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Spring Edit: You Know What Your Main Bag Needs? A Smaller Bag Inside It
In which I gently boss you into cleaning out your bag and putting in things you’ll actually use.
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Holigay Gift Guide: What To Buy the Muscle Masc in Your Life
I’m including some tighter budget items and more size-inclusive options as well, because I don’t think anyone should be kept from being their best self in the gym just because of finances or lack of available larger sizes.
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Holigay Gift Guide: Dark Christmas Aesthetic Edition
We have a candle for those who want their place to constantly smell like they’ve just cracked open the grimoire.
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These Throw Blankets Will Help You Be Your Best Couch Gremlin Self
If you ask me, there’s no such thing as having too many blankets.
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36 Queer-Owned Businesses Selling LGBT T-Shirts To Support This Pride Season
Wanna spend your Pride cash on original t-shirts from lesbian and queer-owned businesses and LGBTQ+ stores? We’ve got a great list!
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So You Want To Go To The Beach
This is a packing list for VACATIONS. The ones where you aren’t really doing anything, just reading a ton of romance novels between dips in the ocean and playing board games while drinking wine at night.
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10 Kitchen Tools, Apps and Storage Tricks For Neurotic Solo Cooks
The products and apps that have helped me stop ordering Postmates and instead chop onions without crying, keep food fresh and accessible through strategic storage, plan meals and cook them!
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A Lazy Femme Guide To Staying Cute With Minimal Effort
I’m all about products and routines that work with my busy schedule. I’m obviously not lazy, but if lazy femme is the antithesis to high femme, I’m very much that.
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12 Sex Toys for When You Wanna Do the Monster Smash
Shop this list to snag a toy fit for werewolf roleplay or a staged alien abduction or elaborate masturbation to vampire erotica.
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85 LGBTQ+ Owned Businesses and Queer Shops To Support This Holiday Season!
With so many LGBTQ+ owned shops out there it’s gonna be a joy to put money back into your community this holiday season!
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Holigay Gift Guide: Your Gay Parent Friends Are Exhausted, Send Help!
Buying a gift for a parent is tough because the thing most of us want is sleep or rest.
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So You Want To Go To Work
One of the most popular requests I have gotten for this column is “What do I wear to work?” And I get it! You have to get dressed for work, and the kinds of clothes that are typically deemed “workplace appropriate” are absolutely racist, classist, ableist, transphobic, homophobic and sexist. Not to mention, no two workplaces are the same!
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So You Want To Dress for Fall
As a woman who has been known to describe herself as a “coatsexual,” it was incredibly challenging for me to not select upwards of twenty coats and jackets here.
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So You Want to Dress Like the Main Character
Is pretending I am the protagonist in romance novel a fun way to tamp down some of my nerves about being back out in the world? Yes!
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So You Want To Buy A Coat
It’s mid-November, and where I am on the east coast, that means it is time to swan about dramatically in various kind of outerwear!
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NEW MERCH ALERT: Tees! Sweatshirts! Stickers! Face Masks! QUEER! MAGNETIC! POETRY!
Buy something for you, your pod friends, your girlfriend, your ex girlfriend, your mom who’s secretly gay, your best friend who you’re secretly gay for, and your polycule.
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6 Queer-Owned Sex Shops You’ll Vibe With
As we stock up on toys and lube for winter, we can put our queer money back into queer-owned sex shops!
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Our Favorite Hand Lotions For Soothing Your Extra-Dry Hands
Who’s got dry hands WE’VE ALL GOT DRY HANDS
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25 Soft Pants for Loungewearing All Over The House
Let’s keep it casual.
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Here’s Everything You Need to Succeed at Cooking More Often This Year
These are my backbone and support system for both cooking and baking, and having these items in your arsenal it will substantially upgrade your kitchen prowess.