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LGBT Book Reviews

On “Tango: My Childhood Backwards and in High Heels”

“So much second-guessing involved every decision that I made that I became a paradox in a way, a combination of bravado and insecurity.”

annika August 18, 2011 16 Comments
Politics + Activism

Talking About Gay People: Christine O’Donnell and Michele Bachmann Don’t Wanna Do It

I would not like them here or there. I would not like them anywhere. I do not like man-on-man. I do not like them, Sam-I-am.

Rachel August 18, 2011 32 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Horns Up!

For those of us who like our music on the heavy side.

Crystal August 18, 2011 59 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Glee Kids Strike A Pose for Vogue As Jane Lynch Releases Memoir

Glee kids get dressed up for Vogue, Jane Lynch is the busiest woman in Hollywood, Adam Levine is Out’s coverboy, no more Bette & Tina drama for Calzona on Grey’s Anatomy.

Jess August 17, 2011 25 Comments
Community

Happy 23rd Birthday, Rachel Our Senior Editor! You Win All The Things!

Rachel is going places. Seriously, like she just moved to Michigan, for example. AND GOT OLDER.

the team August 17, 2011 57 Comments
TV News & Trailers

General Mills, RE/MAX Won’t Advertise on “Pretty Little Liars,” Save Kids From Radical Lesbian Agenda

“ABC using salacious and glamorizing scenes portraying young, pretty women as lesbians sends the wrong message to these young girls…reinforces and legitimizes this lifestyle in a manner that could affect these young girls’ sexual identity for a lifetime.”

Riese August 17, 2011 87 Comments
Queer Fashion

Turned Out: My New Favorite Fashion Blog

Emily’s Team Pick: A fashion blog for all your hipster needs.

Emily August 17, 2011 7 Comments
Geekery Music

Spotify & Turntable.fm: Streaming Music to Forever Please Your Heartparts

Two totally sweet ways to let an endless, all-you-can-stream cascade of music wash over you at all times.

taylor August 17, 2011 142 Comments
Music

Make A Rainbow Connection With The Muppets and The Green Album

Rachel’s Team Pick: Listen to The Muppets: The Green Album at NPR right now and tell me it doesn’t make your day.

Rachel August 17, 2011 5 Comments
Community

LGBT Activist Christina Santiago, 29, Was Here

Christina Santiago was killed in Indianapolis on Saturday when the stage collapsed. She was a brilliant activist and she was Gaby’s best friend.

Riese August 17, 2011 51 Comments
Politics + Activism

I Bet You Were Wondering What’s New With DADT

The reader’s digest version: People in charge: “Hunky dory,” Gay lady: “Swimmingly,” Gay guy: “Ehh, pretty good,” Republicans: “Danger Will Robinson!,” Gay soldiers’ organizations: “Please sir, I want some more.”

Laura August 16, 2011 15 Comments
Music

Hannah and Maggie: Cute Lesbians, Good Music

Sebastian’s Team Pick: “I was sort of worried that it was too predictable to show you guys an acoustic singer/songwriter duo of lezzies in their early 20s, but…”

Sebastian August 16, 2011 21 Comments
Politics + Activism

Gay Students Still Face Web Filtering And “Neutrality” In School

It’s still tough to be a queer high school student, especially in these districts in Missouri and Minnesota.

Rachel August 16, 2011 5 Comments
Music

Lady Gaga’s “You & I” Music Video Premieres: OPEN THREAD

Gaga in drag is my favorite thing.

Jess August 16, 2011 79 Comments
Politics + Activism

Michele Bachmann Wins Iowa Straw Poll, Ron Paul Places Second – Should We Panic?

Probably not — Bachmann and Paul’s Ames straw poll victory isn’t the end of the world or the race.

Rose August 16, 2011 91 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Do Women Like Sex, Or Just Sexual Economics?

Debate is raging about the economics of sex versus women’s desire — but what does it mean for lesbians?

Jamie J. Hagen August 16, 2011 37 Comments
Queer Fashion

Lizz’s Latest: Make Summer All Fall Long with Patterned Stockings

Getting real, the economy just tanked so bad you’ll be lucky if you even have a school to go back to….So I’m just going to hold off on storing my summerwear and buy some patterned stockings to make my shorts last through November.

Lizz August 16, 2011 22 Comments
Society + Culture

It’s Tuesday Gay Good News Day Because The Numbers Are On Our Side

There are 87% more of us in the desert, everyone wants us to get married, basically in general we’re multiplying rapidly and sooner or later will inevitably take over.

Carmen August 16, 2011 9 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Like It’s 2003

“So maybe you can relate to that feeling or maybe you just needed a good excuse to listen to that Bowling For Soup song again.”

Laneia August 15, 2011 31 Comments
Queer Fashion

Andrej Pejic, “The Prettiest Boy in the World,” Models Through It

“It’s not like, ‘Okay, today I want to look like a man, or today I want to look like a woman. I want to look like me. It just so happens that some of the things I like are feminine.”

Riese August 15, 2011 71 Comments
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