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Culture Parenting & Family

Can Immigrant Mothers Heal With Their Queer Kids? These Desi Aunties Are Trying

Desi parents get a bad rap in America. Across TV and social media, immigrant aunties are typecast as judgmental or conservative, or else passive victims of circumstance, unable to navigate American society as fluently as their children.

Malavika Kannan June 10, 2025 4 Comments
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Queer Mom Chronicles: Happy Pride Y’all!

I was able to teach my son the un-whitewashed version of the Stonewall riots, giving power to the black and brown folks that put their bodies on the line so that his mom could be free to love freely.

Sa'iyda Shabazz June 5, 2023 15 Comments
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Sou Sou Things: My Queer Caribbean Community Saves Money & Each Other

Even though we may struggle, as long as one of us has — all of us will have.

Amy Li Baksh May 19, 2023 6 Comments
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Community Health

Practical Magic: COVID Is Here to Stay — So What Does It Mean to Keep Each Other Safe?

We can be more thoughtful about how we interact with others during these enduringly uncertain times.

himani February 23, 2023 76 Comments
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Community Holigays

What Brought You Joy This Year?

This is a New Year’s Eve Roundtable and Open Thread Situation!

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Community Jewish Holidays

Hanukkah Lights From the Disabled Community

Creating new rituals and ways of expressing and celebrating Judaism is nothing new within our tradition — all that’s needed is some creativity and care.

Riley Aster December 20, 2022 9 Comments
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Halloween Straddleverse

Fright Dyke Has a Message for the Final Gays

Are the lights on?

Fright Dyke October 31, 2022 4 Comments
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Health LGBT Pride

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We clown on the commodification of Pride, but what good is that if we continue to perpetuate all the ableism intrinsic in capitalism in our own spaces?

Heather Hogan June 2, 2022 15 Comments
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LGBT Pride Parenting & Family

Nudity, Kink, and Safe Spaces for Kids Can All Coexist at Pride

As a gay parent, I have a lot of grievances about Pride — not one of them is about bare body parts or leather dykes and daddies.

KaeLyn June 22, 2021 34 Comments
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Culture Health

How to Take Care of Each Other: Community Care In Times Of Crisis

“When we’ve all broken past the fear of being burdens on others, when we as communities learn how to ask for and give help and support, we’ll be able to take care of each other.”

Abbie Jones June 8, 2020 17 Comments
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If you want to build community with Jewish queers by hosting a regular Shabbat dinner practice, OneTable is a non-profit organization that can help you achieve your dreams!

Vanessa September 10, 2019 1 Comment
Community Holigays

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Celebrate the end of #20GAYTEEN with 20% off everything in the Autostraddle store! We’re pretty sure that your happiness and our future depends on it.

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If you want to host a Cozy Holigay Meet-Up, here’s what to do.

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Halloween Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Tell Me Your Spookiest Stories!

It’s the Friday before Halloween and I want to know your spookiest stories!! ??

Ari October 26, 2018 50 Comments
Community Halloween

Halloween Is the Holiday of Our People, Submit Photos for Our Community Costume Gallery

Send me photos of yourself in costume! Send me photos of your pet in costume! I’m making us a family photo album and I need your help!

Vanessa October 12, 2018 5 Comments
Community Travel

Fatventure Mag Is Here to Reshape the Way We Tell Stories About Fat People and Adventures

Fatventure Mag, a print and digital magazine, seeks to change the narrative about who deserves an adventurous life and who can tell stories about those adventures. The first volume is brimming with the voices of fat outdoorsy women and non-binary folks – and you have 5 days left to donate to its Kickstarter to make it a reality!

Vanessa May 30, 2018 3 Comments
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Community Jewish Holidays

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In a couple of weeks I’m hosting my very first queer Seder. Let’s talk about how we celebrate Passover!

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The Most Wonderful Time Of Year: Holigay Meet-Up Season!

It’s the most wonderful time of year so let’s spend it with our chosen family!

Vanessa November 17, 2017 48 Comments
Community Halloween

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