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Shibari 101: Hogtie

Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!

cee May 31, 2018 3 Comments
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A+ Sex Diary: Fucking and Napping

Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature for Silver & Gold members in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: A single, soft butch writer openly dating multiple people. Lesbian, 32, the American west.

Guest May 31, 2018 14 Comments
Music

Hayley Kiyoko and Kehlani’s “What I Need” Video Takes Gay Agenda to Beautiful New Heights

“These two coming together and being so loud and proud about their sexuality and their love for their queer fans is my favorite thing in the world.”

Mey May 31, 2018 27 Comments
Quizzes

Dark Trivia Quiz: For Murderinos, Crime TV Fanatics and Other Twisted Souls

Do you know a little bit too much about murder and cults and stuff? So do we!

Riese May 31, 2018 20 Comments
Sex Visual Art

25 NSFW Sex Collages Inspired By Your Queer Erotic Imaginations and/or Lesbian Sexual Fantasies

You came to “Sexing the Collage Cherry” and boi are your arms tired.

Riese May 31, 2018 18 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix: Lesbian Ad Finally Convinces Laneia To Go to Las Vegas, Maybe

Topics include that lesbian Las Vegas ad, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Roseanne, Sense8’s finale, early Pose reviews, Syd, the debate over the Charmed reboot, “Why L.G.B.T.-Centered TV Is Stuck in the Past,” Cameron Esposito’s new stand-up set and so much more!

Riese May 30, 2018 17 Comments
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Some Millennial Women Giving Up On Men, Dating Women Exclusively Because We Are Supreme Beings

It’s time for another round of “there’s never been a better time to date a woman”!

Riese May 30, 2018 38 Comments
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10 Sex Toys to Help You Celebrate Masturbation Month All Year Long

Show yourself how much you mean to yourself, and then show yourself a great time with these ten toys.

Rachel May 30, 2018 8 Comments
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24 Queer YA Books Coming Out This Summer and Beyond

The queer YA books you’ll want to read at the beach, the park, and everywhere else this summer!

Casey May 30, 2018 7 Comments
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Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #48: Camp 2.0

A quick look back at A-Camp X!

A. Andrews May 30, 2018 26 Comments
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No Filter: Bury Me With This Picture of Janelle Monáe and Michelle Obama

Also, Brittani Nichols is hosting a fashion show and Evan Rachel Wood is being queerly influenced.

Stef May 30, 2018 10 Comments
Community Travel

Fatventure Mag Is Here to Reshape the Way We Tell Stories About Fat People and Adventures

Fatventure Mag, a print and digital magazine, seeks to change the narrative about who deserves an adventurous life and who can tell stories about those adventures. The first volume is brimming with the voices of fat outdoorsy women and non-binary folks – and you have 5 days left to donate to its Kickstarter to make it a reality!

Vanessa May 30, 2018 3 Comments
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LGBT Pride

We’ve Got Each Other: It’s Time To Meet Up For Autostraddle Pride 2018!

This year, let’s DIY a version of Pride that makes us all feel proud.

Vanessa May 29, 2018 62 Comments
Sex Toys

How To Buy A Strap-On Harness for Lesbian Sex

Everything you need to know about picking out a strap-on harness.

Ryan Yates May 29, 2018 2 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 320 Recap: Run, Alex, Run

Alex’s life is in danger, Reign is getting stronger, and Kara runs into someone from her past.

Valerie Anne May 29, 2018 32 Comments
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I Effing Love “Drawn to Sex: The Basics” by Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan

Accessible queer sex education, now available for everyone.

A.E. Osworth May 29, 2018 2 Comments
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Drawn to Comics: Carly Usdin’s “Heavy Vinyl” More Than Earns the Hype

“This book was so much better than I thought it was going to be and I thought it was going to be one of the best series of the year.”

Mey May 29, 2018 5 Comments
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Get Some Protein In You With This Go-To Disability Soup

Cooking while disabled is fucking hard; here’s some easy nutrition for you.

Siobhan May 29, 2018 17 Comments
TV Lists

21 Times “Killing Eve” Depicted Lesbian Relationship Scenarios With Dead-On Accuracy

The first season of Killing Eve, a classic love story between a long-haired butch assassin and her raven-haired married object d’amour came to its thrilling conclusion last night, offering itself as the year’s most authentic depiction of lesbian love in 2018. Please, come inside where I will make my case.

Riese May 28, 2018 30 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Deadpool 2” Gave Negasonic Teenage Warhead a Girlfriend

Negasonic Teenage Warhead got a girlfriend and it’s not a big deal in the movie but it’s a pretty big deal in general.

Valerie Anne May 28, 2018 22 Comments
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