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Holigays

OPEN THREAD: All I Want for Christmakwanzakah is You, So Get In Here

This is a safe and special place for you to use as refuge from your family, a recipe depository from your holigay feasts, and also a friend-making machine.

Carmen December 24, 2014 193 Comments
Christmas Playlists

Holigay Playlist: Having a Blue Christmas

The song Blue Christmas is not on this playlist, but it’s still perfect for melancholy holigay moments.

Carmen December 24, 2014 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

FDA Will Allow Gay Men to Donate Blood Under Amended Restrictions

After weeks of discussion on the subject, the agency has finally announced it will replace the current lifetime ban with a one-year restriction period for men who sleep with men.

Kaitlyn December 23, 2014 22 Comments
TV Lists

Here’s 35 LGBTQ Female TV Characters of Color Who Made 2014 A Very Queer Year

There were more queer female characters of color on TV in 2014 than the total number of queer female characters on TV, period, five years ago.

Heather Hogan December 23, 2014 23 Comments
TV Reviews

“Legend of Korra”‘s Final Scene Wasn’t Enough and Why We Must Demand More

I’m damn furious that six years ago, Nickelodeon was allowed to show a 12-year-old boy kissing a 14-year-old girl and saying “I love you,” but now, they refuse to show a 21-year-old woman do either of those things with her 22-year-old female partner.

Mey December 23, 2014 60 Comments
Queer Fashion

Going to an Outdoor Semi-Formal Event in the F*cking Snow

As for keeping your hands warm, the best way to go is a faux fur muff. I really don’t understand why people don’t still wear muffs all the time. They’re great! They double as a great way to keep your hands nice and cozy and an excuse to make lesbian sex jokes.

Mey December 23, 2014 21 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Lumberjanes #9 Has Spookiness to the Max!

If you were on the fence about buying it, the credits page calls the issue “a flippin’ sweet Susan B. Anth-ology.”

Mey December 23, 2014 2 Comments
Gender

On The Silencing of Trans Women of Color: A Response to Trans Glamour vs. Trans Activism

“As a white woman, you may not understand this but the simple act of getting up and being in the public eye and proclaiming your transness unapologetically is an act of revolution for every trans person of color, and in that right, they are doing the work.”

L'lerrét Jazelle Ailith December 22, 2014 26 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue Six, December 2014

This week in The A+ Insider, we re-cast Peter Pan starring Alex Vega, Laneia thinks you need a walk, we remember the year that was, and everybody stocks up on Endure By Rachel Kincaid.

the team December 22, 2014 33 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Salem Episodes 7 and 8 Recap: F*ck Colonialism

Maybe girl-on-girl action is like the antenna that boosts magical Wi-Fi. (That was an alcohol-inspired thought.)

Loraine December 22, 2014 4 Comments
Food Lists

27 Foods You Can Make in the Microwave

If it requires a stove, oven or toaster, you won’t find it here.

Kaitlyn December 22, 2014 25 Comments
Christmas Recipes

Get Baked: Homemade Gingerbread for all Your Festive Needs

“At some point, probably around the time I became a surly teenager and wanted something of my very own to craft and control and create, I decided to start making gingerbread too. At first this was just something I did alone, but gradually my younger brother began helping me, then my older brother, and it kind of became a tradition by accident.”

Hattie December 22, 2014 13 Comments
Queer Fashion Shopping

Brrr It’s Cold Out There: It’s Time To Get You Some Boots

As far as winter footwear is concerned you have two choices: fashion or function. That doesn’t mean your choices are “look cute and freeze” or “stay dry and sacrificing lookin’ winsome.” Lovely human, you’ve got options.

Lydia O December 22, 2014 24 Comments
Beauty Shopping

This Shit Rules: Keep It Simple, Keep It Clean

About half the year, I’m obsessed with beauty products and rituals and slathering things all over my body in the hopes that they’ll be the latest miracle product to change my life. The other half of the time, I’m the laziest motherfucker around.

Kaitlyn December 22, 2014 27 Comments
TV Reviews

Korrasami, Queer Representation and Saying Goodbye to the “Legend of Korra”

But in the end, it’s Asami that Korra holds hands with, Asami that Korra decides to vacation with, Asami who’s there for her in the end, Asami with whom Korra shares lingering glances and momentary intimacies.

SJ Sindu December 21, 2014 45 Comments
TV News & Trailers

VIDEO: Here’s a Holigay Carol from the Cast of “Orange is the New Black”

The Orange is the New Black cast is putting a very Litchfield spin on “The 12 Days of Christmas.”

Carmen December 21, 2014 6 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Say Pretty Please

The intersection of queerness, disability and sex; deciding what you want; making sex the thing you want it to be; and more.

Ryan Yates December 21, 2014 3 Comments
Society + Culture

‘Twas the Sunday Funday After Beyoncé Saved Christmas and All ‘Cross the Land, Queers Are Getting Married and Also, Pugs in a Sled

This Sunday there’s revolutionary love in Ferguson, a Marcel the Shell serenade session, 14 famous trans women on the cover of Candy, and absolutely no time for men’s questions. Also, JANET MOCK IS ENGAGED!

Carmen December 21, 2014 11 Comments
Parenting & Family Queer Fashion

Butchbaby & Co. Brings Maternity Wear Out of the Women’s Section

Their philosophy is one of the best I’ve ever heard: “Don’t change just because your body does.”

Kaitlyn December 20, 2014 11 Comments
Geekery

Last Minute Game Gifts For Yourself and Others

Don’t have a gift for the gamer in your life just yet? Luckily all these games are digitally delivered, YAY PLANNING!

A.E. Osworth December 20, 2014 7 Comments
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