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Danny Lavery on What It’s Like To Be an Advice Columnist

“I would imagine a lot of the same things draw to advice columns that draw everyone, which is just that same impulse to run outside if somebody says there’s a fight.”

Yashwina April 4, 2023 3 Comments
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The L Word: Generation Q TV News & Trailers

Showtime Removes Generation Q From Platform, Thus Deeply Wounding Our Community

The queer community was dealt another severe blow last week when The L Word: Generation Q and Work in Progress were removed from Showtime’s streaming service.

Riese April 4, 2023 31 Comments
Forget Me Not by Alyson Derrick
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This YA Book Is a Great Queer Second-Chance Romance

What would you do if the one person you loved the most was the one person you cannot remember?

Sa'iyda Shabazz April 4, 2023
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Puzzles

Guessing Game: You Can Pry It from Our Frozen Gay Hands

Why did the primordial soup slip across the great unknown?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 4, 2023 15 Comments
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Autostraddle March Madness 2023: Trope-y Wives Champion – Maya Bishop and Carina Deluca!

Five years in, and this thing just keeps getting more fun! Let’s do it again next year, shall we?

Natalie April 3, 2023 7 Comments
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Relationships

How Polyamory Pushed Me to Prioritize My Pelvic Health

Communicating openly about sex and pelvic health with my partners helps me advocate for myself in medical settings.

Samantha Puc April 3, 2023 5 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Drag Race Star Jinkx Monsoon Is Doctor Who’s New Queer Pal

Tawny Cypress thinks you might hate some things about Yellowjackets season two, Hannah Waddingham wants to be mauled to death by Jodie Comer, and more!

Heather Hogan April 3, 2023 8 Comments
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Breakups Money + Work

Thank You, Ex: For Teaching Me To Save for Retirement

Bless my ex, and her bestie, because they both patiently explained why actually, there’s nothing punk rock about not taking care of your future self if you have the means to.

Vanessa April 3, 2023 25 Comments
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Spring Edit: Must-Have Accessories for Your Next Queer Picnic

Welcome to Spring Edit, a new miniseries all about giving your life a little refresh for warmer weather.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 3, 2023 11 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Had a Lightbulb Moment

Why did Mickey Mouse become an astronaut?

Rachel April 3, 2023 4 Comments
All eight classes of D&D Characters featured in this quiz: Barbarian Bard Cleric Druid Monk Rogue Paladin Ranger
Quizzes

Quiz: Which Dungeons & Dragons Class Is Your Sexuality?

It’s time, once again, for a completely scientifically sound test to reveal your deepest truths to yourself and also to the internet.

Heather Hogan April 2, 2023 23 Comments
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Movie Lists TV Lists

April 2023: What’s New and Gay To Stream

We’ve got Rachel Weisz as a lesbian obstetrician in a psychosexual thriller! A bisexual daughter in “Tiny Beautiful Things”! Grease: Rise of the Pink Ladies! Maria Bello as a lesbian billionaire in A24’s “Beef” series! And honestly this time… so much more.

Riese April 2, 2023 10 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for April 2023

When the chaos of the world is unceasing, get quiet and listen to what’s underneath the waves.

Corina Dross April 2, 2023 3 Comments
Drag Race 1514 recap: A black and white image of Sasha Colby dressed as Barb Wire in a spaceship window.
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1514 Recap: Alien Superstars

While Sasha is dancing, Anetra says, “Sasha is so hot. Am I lesbian?” I do not have an answer for her, I do have an answer for me and that answer is yes very much so.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 2, 2023 4 Comments
Ava from Warrior Nun, Tara from True Blood, Jenny from The L Word, Bill Potts from Dr. Who, Lexa from The 100, Delphine from Orphan Black, and Willow from Buffy
TV Lists

20 Undead Sapphic TV Characters, Ranked by Brain Munching

Hopefully this will finally get me recognized by the Pulitzer nominating committee.

Heather Hogan April 1, 2023 14 Comments
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Comedy

An Open Letter From the Vampiric Council on Vampire Erasure

Everybody knows vampires are the gayest undead creatures.

Fright Dyke April 1, 2023 11 Comments
a pin that says ALL VAMPIRES ARE GAY, a single black doc marten boot, an array of spiked goth jewelry including a cuff, a spiked choker necklace, black cherries, and a spiky leather jacket. a femme in a black sheer buttondown shirt, a masc with bleached hair in a black open leathery box-fit short sleeve buttondown and black shorts with white athletic socks and black slides, a femme with short choppy black hair in a black tight strapless bodysuit with a leather look, and a masc in a black cropped tee with black pants. everyone has vampire fangs with blood dripping from them.
Comedy

Caught Dead: Style Tips for Nonbinary Vampires

I’m not some kind of cartoon Dracula wearing a cravat and a cape every day. It leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Or maybe that was my last victim.

Nico April 1, 2023 2 Comments
a hand pulls a green ribbon and is surrounded by purple, red, and dark magenta flowers. the look has an overall watercolor vibe.
Comedy

I’m Just a Girl (With a Green Ribbon)

She places her fingers around my neck but does not squeeze.

The Girl With The Green Ribbon April 1, 2023 3 Comments
a woman with curly hair embraces a woman with long wavy hair who has cartoon fangs and blood on her chin. there's a graveyard background with tombstones that say RIP. there is also a faint blood spatter behind them and two bouquets of flowers on either side of them.
Comedy

You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Is Literally a Vampire

The reason your girlfriend is behaving like this is because she’s literally a vampire. I would know, because I’m also a vampire.

Fright Dyke April 1, 2023 11 Comments
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Comedy

This Zombie Bite Changed My Life

I’m grateful to the zombie community for welcoming me with literal outstretched arms.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 1, 2023 4 Comments
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