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First Person

Butch Please: Anxious Little Butch

Anxiety on a butch is no different than anxiety on anyone else, but somehow I feel an immense shame as a result of the two’s interactions.

Kate February 8, 2013 71 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars Recap 318: Who’s Dead To Me At The Door

In which Ali and Emily fantasize about going to Paris together and Spencer finally figures out what’s behind the A-key door.

Lizz February 8, 2013 18 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #62: Diary Of A Bad Girl

Topics include 30 Rock, Mary Gaitskill, CES, The NRA, Perez Hilton, Kickstarter, Aileen Wuornos, Perez Hilton, Amy Bishop and so much more!

Riese February 8, 2013 10 Comments
Camp

Campership Opportunity: Apply To Be Kreuzbach10’s Dapper A-Camper!

Kreuzbach10 wants to make men’s shirts for women’s bodies AND ALSO wants to send you to camp in May! It’s your last chance to snag a campership.

Riese February 8, 2013 17 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Want to Be the Big Spoon

Keep us warm during the storm?

carrie February 8, 2013 6 Comments
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You Can Take It With You: Raisin Bread and Sushi

I’ve heard that being a grown up who takes their lunch to work is a thing people do. Let’s learn how to become one of those magical people together.

Laura February 8, 2013 22 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Bomb Girls 206 Recap: Super Special Sexy Edition

This week on Bomb Girls, half of my early season predictions came true, and there was hardcore lesbian kissing!

Kate February 8, 2013 53 Comments
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A Prairie Homo Companion: 5 Prairie Homo Writers You Should Know

Welcome to the latest instalment of A Prairie Homo Companion, in which I proudly inform you that the prairie homo literary movement is indeed here, queer, and fantastic.

Malaika February 7, 2013 25 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #13: Silence And A Dark Room

This week in literature: the Lesbian Romance Drinking Game, keeping a notebook, diverse queer reading lists, ruining art and creative inspiration.

Ryan Yates February 7, 2013 15 Comments
Queer Fashion

We Were There: Tomboy Tailors’ Grand Opening In San Francisco

Saturday’s grand opening of Tomboy Tailors in San Fran was amazing! We missed you. Here are some pictures of how hot and adorable everyone was.

Araguaney R. Da Silva February 7, 2013 25 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Beyoncé Spoofs Homeland While Lizzy Caplan Frolics

The Beyonce Bowl is available online, Homeland gets spoofed, Lizzy Caplan is CrazySexyCool (no TLC), and a two year old can beat you at basketball.

Brittani February 7, 2013 16 Comments
TV News & Trailers

BBC Calls For Trans* Inclusive Comedy Scripts

A competition for writers to create a script that actually represents trans* people accurately!

Sawyer February 7, 2013 17 Comments
Food and Drink

Liquor in the Team Pick: I Want To Drink “Writers Tears”

We are big fans of whiskey here. There’s an entire kitten devoted to where the whiskey comes from.

A.E. Osworth February 7, 2013 24 Comments
Dating

Am I On A Date Or Are We Just Two Pretty Girls Hanging Out?

“There was so much fucking estrogen and so many ladies who fist other ladies in that building, my ovaries tried to reproduce asexually.”

samantha irby February 7, 2013 239 Comments
Music

Women of Color Ran The Super Bowl – And Not Just Beyoncé

Today we’re going to look past Beyoncé and into her fucking awesome band and kind of swoon there and talk about things.

gabby February 7, 2013 36 Comments
Music

Five Ciara Videos That Made Me Queer

I’m pretty sure I became gayer in the process of putting together this post.

Rachel February 6, 2013 50 Comments
Music

Video: Tegan and Sara Interview ‘Heartthrob’ Kate Moennig

Such a dreamboat!

Crystal February 6, 2013 62 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: Xoe Wise

Chicago singer-songwriter with catchy charming tunes and deep feelings about brunch.

Crystal February 6, 2013 8 Comments
First Person

Westward Homo: Dog Is My Co-Pilot

Carly and Robin meander through the Great American West! “Look, I know you think you live here, but we don’t. You probably think we live nowhere, and in a way, that’s true.”

Robin February 6, 2013 22 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Let Lesbians Eat Cake and Other Stories We Missed This Week

The 49ers have been practicing their selective memory in preparation for this loss, and we’re gonna learn why they call it “Charm City.”

Carmen February 6, 2013 33 Comments
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