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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Wearing Lacy Lingerie

This week on NSFW Sunday: monster porn, post-orgasm secrets, buying a bed as a queer poly triad, figuring out how to sleep in that bed via video game and more.

Ryan Yates December 29, 2013 6 Comments
Society + Culture

It’s Sunday Funday and a Bunch of Sh*t Just Got Gayer

Live from Russia, Utah, Alabama, and Ireland, it’s Saturday Night! Or at least it’s the day where we talk about Saturday night.

Carmen December 29, 2013 9 Comments
Geekery

Here There Be Monsters: Map Games For Geography Nerds and Other Place-Based Geeks

I love geography for a lot of reasons, and one of them is because sometimes you get to play with maps on your technology.

Maddie December 28, 2013 27 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Anna Spends a Lot of Time Here

Welcome to Saturday Morning Cartoons, a segment where four artists take turns delighting you with their whimsy, facts and punchlines on Saturday mornings!

Archie December 28, 2013 31 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Saying Goodbye To 2013

Featuring Christmas cats and Christmas flasks.

carrie December 27, 2013 5 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Top 15 Viral Videos We Didn’t Talk About in 2013

A 2013 Viral Video Digest for those videos you missed or chose not to watch. Until now.

Brittani December 27, 2013 10 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #107: Sometimes Evil Is Something We’re All Responsible For

Topics include homeless youth, Alison Janey, the death of Margarey Vojtko, David Foster Wallace, elite public schools, the decline of evangelicalism, Buffy and more!

Riese December 27, 2013 5 Comments
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You Brew You: Secondary Fermentation and Bottling

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SJ Sindu December 27, 2013 3 Comments
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14 Actresses I Want To See On “American Horror Story” In 2014

My fantasy wish (witch?) list of actresses for season four of American Horror Story, along with the characters they could play.

Chelsea December 27, 2013 6 Comments
Relationships

How To Keep A Girl For 10 Years: She’s So High Above Me

On some level, we have all felt unworthy of something or someone at some point. Starting from the moment we step foot into any social structure or begin consuming Western media, we connect what or who we are able to achieve to how good we look.

RobynC December 27, 2013 29 Comments
The L Word

25 Reasons Why The L Word Should Come Back in 2014

Because this is the way that we live…again.

Kate December 27, 2013 83 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #36: Emoji Versus Words

This week in lit: when emoji work better than words, the intersection between writing and food, best books lists, the worst grammar mistakes and more.

Ryan Yates December 27, 2013 1 Comment
First Person

Dear Queer Diary: Looking Forward, Looking Back

Can you sum up your year in three words? One song? It’s time to journal your year in review!

Maggie December 26, 2013 19 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Top 10 Instances of Open and Unapologetic Celebrity Cultural Appropriation in 2013!

“Oh, wait, so you’re not dressing in a mass-produced stereotypical ‘Native’ costume, and instead were just dressing as one of the most racist caricatures depicting an Indigenous person in the history of American cinema?”

El Sanchez December 26, 2013 87 Comments
Community

Boxing Week Sale! Get 25% Off Everything In The Autostraddle Store!

This is your big chance to own something really special and Autostraddley this holiday season.

the team December 26, 2013 30 Comments
Comedy

Comedy Crush: Janine Brito, Dandy Stand-Up

“Totally Biased” Writer and Correspondent, Janine Brito is a queer woman of color that was on your television screen. If you missed it, now’s the time to catch up.

Brittani December 26, 2013 7 Comments
Geekery

Annie Mok’s “Screentests” Tells Stories About Candy Darling, Personal Trauma

Annie Mok’s tremendous short comic Screentests tells gorgeous stories about coming to terms with trauma and gender and is absolutely gorgeous to look at.

Mey December 25, 2013 5 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Jean Grae and The Rando Have Their Eyes on The “Harvard Lampoon” and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Romi Klinger’s getting divorced, Dot-Marie got married, trans* voices are getting published, and we’re celebrating the holidays in a special space where it’s just you, Ari Fitz, and the rest of the Internet.

Carmen December 25, 2013 6 Comments
First Person

24 Incredible Personal Essays We Published This Year

We told so many amazing stories this year, we really gave Storytelling Time in kindergarten a run for its money.

Riese December 25, 2013 21 Comments
Music TV Reviews

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“For some reason this movie really wants us to know that sometimes Britney and Jamie Lynn have wrestling matches and Jamie Lynn always wins.  Picture that for a minute.  Now move on.”

Stef December 24, 2013 14 Comments
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