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TV Show Recaps

“The Owl House” Begins its End By Gaying Up Disney Beyond Recognition

These 45 minutes were gayer than every other LGBTQ Disney and Marvel thing in history, combined.

Heather Hogan October 17, 2022 13 Comments
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Sex Toys

An Obituary for My Departed Vibrators

In remembrance of the buzzy little friends who saw me at my best and my worst.

Summer Tao October 17, 2022 9 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

Queer Sex Horror Stories: The Tale of the Dirty Dildo

We both froze as we heard what can only be described as…a queef of confusion.

Cruel Valentine October 17, 2022 7 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Keke Palmer and Lizzo in “Sister Act 3”? Yes, Please!

Did Madonna try to steal Elvira’s girlfriend? Is Elliot Page’s cheerleading movie going to be as good as Bring It On? And more!

Heather Hogan October 17, 2022 8 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Plan a Queer Fall Party and I’ll Tell You How You’re Cursed

There are lots of specifically queer curses out there. Like, perhaps, you are always matching with people on Tinder with the same name as you or, perhaps, you’re always calling your girlfriend the name of your ex-wife.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 16, 2022 18 Comments
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House & Garden

10 Crate and Barrel Finds To Level Up the Luxury of Your Dyke Domesticity

Now that I’m a seasoned dyke approaching 30, I want to own things that match the kind of person I’m growing into.

danijanae October 16, 2022 3 Comments
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Beauty

AM/PM: A Skincare Routine For The Overstressed Grad Student

Listen, you can’t disrupt academia without looking good.

Lily Alvarado October 15, 2022 10 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Wifeys Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts Sizzle On-Screen in “The Rookie: Feds”

Plus! Updates on Survivor, 9-1-1, All American, Vampire Academy, Home Economics, and Station 19!

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October 14, 2022 7 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Still Bisexual After All These Years

“Idea number 11: get your pup a bowtie and dress them up as lesbian legend Heather Hogan.”

Darcy October 14, 2022 7 Comments
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Queer Fashion

So You Want To Have Some Fall Whimsy

It’s time to bring back our romance novel slash Hallmark movie protagonists for some whimsical fall adventures!

Christina Tucker October 14, 2022 8 Comments
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TV Reviews

Tegan and Sara’s “High School” Is the Lesbian Teen Drama I’ve Been Waiting For

High School is eminently watchable, no matter how little or how much you know about actual Tegan and Sara. It’s just a damn good teen drama.

Heather Hogan October 14, 2022 9 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Melissa Etheridge and Rachel Maddow Question if We’re All OK in “Do Lesbians Give a Damn”

Rachel Maddow and Melissa Etheridge were on Andy Cohen’s “Watch What Happens Live” and he made the lesbian icons with much better things to do, rank our silly little pop culture internet lives. It’s great.

Carmen Phillips October 14, 2022 9 Comments
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Literature

These Queer Books Databases Make It Easy To Search for Your Next Favorite LGBTQ+ Read

What exactly do I mean by database? Well, I want it to be something that can be queried or filtered; it’s not just a long book list, and searching isn’t limited merely to title or author but allows you to interrogate every intersection of queer interest.

Sally October 14, 2022 17 Comments
Geekery

Seven Queer Horror Games You Should Consider Playing

To me, playing a horror game held higher stakes than watching a movie. In many scenarios, you’re literally controlling the character’s moves and choices.

Julie Gentile October 14, 2022 15 Comments
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Autostraddle Goes Outside, in Chicago and Portland!

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Vanessa October 14, 2022 20 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV News & Trailers

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“I. Do NOT. Want. Angie’s Hoe Phase.”

The TV Team October 13, 2022 20 Comments
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First Person

Here’s Why You Should Get a Nude Portrait of Yourself Done

We deserve to feel like art, to feel wonderfully made. 

danijanae October 13, 2022 2 Comments
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TV Feature

Talking to Tegan and Sara About Becoming Characters in Their Own TV Show

“We’re still trying to make art that surprises people and this feels scary, so I think that that probably means we’re on the right track.”

Heather Hogan October 13, 2022 6 Comments
Food and Drink

11 Drinks if You Don’t Like a Negroni Sbagliato With Prosecco in It but Still Want To Be Gay

If you don’t want to order a Negroni Sbagliato with prosecco in it, there are plenty of other stunning drinks you can get your gay little hands on that also have a certain je ne sais queer about them.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 13, 2022 36 Comments
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Dating

How Growing Out My Body Hair and T4T Sex Helped Me Find Self-Acceptance

It’s not that I was no longer attracted to cisgender people — I was hoping to find parts of myself reflected in the people I dated.

Amaris October 13, 2022 5 Comments
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