Plus updates on The Chi and Roswell, New Mexico.

To say that Star Wars’ march toward having any sort of visible queer representation has been fraught would be an understatement.

Feeling bad because of TikTok, boundary setting during sex, what your porn preferences mean, and more!

The truth is, as hard as I ride for it now, there was a time when I couldn’t imagine living here anymore, too.

“If Shane asked me to go to couple’s therapy, I’d be like, “We don’t even know each other, but if this is what it takes to get you into a therapist’s office, absolutely, let’s do it.”

For anyone addicted to Love Is Blind and found themselves wondering, “wow I wish this was approximately 93% gayer!”

Definitely by the end of the night, if no one says, “You shouldn’t be single anymore. This isn’t working for the rest of us,” then I didn’t break up properly.

We told ourselves she was teaching me how to love myself, how to act on my desires. This is what love looks like, we said, and I became adept at anticipating her desires—which I fulfilled, eagerly. She was my audience; I was her secret star.

Even if her attraction to Veronica is mostly relegated to fantasies, that doesn’t make it not “real.”

In 2013, Sue Kerr published her first memorial post for a lost trans life to her blog Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents, which has been running since 2005. More than a decade later, when the mainstream media failed to meaningfully cover the death of Nex Benedict, she once again used her blog as a vital community resource.

Cecilia reminds us that whatever was living in you before you grew up doesn’t just vanish into thin air; it mutates and resides in your bones until it decides your body isn’t home enough for it anymore.

Plus! Say goodbye to your friends (Baby-Sitter’s Club), Abby Wambach and Glennon Doyle present Brandi Carlile with a trophy, Sophie and Sian’s first kiss on Corrie was Brooke Vincent’s first kiss for real, and more!

Advice for a person who really wants to get over being grossed out by periods, plus advice about friendship from three different askers.

This afternoon at Sundance, I took a break from binging movies to watch a panel straight out of my queer film nerd dreams.

CUT MY LIFE INTO PIECES

There are so many myths about why lesbian bars close and/or don’t survive.

Plus updates on 9-1-1, Good Trouble, A Million Little Things, Station 19, Survivor, The Power, and Grey’s Anatomy!

Domestic horror is gay as hell.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love comes to an end after wreaking havoc on all our gay lives for three short but dizzying weeks.

From Doctor Who and Star Trek to Buffy and Wynonna Earp, sci-fi has been one of the more consistent places we, as queer people, have been able to find ourselves on TV over the past few decades. Here are the top 100 of our best.