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You Need Help: How Can I Make Penetration Less Painful?
You shouldn’t have pain during sex. If you want to explore penetration, that has to be a choice you’re making for your own pleasure.
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How to Shop for Accessible Sex Toys When You Live With Chronic Pain
Living with chronic pain has taught me how to help myself and others achieve pleasure using accessible sex toys.
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7 Sex Toys for Fat, Queer Sex and Masturbation
As fat folks, we have to get creative in the bedroom. Fortunately, there are plenty of toys that can help you have your best fat, queer sex with yourself or with a partner.
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37 Quotes From Queer Authors About Heartbreak, Loss and Moving the F*ck On
“Even as I hold you, I am letting you go.”
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How to Finger Your Partner When You Have Chronic Pain in Your Hands
A few minor adjustments can make fingering easier, even when chronic pain is cramping your style.
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The Roslyn Bodysuit Harness and the B.Cush Made Me Feel Hot and Horny
I took the advice of wise strappers before me and wore the harness and b.cush around the house for a while.
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What If, Lube?
Lube. Just lube. Lube for regular sex, with or without toys. Lube anytime, for anything. It’s lube!
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10 Hot Things You Can Do to Boobs, Chests, and Nipples
It’s spring! Tits the season for appreciating boobs, chests, and nipples — so let’s do some chestploration and nipple stimulation!
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10 Ways to Celebrate Masturbation May
Give yourself a hand — it’s International Masturbation Month!
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Dykes on Dates: Tips for Topping (Homemade Pizza)
You don’t have to be a seasoned home chef to make pizza date night a reality! I’ve got tips for all skill levels and price points.
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How To Plan a Cozy, Sexy Holiday Date Night
Gifts don’t have to be physical objects. Setting up a sweet, sexy date-night-in for your partner or polycule can be an incredibly meaningful experience, as well as a beautiful way to show your care and affection.
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8 Things to Have In Your Home Before You Hook Up With a Fat Babe
That cute, chubby hottie you’ve been dating is coming over! Let’s get your space prepped!
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Holigay Gift Guide: Stocking Stuffers Under $20 for the Sweetheart Whose ‘Stocking’ You ‘Stuff’
Shops this list of toys and accessories that are under $20 and have yourself a hole-y night.
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12 Sex Toys for When You Wanna Do the Monster Smash
Shop this list to snag a toy fit for werewolf roleplay or a staged alien abduction or elaborate masturbation to vampire erotica.
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Strap-On Harnesses For Every Stage Of Your Strap Journey
It’ll give comfort! It’ll give control! It’ll give rock star!! And who doesn’t want to feel like the main character when they’re blowing their partner’s back out!
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Special Episode: 2021 Mailbag
Happy holidays! And by “happy” I mean, things sure feel really bad right now?? But luckily our gift to you is a virtual one AKA our long-awaited mailbag episode!
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Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding
As a plus sized baddie on a budget, I’ve listed these gay wedding outfit options from least expensive to most expensive. It’s hard to be gay and look cool and not be broke!
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Don’t Let Your Nail Length Stop You From Having Great Sex
1998 called — they said sorry for pushing stereotypes about nails and queer sex. Shelli and Ro are here to set the record straight.
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6 Queer-Owned Sex Shops You’ll Vibe With
As we stock up on toys and lube for winter, we can put our queer money back into queer-owned sex shops!