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Dating Issues

Getting With Girls Like Us: A Radical Guide to Dating Trans* Women for Cis Women

Okay ladies, let’s stop right here and get our game together.

Savannah March 14, 2013 840 Comments
First Person Issues

Leaving It on the Court: When My World Changed, Sports Stayed

My teammates didn’t know that I was ending my run in this men’s league because I had to leave my male identity on the court.

Robyn March 12, 2013 22 Comments
First Person Issues

Wigging Out: How I Found Beauty in Baldness

Being bombarded by images of beautiful women with long hair while having male pattern baldness certainly made it easier to repress being transgender.

Nika March 12, 2013 44 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Meet Jennifer, The Genius Behind RodeoH: The Autostraddle Interview

Founder of RodeoH harnesses Jennifer Weaver tells us everything there is to know about the RodeoH and then some, including how her mom’s 40+ years of crafting experience helped the product get born.

Vanessa March 10, 2013 10 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Briefly Noted: Underwear for Your Masculine Center

What makes “men’s” underwear exclusively for men? Is it still men’s underwear if I’m wearing it? Answers: a) absolutely nothing and b) no, sir.

phoenix March 10, 2013 74 Comments
Issues NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Commando

A Girls-Gone-Commando gallery, plus french maids are desired, disabled people are sexy and the sex industry is booming!

Ryan Yates March 10, 2013 9 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

The dapperQ Underwear Survey Surveys Your Underwear Anxieties and Dreams

“I almost passed out the first time I bought boy undies. I wish that had been easier. I expected someone to shoot at me. Probably just refuse to sell to me, or laugh, really. But still. Racing heart, whole deal.”

dapperq March 10, 2013 27 Comments
Issues

Three Tech-Savvy Panties for Futuristic Sexy Funtimes

It’s time to tech your queer panties, because who doesn’t want panties you can control with a remote? Here’s three pairs of panties similar to the one’s we’ve recommended, the difference being that they buzz and you have to charge them every once in a while.

A.E. Osworth March 9, 2013 5 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion Shopping

Plus Size Underwear For All Gender Presentations

Bevin, AKA the sexy and talented Queer Fat Femme, is here to bring you the lowdown on plus size panties for all you grrrls and bois.

Bevin March 9, 2013 15 Comments
Issues Playlists

Playlist: Under Where?

Time for a pants-off dance-off.

Carmen March 8, 2013 12 Comments
Issues Literature

Things I Read That I Love #66: Reading In Underpants

This week’s TIRTL includes a special Underwear Week section, as well as pieces on topics including Jehovah’s Witness, onscreen violence, sex abuse, robots, fan fiction, junk food and Alaska.

Riese March 8, 2013 8 Comments
Coming Out First Person Issues

“And I Do Mean All My Life”: A Trans* Coming Out Letter

For anyone who’s ever wanted to say it in a letter.

Sarah Szabo March 8, 2013 46 Comments
Issues Sex Toys

You Need Help: Harnesses For Trans* Women

As a trans* chick with not much going on “downstairs” I’m intrigued with using strapons instead of my actual bits, just not sure how best approach it. Can anyone recommend harnesses with a little extra room in the crotch that won’t break the bank?

A.E. Osworth March 8, 2013 27 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Femme-ish Underwear Realness Two Ways

Just a couple of femmes talking about why we love the underwear we love and why you should look into loving it with us.

Gabrielle Korn March 8, 2013 27 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion Shopping

Do Away With Your Naiveté: Let’s Explore the World of Lingerie

“Although bras and panties get the most love, there are so many other facets of lingerie: from corsets to pajamas, babydolls to blindfolds, garter belts to latex gloves. I’m ready to embrace all the variations.”

The Lingerie Lesbian March 7, 2013 9 Comments
Issues Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #15: A Blind Date With Literary Knickers

Underwear from lesbian fiction, a defence of reading, queer love letters, killer courses and more.

Ryan Yates March 7, 2013 4 Comments
Food and Drink Issues

Liquor in the Panties: Silk Panties for Underwear Week

Today, we’re making Silk Panties. Panties panties panties. Let’s make a vodka drink.

A.E. Osworth March 7, 2013 15 Comments
First Person Issues

Unwritten On The Body

As with the meaning of written text, our bodies float somewhere between the author (ourselves) and the reader (those we encounter).

Kennedy March 7, 2013 39 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Issues Queer Fashion

How To Own It: Non-Lingerie

Lingerie that’s “designed to frame the erogenous zones instead of covering them up, highlighting your assets.” Mind = blown

Gabrielle Korn March 7, 2013 12 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Want A Lady Superhero On Your Butt? League of Ladies Undies Can Make That Happen

Vanessa’s Team Pick: I have worn the same brand and cut of underwear since 7th grade but this superhero underwear for ladies, featuring real women of note may finally convince me to leave Victoria’s Secret behind.

Vanessa March 6, 2013 15 Comments
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