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Life

Dear Queer Diary: Your Journal Is Not a Poltergeist

Journaling should never, ever (ever!) make you guilty or sad or stressed-out. Journaling should make you feel calm and happy and filled with wonder at the beauties of the world.

Maggie November 14, 2013 17 Comments
Book Features

Autostraddle Book Club #7: We’re Reading “Blue Is The Warmest Color”

And! Because I’m the one doing the book club, I have a bit of an added element. There is a drink recipe in here, folks!

A.E. Osworth November 14, 2013 31 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: As The Crow Flies Helps You Relive Your Awkward Camp Memories

Melanie Gillman’s webcomic As the Crow Flies tells the story of a young, queer girl of color trying to find her place at a Christian camp filled with people she can’t relate to.

Mey November 14, 2013 10 Comments
Queer Fashion

Queer Outfit of the Week: Dapper and Cuddly Movie Date

It’s a movie date so you want to be one part dapper chic and one part snuggly! Maybe two parts snuggly.

Lizz November 13, 2013 15 Comments
Comedy

VIDEO: “Little Horribles” Episode 11: Spinning

Who needs spinning class when there are bacon double cheeseburgers?

Brittani November 13, 2013 4 Comments
Politics + Activism

Recent EU Court Ruling Might Make Life Less Miserable For LGB Asylum Seekers

Last week’s ruling by the European Court of Justice is being hailed as a “landmark” change for LGB asylum seekers – that is, if you’re willing to overlook how asylum seekers in the EU are regularly detained, demonised and deported.

Fikri November 13, 2013 7 Comments
Theater

“Fun Home” is Relatable, Brilliant and Paving the Way for Women Musical Theatre Writers

Not only does Fun Home put a lesbian center stage, the lesbian character is a fully developed, three dimensional human being with thoughts, feelings, and complex issues.

Rachel November 13, 2013 16 Comments
Camp

A-Camp October 2013 Recamp #2: How Do You Spell “Regalement”?

On day two we read our feelings out loud, stripped and spelled, tied each other up, got crazy/beautiful and cheered for our lives!

Riese November 13, 2013 73 Comments
Music

GIVEAWAY: Win Tickets To See Mary Lambert In NYC This Weekend

Hey NYC, wanna see Mary Lambert for free this Saturday night? Duh, of course you do. We can make that happen.

Vanessa November 13, 2013 4 Comments
Politics + Activism

Thanks But No Thanks, Joss Whedon; You Can Keep “Genderist” While We Tackle Sexism

Here’s why.

Laura Mandanas November 13, 2013 37 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Brittney Griner’s Makeup Class and Other Stories We Missed This Week

From the OUT 100 to the first lady of Zambia to Michelle Tea’s marriage, it turns out there was a lot of queer shit going down while I was working late nights in the office.

Carmen November 13, 2013 12 Comments
Friendship

On Navigating the Unexpected Death of a Queer Friend

“You may have lost someone who may have meant different things to you than they did to other people, but at the end of the day you know who they were to you, and perhaps what they meant to your community of queers.”

Lauren November 13, 2013 15 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Super Special Double Feature “Once Upon A Time” Episodes 306 and 307 Recap: Part of Your Healthy Uterine World

“But then again, my favorite princess was Belle, whose Stockholm Syndrome didn’t register as an issue to me, so long story short: Disney princesses fucked with all of our childhood concepts of healthy relationships.”

Kate November 13, 2013 26 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: Hannah Thomas

Check out Hannah Thomas’ rockin’ Americana and her sweet pup Roxy!

Stef November 13, 2013 3 Comments
Politics + Activism

WaPo’s Racist Misogynist Columnist Richard Cohen Still Not Fired Despite Racism, Misogyny

This week, Cohen asserts “people with conventional views must repress a gag reflex when considering the mayor-elect of New York — a white man married to a black woman…” who “used to be a lesbian.” WOW!

Riese November 12, 2013 20 Comments
Community

The Poet and the Scientist: Surprises in Portlandia

Our journey continues through the Pacific Northwest with creepy doughnuts, surprise parties, and musical theatre!

Ashley Catharine November 12, 2013 5 Comments
TV Feature

The Adventures of Tiny Pineapple Episode 103: Best Day Ever

“Wait, everyone just ignore the bird.”

Laneia November 12, 2013 16 Comments
Camp

A-Camp October 2013 Recamp #1: Let It Snow!

It’s our first behind-the-scenes A-Camp 4.0 Recamp in which we reminisce about the day before we met you and the day we met you and how everything started to snow!

Riese November 12, 2013 129 Comments
School

Let Them Know You’re Here: Queering the College Tour

Keep an eye out for the queers on the tour, and let them know you’re here!

Maddie November 12, 2013 31 Comments
Geekery

High Femme: 6 Stoner Apps for Your Stoner iPhone or Android

Dispensary reviews, cross-referencing strain libraries, light saber wars and much more!

Chelsea November 12, 2013 18 Comments
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