You Need Help: Trusting Yourself in a New Relationship After Early Attachment Trauma
Possibly your trauma history is being triggered out of context in this relationship – but maybe it’s not. YOU are the expert, no matter what your trauma history is.
What We Love and Hate About Dating Libras
“I just know it would end badly and I’m already stressed about it because of all the processing that would inevitably have to happen!”
Pop Culture Fix: This Wacky Tig Notaro and Lena Headey Interview Will Make Your Day
You’re a wanker, number nine! Also, Shrill season two, more Queen Latifah news (but not that news), Delta puts the lesbians back in Booksmart, reality TV breakups, gay sports weddings, and more!
When Walking It Off Stops Working
This was the way we found power over pain: Move.
The Drag Kings of Taipei
I moved to California from Shanghai at fourteen and threw myself into learning how to be an American. It’s a lot like doing drag.
Sex, Love, and Roleplay: Using Online Roleplay to Connect to Your Partner
How I found my queer identity online, romantically connected with my partner, and how you can too in six easy steps!
On Netflix’s “Unbelievable” and the Culture of Serial Rapists
Netflix’s Unbelievable covers the true story of Marie Adler. For many women that have taken their rapist(s) to court, the show sheds light on painful truths.
Foolish Child #58: Mama!
“Did someone here order two rowdy kids?”
No Filter: Kristen Stewart’s 100% Ready To Marry Her Girlfriend and Hayley Kiyoko Has Bangs Now
Kristen Stewart’s planning to propose, Amber Heard is a great Tank Girl, Asia Kate Dillon does double denim, Janelle Monae wins the costume contest, Ali Krieger looks great in leggings and so much more in this week’s No Filter!
Queered & Careered: Things to Bring and Leave Behind
Queered & Careered is a column that offers tips and tricks on how to navigate career development as a queer person — from job searching to career inspiration to dealing with straight nonsense in the office.
“In the Dream House” Deconstructs the Nightmare of Abuse in Queer Relationships
Carmen Maria Machado’s first memoir, a deep dive into abuse between women both in Machado’s past relationship and in our world, is a wholly unique and wholly necessary text.
What Katie Hill’s Resignation Means for Young Queer People in Political Life
Congresswoman Katie Hill flipped a Congressional district last year; she has now resigned due to what she calls a “double standard” in politics.
You Need Help: Rebuilding Desire and Confidence in Your Partner
“How can I help her feel confident and in the mood again without sacrificing any more of myself?”
“Supergirl” Episode 505 Recap: Tidal Wave of Feelings
Alex and Kelly celebrate their Dativersery, Nia saves the day, and Lena really needs to get out of her lab for some fresh air.
Getting Stonewalled at Stone Mountain
What, were you expecting the National Anthem to be sung in Spanish?
When You’re Black and Queer but Masquerading as Straight While Listening to the Music of White Lesbians
Everybody knew.
10 Things I’ve Learned in 10 Years of Going to Play Parties
A play party is just like any other party — if it’s a good party, it’s probably a loud party, and if it’s a great party, it ends in an orgasm.
“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 301: Labia Majora with Fawzia Mirza
It’s the Season Three premiere with special guest Fawzia Mirza and wow, our favorite ladies are truly committed to some bizarre shenanigans. We’ve got a car chase, a white bikini, sexy ice cube and a gay bar in Skokie!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is in Tinder Purgatory
Why censoring sex works impacts everyone, life in Tinder purgatory, supporting a partner with sexual trauma and more.
All Sunday Funday Wants For Christmas Is More Queer Terminator Movies
Jingle all the way queermos! Terminator is GAY, Brittani Nichols released new sneakers, Spelman College news, podcasts for women, and lesbian sex on the plane! Happy Sunday!