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Friendship

Butch Please: Butch Seeking Butch (For Friendship)

Okay, I’ll say it: I have trouble making butch friends. Actually, I have trouble feeling like I am a part of the butch community, period.

Kate June 30, 2013 56 Comments
Society + Culture

Let’s Celebrate Our First Sunday Funday In A Post-DOMA World

Yes, we need to keep working. But can we fuckin’ party for a second please.

Carmen June 30, 2013 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars 403: Cat’s Cradle, Silver Snoop

The week on Pretty Little Liars everyone is snooping around and we catch up on some Deep Thoughts with Melissa Hastings.

Lizz June 29, 2013 16 Comments
Comedy

Team Pick: Five Stars for the Amazon Reviews of Wendy Davis’s Filibuster Sneakers

Ali’s Team Pick: Because everyone in the U.S. with half a brain has already team picked Wendy Davis as a Senator and badass super human, I will do everyone a feminist-comedy-solid by team picking the Amazon Review of Wendy Davis’s sneakers.

A.E. Osworth June 29, 2013 19 Comments
Geekery

Google Goggles Galore: Google-Related Things That Happened This Week

Google, guys. There was a lot doing at Google this week. Flipping through all my tech websites, I felt like Google was covered even more than normal.

A.E. Osworth June 29, 2013 3 Comments
Politics + Activism

Joy and Rage: Why the Fight for Queer Equality Doesn’t End with Marriage

The struggles of queer and trans* people are no less important than the struggles of gay people, and if they move forward without us, they are not moving forward at all.

phoenix June 28, 2013 34 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Getting Married

Will you marry us?

carrie June 28, 2013 11 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Canadian Children’s Book Explains How Babies are Made in a Gender-Neutral Way!

“Every thing that grows, grows differently. Each of us grow in our own way.”

Malaika June 28, 2013 19 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Hair

DIY Beauty Bar: Dry Shampoo For Everyone

Summertime means staying up late on warm nights… maybe even too late to wash your hair. We’ve got just the thing for you.

Laura June 28, 2013 17 Comments
First Person

This Happens: Sexual Assault Between Queer Women

Poet Leah Horlick comes out about her search for healing and answers after surviving lesbian sexual assault.

Leah June 28, 2013 49 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #81: If Sophie Had To Choose Between Two Awesome Things

Topics include temp workers, Dennis Rodman, Phish, Kanye, Wilcox County’s first integrated prom, murder, fertility, Mary McCarthy and so much more!

Riese June 28, 2013 7 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Quilting for QUILTBAGS Part 1: It’s All In The Design

Ever wanted to make a blanket? There are centuries of grandmas and just generally grand people who have been making quilts and will happily lend their shoulders for us to stand on.

Laura June 28, 2013 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

Team Pick: A Tumblr Which Brings Sanity to the Internet Like Ginsburg to the SCOTUS

Cara’s Team Pick: The Notorious RBG is a new Tumblr dedicated to promoting the life and work of the Supreme Court’s second female justice of all time. (It’s 2013, just as a reminder.)

Carmen June 28, 2013 7 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #23: A Spectacle To Taste

Queer book recommendations, oral histories, poet-prostitute profiles, if Gertrude Stein reviewed beer and more.

Ryan Yates June 27, 2013 3 Comments
Travel

Not Your Heteronormative Weekend Getaway: The Survival Guide

Qwear’s Sonny and Champagne just got back from Ptown’s “Ladies” Weekend and have a pocketful of tips – fashion and otherwise – for your next queer weekend away.

Qwear June 27, 2013 23 Comments
Straddleverse

We Need Help: Hiring Writers and an Associate Editor!

We’re hiring Contributing Editors and a new Associate Editor! It’s your big chance to join the weirdest band of weirdos in the history of the queer web!

the team June 27, 2013 40 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Robyn’s 2-Year-Old Cures Resting Bitch Face

New music videos from Robyn and Yeah Yeah Yeahs, the cure for RBF, and a web series guided by a 2-year-old’s dialogue with her father.

Brittani June 27, 2013 6 Comments
First Person

A Prairie Homo Does New York: Homeward Trouble

I thought, “Hey New York, just cause you wear these cool designer bridges across your rivers and you’ve got some graffiti on your interesting architecture, doesn’t mean I have to like you, okay?” But I do like New York in spite of myself.

Malaika June 27, 2013 4 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Fosters” Episode 104 Recap: The One With The Quinceañera

“He slurs, “It’s a party, Stef. Have some fun.” Geez Mike. Way to get personal. Everyone knows lesbians are no fun.”

Vikki Reich June 27, 2013 30 Comments
Comedy

Team Pick: DeAnne Smith Debuts Her Brand New Podcast, It’s Smart And Perfect

“I hope nobody’s listening.” – DeAnne Smith

Vanessa June 27, 2013 18 Comments
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