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Geekery Issues

Drawn to Comics: “Busty Girl Comics” Shares The Woes Of Being Busty

In A Very Special Bra Week edition of Drawn to Comics, we bring you “Busty Girl Comics,” Paige Halsey Warren’s tales of the perks and problems that come from being busty.

Mey April 1, 2014 16 Comments
Issues LGBT History

More Than Words: Ra Ra Bras!

Pardon my French.

Cara March 31, 2014 5 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

It’s Bra Week On Autostraddle!

It’s Bra Week on Autostraddle! Read all about it and kick off the celebrations with a mega-gallery of grrrls and bois in a variety of over-the-shoulder-boulder-holders and otherwise-inclined brasseries.

the team March 31, 2014 27 Comments
First Person Issues

Leaving a Mark on the American Heartland With My Solo Queer Trans* Woman Roadtrip

“This past year of my transition, 2012, has been one of road travel with many miles revisited across numerous American states… Not the least of my concerns was driving my friend Xene’s unfamiliar Prius. Yet, my larger concern was driving solo as a woman.”

Amy June 14, 2013 22 Comments
First Person Gender Issues

The Incredibly True Story Of How Cissexism Made My Same-Sex Marriage Legal

Thanks to a simple governmental regulation, my wife and I were able to exploit a legal loophole and obtain a federally recognized marriage.

Elizabeth June 13, 2013 34 Comments
First Person Gender Issues

Fifty Shades of White

Having the blessing – or curse – of lighter skin is a double edged sword. I never gave much thought to the idea that society needs positive cultural images of minorities until I came to embrace my Hispanic heritage and come out of the closet.

Elaine May 28, 2013 9 Comments
First Person Geekery Issues

Choose Your Character: I’m Peach, Not Mario

“I did extremely well in any video games with dating elements, like Persona 4, but virtual dating and real dating are two very different things. I could master playing as someone else, but as the old cliché of dating advice often goes, I needed to be myself.”

Monica May 20, 2013 27 Comments
First Person Gender Issues

Identity Theft: A Trans* Intersex Woman On Traumas and Surgery

“It’s unfortunate, unfair and illogical that intersex people get assigned a gender and a sex and are expected to either stick with them or fix someone else’s mistake with expensive, risky surgery on their genitals.”

A. S. May 16, 2013 41 Comments
First Person Gender Issues

I’m A Trans Woman And I’m Not Interested In Being One of the “Good Ones”

If you present in a traditionally feminine way, you’re just being a misogynistic parody of a woman, and if you fail to present in a traditionally feminine way, well ha! There’s the proof that you’re not really a woman right there.

Vivian May 15, 2013 316 Comments
First Person Issues

I Had Facial Feminization Surgery

“I paid a dude to knock me unconscious, peel back my face, and cut out chunks of my skull and jaw.”

Olivia May 14, 2013 85 Comments
First Person Issues

Transitioning While Genderqueer (Despite the Standards of Care)

“It would have been nice to share my entire truth with her, but because of the Standards of Care, I didn’t; I feared my story would be seen as diverging from the typical trans* narrative too much.”

Madeline May 13, 2013 74 Comments
Gender Health Issues

It’s Not Okay: Intimate Partner Violence in Radical Queer Spaces

“She acts like she’s such a victim when obviously there was abuse on both sides.” Awkwardly, I shrug my shoulders and look around the room. My partner doesn’t notice how uncomfortable she’s making me because she’s caught up in her own conjectures: “It’s like how we are sometimes.”

Emma May 8, 2013 24 Comments
Book Features Issues

The Future of Gender Is the Present For Trans* Characters in SciFi Novels

What do the leading names in science fiction tell us about the future of gender?

Cheryl Morgan April 30, 2013 36 Comments
Issues Queer Pregnancy

Freezing My Assets: On Transitioning and Wanting To Be A Mom One Day Too

“He was about to break the news that I would never have a child of my own, and nothing else had ever made it so clear that I wanted one. I really, really wanted one.”

Rhiannon Catherwood April 24, 2013 65 Comments
First Person Issues

Clicks on a Keyboard: Dungeons, Dragons, and Trans-Feminism

This begins with me already being a feminist, but ends with me making peace with being a woman.

Katherine Cross April 22, 2013 14 Comments
First Person Issues

Trans and Schizophrenic: When Diagnosis Impacts Transition

If he had read my medical records he would have known that my first psychotic break was exacerbated by my fear that I would never be recognized as a woman.

Sam Ashkenas April 10, 2013 58 Comments
First Person Issues

Do Not Consume Psilocybin Mushrooms While Trans*

“This is about the first time I ever did mushrooms, and it’s about how being trans* affects everything, even bullshit bourgeoise attempts at pharmacological liberation.”

Meredith April 4, 2013 97 Comments
First Person Issues

Fat, Trans and (Working on Being) Fine With It

“Not only do I have to deal with the crippling dysphoria that comes from having a body that I often don’t even recognize as my own, I also have to deal with the cultural misogyny that tells me that a woman can’t be as big and fat as I am and still be desirable.”

Mey March 28, 2013 160 Comments
Gender Issues

On Faith And Gender, Or Why I Dress Like A Man On Fridays

“It boils down to a simple decision: dress like a man, or lose part of my faith.”

Maryam March 25, 2013 69 Comments
Gender Issues

Call and Response: On Body Snarking and The Word “Tr*nny”

“If you do feel the need to ask if someone is transgender or not, first ask yourself why. Why is it your business? Why do you need to know? And will it change anything you think about this person?”

Cora March 20, 2013 76 Comments
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