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Dating

Getting in Bed With Kristin: Situationships, Invisalign, and Spike!

Come bask in Kristin’s vacation energy and get some loving advice at the same time!

Kristin March 29, 2019 1 Comment
"245 minutes til touchdown and i get railed" girl thinking on airplane
Dating

Traveling to Meet Your Long-Distance Online Crush: A Gentle Guide

It’s 2019 and the world is our hot gay oyster! But… how do you actually go about planning a trip to meet the faraway queer of your dreams? 

Vanessa March 26, 2019 7 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows the Real Problem With Keto Crotch

What a BDSM munch is, why keto crotch is rooted in misogyny, how to live with someone you just broke up with and more.

Ryan Yates March 24, 2019 6 Comments
AF+ Breakups

10 Queers on How the F*ck We Deal With Our Exes

“I want to treat everyone who has ever mattered to me with respect, and with a baseline kindness. I know not all my exes feel I’ve done that, but I have always tried.”

the team March 21, 2019 15 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Zumio X and Zumio S

If you know you like oscillation and fairly high intensity options, there’s a good chance one of the Zumios could be your new fave vibe! 

Guest March 19, 2019 2 Comments
Dating

No Tinder, No Problem: The Ancient Art of Asking Someone on a Gay Date IRL

It might seem like everybody is swiping, but if that’s not your jam, here’s some tips on the age-old art of asking someone out IRL.

Rachel March 19, 2019 7 Comments
La Muxer Diosa and Zoie Blackheart, getting blindfolded
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Self-Cleaning Oven

Don’t dry shampoo a vagina, a gender-neutral vibrator, why to schedule sex and more.

Ryan Yates March 17, 2019
Breakups

Getting in Bed With Kristin: Grief, Anxiety, and the Practicalities of Breakups

End your week with a little bit of love and advice!

Kristin March 15, 2019 3 Comments
Sex

Safe Sexting: Tech Tips for the Stress-Free Sexting You Deserve

The world is full of unknown and terrifying possibilities, like accidentally sending a nude to the family group chat because it was the most recent thing on your camera roll. Protect yourself and loved ones against these dangers and more with easy tips!

Rachel March 12, 2019 6 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: How Do I Get My Sexual Confidence Back?

You’re at your most vulnerable when you describe how afraid you are of never being desired by another again. Own that vulnerability, because really owning our soft parts is part of what confidence is.

Christina Tesoro March 11, 2019 9 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Rupture

You will never get closure, how to relearn how to masturbate as a trans women, golden showers and more.

Ryan Yates March 10, 2019
Dating

10 Queers Get Honest About Ghosting

Communication is hard, especially when you have to tell someone something they might not want to hear, which is why sometimes we… just don’t do it!

the team March 7, 2019 50 Comments
Sex Toys

YES NO MAYBE: Pink Lightbulbs and Wine Butt Plugs

“I’m gonna give this one an enthusiastic YES for the sole reason of their weird cow advertising.”

Archie March 6, 2019 38 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: Seeking Poly People and (Relationship) Anarchy in Small Town, U.S.A.

The first statement of the Relationship Anarchy Manifesto is that “Love is abundant,” so why don’t we start there? Love is abundant. What kind of love do you want to create in your life?

Christina Tesoro March 4, 2019 16 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Watching Hotel Room Porn

The history of hotel room porn, how to get comfortable with wearing a strap-on, sex might help you focus and more.

Ryan Yates March 3, 2019 7 Comments
Dating Movie Features

8 Cute Gay Dates Inspired by Lesbian Movies of 2018

You may not find all these movies romantic date material, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t something to work with there.

Rachel February 26, 2019 10 Comments
A black bearfemme with shortish natural hair and bare shoulders and a white trans woman with long brown hair and bare shoulders make out in this Crash Pad Series still
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Nothing If Not Consistent

What it means to show up for your partners, cutting the cord with an ex, a few approaches to non-monogamy, an anal anatomy lesson and more.

Ryan Yates February 24, 2019 4 Comments
Lesbian Dating Apps

11 Queers Share the Best and Worst Lines They’ve Gotten on Dating Apps

“’Look a little crazy huh’ with no punctuation.”

the team February 21, 2019 39 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Dating

How to Talk to Your Hot Gay Crush About Astrology When You Don’t Believe In It

It is a truth universally acknowledged that if you’re dating in any way, shape or form right now, the topic is going to come up and people you probably want to have sex with are going to care about where the planets were on the day you were born.

Rachel February 19, 2019 61 Comments
Beauty Sex

95% of Lesbians Keep Their Fingernails Short, All Hands On Deck

According to our Lesbian Stereotypes Survey, y’all have overwhelmingly short nails and also a lot of you play the piano?

Riese February 18, 2019 31 Comments
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