands your wardrobe horizons past the ends of the earth. The shirt that fit except for those weird darts? Take them out. Those pants that were just a little too long? Hem them yourself instead of waiting on a tailor. Thrift store finds? Beyond easy to repurpose as something cute. Start with a small project like this tie wallet and phone case or this wearable version.

What are you weirdos doing to keep yourself busy this week?

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  1. Learn to sew. Learn to sew. Learn to sew. Seriously guys, the possibilities are endless. The only downside is that I don’t have my own sewing machine, so that means every time I visit my parents, I spend the entire time sewing on my mom’s 35 year old Singer that’s been rebuilt twice after my dad used it on sail covers. Works out pretty well, ’cause there’s not much else to do around here.

  2. Love this list, though I will stay clear of coding for fear I may explode my dear sweet computer.

    Also, I remember a similar quote thrown at me as a kid. From my tart godmother, in response to my incessant whining of not having any kids to play with, “Well, find something, do SOMEthing. Only boring people get bored. If you’re bored, you’re not paying attention.” Hah. Needless to say I went outside and extended my treasure collection of rocks that looked like faces.

  3. I’ve been taking some much needed ‘me time’ (or being a llama as Cx. Tiara calls it. Good one!) I’ve been bouncing between different partner’s homes, I’ve been so busy that I actually haven’t slept in my own bed for a week! Polyamory is fun but I just need to be an introvert sometimes or I get anxious and depressed.

    Tonight I took a long bath with a sparkly bath bomb my girlfriend gave me, lit incense and spent the whole evening reading my new Christmas books. Tomorrow I’m getting pizza and watching my big stack of new movies after I take care of the dishes. So good!

  4. Glitter really does make everything better in my world. :) I’m no grill master, but I’m curious about that little grill. I’m kinda scared though because knowing me, I might find a way to either blow something up or set something on fire. The DIY on here is awesome…..things I never would’ve thought of.

  5. I want to glitter my keys right now! I cannot believe I never thought of doing this before!I will be able to tell all of my keys apart!

    Also, thank you for the coding website. I’m going to have fun with these. Also, the natural beauty remedies will come in handy.

  6. I am never bored, I just go into my Darkroom and turn on the music and process film…or; swim my azz all the while inter erupting my training to say hello to everyone…..I mean Everyone and get their history…loads of fun and get coffee dates with all.

  7. I wish I knew what being bored is. As a full-time college student with two jobs during grad school application season who also has to feed and launder a house of people, I would do desperate things to be bored enough to make that adorable teeny grill. because I could have fresh hamburgers in all situations. I mean, really. I need it.

  8. I did the glitter keys yesterday!!
    Since I have no arts & crafts suplies but way too much nail polish I simply put two coats of coloured nailpolish on my keys and one coat of glitter nail polish.
    Just make sure to let them dry as long as possible over night (for exmaple hanging from a nail, so they don’t get stuck on anything).

    I love the result!! So fancy:

  9. I’m obsessively learning how to play harmonica, drinking lots of apple cider and red wine, and eating ferraro rocher chocolate.
    This is helping me to curb my university application anxiety. I can’t handle not knowing what i’m going to be doing this same time next year. Getting drunk off of cheap wine helps me delude myself into thinking that if everything else fails, at least I will become an amazing harmonica player and hopefully start a one person band, with lots of cute girls fawning over my harp playing skills(even though I am terrible and can’t even play mary had a little lamb)

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