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At their heart, great sex and great basketball rely on the same fundamental principles: trust, attention, collaboration, and a desire to create something with whoever you’re with.

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Drew Burnett Gregory May 13, 2025 6 Comments
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With Its Queer Storyline, ‘The Righteous Gemstones’ Encouraged Christians To Listen to Their God

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AF+ Dating

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First Person

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