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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #79: Subterranean Homesick Blues

Topics include Fibrodysplasia ossificans progressiva (FOP), web developers, poetry and death, meth, psychic Sylvia Browne, Coyote Ugly, Wikipedia, The Whole Earth Catalog and more!

Riese June 14, 2013 6 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

DIY Beauty Bar: Flaxseed Gel For All Your Coiffure Needs

This stuff holds your hair in place without giving it that oh so popular glue-in-your-hair look that so many gels offer.

Laura June 14, 2013 24 Comments
Home Relationships

Home Sweet Homo: Moving Tips for Efficient U-Hauling

Moving isn’t fun. Here are some tips that won’t actually make it fun, but maybe survivable, and that’s a start.

Hansen June 14, 2013 22 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #22: Reading As Performing

Where to find queer books to read, starting books but not finishing them, perceived gender, 1984 and more.

Ryan Yates June 13, 2013 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Fosters” Episode 102 Recap: Little Lying Lhasa Apsos

“My sister has Lhasa Apsos and one of them bit my son in the face and now I don’t like Lhasa Apsos and this is unintentional foreshadowing because it turns out I don’t like Marianna much in this episode either.”

Vikki Reich June 13, 2013 49 Comments
First Person Gender Issues

The Incredibly True Story Of How Cissexism Made My Same-Sex Marriage Legal

Thanks to a simple governmental regulation, my wife and I were able to exploit a legal loophole and obtain a federally recognized marriage.

Elizabeth June 13, 2013 34 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Brooklyn-Based Queer Musicians With A Lot Of (Upbeat) Feelings

Brooklyn! Brooklyn is a pretty rad place, I hear. They’ve got that bridge situation going on.

Intern Grace June 13, 2013 5 Comments
Music

Crush Of The Week: Meshell Ndegeocello

“Between her bass playing, her come-to-me smoky voice, her gender-bending outfits, and (at the time) bald head, I swoonily followed her through her musical universe as she had some shooting-star hits.”

Andrea Plaid June 13, 2013 20 Comments
Travel

A Prairie Homo Does New York: Ten Things I Hate About Mice

New York is more than taxi cabs, street food, and crowds. There’re also mice, rats, and cockroaches! Lots of them! How exciting, right?

Malaika June 13, 2013 36 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Taye Diggs Puts a Rainbow On It

Put a rainbow on this week’s party as we watch the video for “The Gayest of All time”, listen to Taye Diggs ruin hip hop, and check out the new show about women in prison from the creator of “Weeds”.

Brittani June 13, 2013 13 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Dolores Huerta Stands Up for Gay Marriage and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Familia es Familia, unless you’re in the Salvation Army. Or Louisiana.

Carmen June 12, 2013 8 Comments
The Scene

You Should Go: Babeland Throws Us Another Party

Free cocktails, a workshop on kink, and YOU. NYC, June 20. See you there.

Gabrielle Korn June 12, 2013 20 Comments
Music

Jenny Owen Youngs Is Super Gay: The Autostraddle Interview

Jenny Owen Youngs just officially came out on EveryoneIsGay.com!

Crystal June 12, 2013 82 Comments
TV Feature

VIDEO: “Little Horribles” Episode 2: LMFAO

Is “Little Horribles” the lesbian “Girls”? I don’t know. The lesbians in my neighborhood that I’ve never met seem to think so. Watch episode 2 and decide for yourself.

Brittani June 12, 2013 14 Comments
Community

If You’re Proud And You Know It Clap Your Hands: The International Pride Event Roundup

Pride is upon us, and as such, I bet you’re wondering what that entails for your local city!

the team June 12, 2013 54 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: Andy Bowen

A super interesting trans ‘glitch dub’ artist and activist from DC.

Crystal June 12, 2013 3 Comments
Politics + Activism

We Sorta Won a Thing: Taxation and the Long Fight for Marriage Equality in Germany

A recent ruling could finally pave the way for a more thorough redefinition of marriage and family in Germany and it’s on everyone’s favorite topic: taxation.

Maria June 11, 2013 25 Comments
Queer Fashion

More Than Words: Dapper? I Hardly Know Her

(After you read this post you will, though.)

Cara June 11, 2013 17 Comments
The Scene

You Should Go: Top Picks Of All The Things In NYC This Month

Parties and fundraisers and other exciting things happening in New York this June.

Gabrielle Korn June 11, 2013 10 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Bonnaroo Days And Nights 2013

The day starts at daybreak whether you like it or not, so drink a little coffee and a lot of water and take a hard look at your schedule. Don’t miss anything.

Morgan June 11, 2013 7 Comments
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