You Need Help: My Partner and I Aren’t Having Sex — How Can I Still Foster Intimacy?
Sometimes in long-term relationships, our needs shift and/or our capacity to fulfill someone’s needs shift.
Watchlist: “House of Psychotic Women” Pushed Me Out of My Horror Comfort Zone
Watchlist is a new series where I invite you to sample the hidden treasures of my personal viewing projects.
Ranking My Butch Girlfriend’s Hats
Plus, a photo of us making out while she wears her literal GAY RIGHTS hat.
WNBA Week 13: The Aces Visit the White House, The Mercury and Storm Miss the Playoffs
Plus Carmen’s Fits of the Week are extra hot this time!
Have a S’Mores, Have a Brownie, Have a S’mores Brownie
Three perfect layers: A toasted graham cracker crust, a warm unbelievably chocolate-y brownie, and melted caramelized marshmallow just this edge of dripping down the sides. How else should you spend the last week of summer?
Let Jenni Hermoso’s Courage Be the Beginning of a Reckoning
It’s been a week since Spain soccer federation president Luis Rubiales forcefully kissed Jenni Hermoso at the World Cup trophy ceremony. His downfall should just be the beginning.
Pop Culture Fix: The Morning Show Season 3 Trailer Is Queer Lovers to Enemies
The first look at Our Flag Means Death season two, a Bring It On reunion, and more!
Watch an Exclusive Clip From Kinky Trans Horse Movie, “Piaffe”
Ann Oren’s completely original debut feature Piaffe is a unique take on gender and queer siblinghood.
Mini Crossword Is Suddenly Craving a Bagel
When I get cold, I go sit in the corner.
This Easy Shrimp “Beach Ceviche” Is a Late Summer Flex
You can easily whip up this shrimp ceviche while getting ready for the beach, and by the time you’re all set up on the shore, it’ll be cured and ready to eat.
Quiz: Which Fictional Queer Writer Are You?
If you were a lesbian or bisexual television character writer, which one would you be? Would you be gazing your navel with Jenny or telling jokes on a cruise ship with Ava? There’s only one way to find out!
My 10 Best Butch Haircuts in Video Games
How could Cassandra ever refuse my elfin shaggy butch style??
“The Third Daughter” Is Sapphic Slow-Burn Fantasy and Feminist Rage
What turned it into an auto-buy was the Post-It note attached to the shelf. A flimsy lime-green placeholder for one of the voicey, detailed recommendation cards that are always tucked around the shop, with three words scrawled on it: “magical furious lesbians.”
A+ Crossword’s Gender is Garchomp, Thanks For Asking
I used to believe all things must pass.
Boobs on Your Tube: SHOCKING! 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Lesbian Wants to Slow Things Down??
Plus updates on Only Murders in the Building, The Chi, and grown-ish.
“And Just Like That” Didn’t Need Che
The problem isn’t that Miranda used Che — the problem is the show itself did, too.
Rules for Being the Gay in the Wedding Party
I’ve been that one single, queer friend in the bridal party countless times.
“Piaffe” Is for the Kinky Arthouse Horse Girls — And Not Girls
From Cronenberg to Titane, trans audiences have long responded to work that pushes the boundaries of human bodies in lieu of traditional trans storytelling.
Mini Crossword Thinks You Should Finish Your Own Sandwich
Did you hear the one about the cat who ate a ball of yarn?
Saying Goodbye to the Queer Characters of “Nancy Drew”
Bess doesn’t just “happen to be” queer. Bess is queer and one of the core four. She’s queer and inextricably important to this show and to Nancy’s life.