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Coming Out First Person

Confessions of a Beauty Queer: The Best Goodbye of My Life

“I was simply a girl who thought she liked girls at one point in her life, but prayed it away, and now life was good. Right?”

Djuan Trent May 29, 2014 33 Comments
Coming Out Geekery

I Talked to Penny Arcade’s Erika Greco About Her Beautiful Coming Out Comic “Mixtape”

Erika Greco’s wonderful comic “Mixtape” is an emotional journey through one woman’s coming out and a playlist of songs to match the mood.

Mey March 26, 2014 17 Comments
Coming Out Love + Sex

You Need Help: You Fell In Love With A Girl and It’s Exploding Your Whole Life

So you fell in love with a girl and it upended your life with family, kids and religion. What now?

Rachel March 13, 2014 28 Comments
Coming Out LGBT History

More Than Words: Coming Out Party

Skeletons and debutantes.

Cara March 10, 2014 9 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Coming Out

A Tale Of Two Ellens

On the journey from there to here.

Riese February 17, 2014 86 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Netflix Outed Me: “Gay & Lesbian Movies” Was My Smoking Gun

“Netflix is kinda like my fag hag, the kind that wraps you up in a warm rainbow blanket with a bowl of soup when you’re recovering from a Cinco de Mayo hangover.”

Nina January 8, 2014 68 Comments
Coming Out

Roundtable: On Coming Out In Our Applications, Interviews, and Lives

Should you tell your dream school that you’re queer in your college application? What about your future employer? The New York Times got us talking about this so we put together a roundtable and now we wanna know how you feel, too.

the team December 13, 2013 65 Comments
Coming Out

Dear Queer Diary: Coming Out on Paper

Coming out, one page at a time.

Maggie October 3, 2013 60 Comments
Coming Out Geekery

OPEN THREAD: Coming Out In The Sciences, Let’s Discuss!

Often, we feel we have to keep our science self and our queer self separate, but this is the perfect space to merge them. Let’s talk about coming out in the science fields!

Vivian September 20, 2013 92 Comments
Coming Out

AB Chao Is Gay: Mom and Design Blogger Extraordinaire Plays For Your Team, Has Cute Hair

Welcome to the club, AB Chao! Your membership card is in the mail (with the toaster).

Hansen July 26, 2013 22 Comments
Coming Out

Everybody Should Come Out, Or Not

Someone thinks Margaret Cho outed John Travolta, Fastrack thinks kids should come out, Ángeles Álvarez thinks lesbian politicians should come out, and now that Jason Collins is out, Andy West thinks everyone should come out.

Riese May 1, 2013 80 Comments
Coming Out First Person Gender

How Finding My Korean Mother Gave Me the Courage to Transition

“I am an adoptee,” I explained through my tears. “I need to find my parents. I have waited all my life for this moment. I’m supposed to leave tomorrow, but I can’t go without knowing my family is fine. Please help me!”

Andy Marra April 12, 2013 88 Comments
Coming Out First Person Issues

“And I Do Mean All My Life”: A Trans* Coming Out Letter

For anyone who’s ever wanted to say it in a letter.

Sarah Szabo March 8, 2013 46 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Coming Out

Jodie Foster Coming Out: “This Is Something For Us.”

Out actress Haviland Stillwell on what Jodie Foster’s coming out means to a gay girl who grew up Before Ellen and is now witnessing a rapidly-evolving climate of outness for gays in Hollywood.

Haviland January 14, 2013 40 Comments
Coming Out Thanksgiving

You Don’t Have To Come Out On Thanksgiving: On Going Home and Being Quiet

My grandma shoved 30 dollars in my hand once and told me, “Always tell the truth about who you are and know we’ll love you anyway.”

Carmen November 24, 2012 74 Comments
Coming Out First Person

In “Human Sexuality” Class, We Took Academic Honesty To A Whole New Level

On our first day, the Professor stepped onto the floor of the auditorium and said, “Raise your hand if you had sex last night!”

Keena November 19, 2012 31 Comments
Coming Out Thanksgiving

Your Parents Might Need This: Advice on Coming Out Over the Holidays

It’s likely that your parents are mulling over their own special set of holigay related dilemmas.

fonseca November 14, 2012 41 Comments
Coming Out

Six Accidental Educators Who Unintentionally Taught Me I Was Queer

“Sure, my gay studies were fairly superficial and not very diverse at all. But until I left town, my world was the opposite of diverse, and what teenager isn’t at least a bit shallow?”

Jenn October 31, 2012 44 Comments
Coming Out

Straight Allies: Every Little Bit Helps

Resources to help your friends help you.

Kristen October 15, 2012 9 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Coming Out As An Amorphous Weirdo

“It wasn’t until I kissed the second girl that even my therapist at the time laughed at me and told me maybe it was time to accept that my sexuality was not as cut-and-dry as I’d always imagined.”

Stef October 11, 2012 177 Comments
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