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AF+

Notes from Hell: Divorce Year

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Laneia February 15, 2022 37 Comments
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Love + Sex

You Need Help: What Is Love?

The questions we get more frequently for this column than any other are about love, so we tried to answer: what is love?

the team February 15, 2022 14 Comments
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First Person

Caterpillar Soup: A Trans Girl Finds Her Style

Emme Lund writes about butterflies, fashion, and finding her own sense of style while she moves through her transition.

Emme Lund February 15, 2022 11 Comments
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TV Reviews

“The Legend of Vox Machina” Could Be Gayer But I Love It Anyway

Vox Machina fights off bullies and zombies and…each other in this week’s batch of The Legend of Vox Machina episodes.

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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: America Chavez Arrives in the “Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness” Trailer

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Heather Hogan February 14, 2022 13 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Euphoria” Episode 206 Recap: The Devil You Know

To roughly quote Lady Bird: “You’re not gonna get in a car with a guy who texts, are ya?” Alas, she does.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 14, 2022 23 Comments
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AF+

A+ Member Gallery: Your Devastatingly Awesome Passion Projects

You all are just so cool!

Nico February 14, 2022 33 Comments
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Food and Drink

Lesbians, Love & Colcannon — 48 hours in Dublin

I’d found the ultimate comfort food on a spur-of-the-moment trip, it was the cherry on top of a sweet Valentine’s Day.

Shana February 14, 2022 12 Comments
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Book Lists

Short Fiction Playlist: Five Stories With Queer Sex

Welcome to another Short Fiction Playlist! In honor of Valentine’s Day, today’s theme is queer sex! Dig into these five stories featuring a sex-talking parrot, period sex, gay clubs, spanking, and more.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 14, 2022 2 Comments
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Dating

Relationship “Green Flags” To Look For When Dating

Just like “red flags” can tell you a person might be toxic, overly controlling, or unavailable emotionally, looking for “green flags” can tell you if your partner is, generally, a pretty solid person worth continuing to invest in!

Abbie Jones February 14, 2022 10 Comments
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Autostraddle Is Hiring New Writers for Our Team! Is That You?

We’re looking to bring some more writers on our team and listen — maybe perhaps you are one of them?

The Editors February 14, 2022 33 Comments
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Book Lists Quizzes

Quiz: Which Queer Romance Novel Should You Read This February?

This February celebrate love NOT being a lie by reading a queer romance novel.

Casey February 13, 2022 35 Comments
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Playlists Valentine's Day

Playlist: Love Songs Gifted By Exes

I asked some of my friends whether they had any love songs that they still love today, originally given to them by exes.

Analyssa February 13, 2022 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1406 Recap: Pay It Some Mind

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Drew Burnett Gregory February 12, 2022 23 Comments
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Food and Drink

20 Queer Bakers To Follow on Instagram

Fill your Instagram feed with allllllll the pastries, breads, and sweet treats by following these queer bakers and queer-owned bakeries.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 12, 2022 16 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

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Valentine's Day

Hot, Creative Ways to Spend Valentine’s Day With Yourself, Your Friends or Your Partner(s) That Don’t Involve Flowers or Chocolate

Let’s take Valentine’s Day by its fuzzy, pink horns and hold on for dear life.

Ro White February 11, 2022 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Curling in the Winter Olympics

“Yes, give me a Nordic woman who can ski a lot then shoot an animal and haul it back to our cabin for dinner! Sign me up!”

Darcy February 11, 2022 5 Comments
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Music Pop Culture Fix

Five Things to do While Listening to Jasmin Savoy Brown’s “Orange Wine”

This song is well-suited for so many licentious scenarios.

danijanae February 11, 2022 5 Comments
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Music

Every Song on Tegan and Sara’s “So Jealous,” Ranked

The melodrama of So Jealous is hard to resist. It’s emotionally indulgent heartbreak music, whether your heart is breaking or not. And now, it’s back.

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