Making better porn at home, whether it’s okay to have sex when you’re staying on someone’s couch, queer non-monogamy, the history of polyamory and more.

Getting comfortable talking about sex, being able to defend your relationship, a conversation about BDSM and play and more.

Buying lube, being submissive, tweeting porn, (not) blaming your bad relationship with a person on your good relationship with your phone and more.

“Right now I’m working on my astral projection skills and I think that should speed things along.”

“I can’t tell you how ready I am for this roundtable. I mean, in the sense that I live it daily.”

This week, I want to share a few tarot spreads with you, which you can use to look at what’s going on with your relationships. Firstly with your one-to-one relationships, secondly a spread for polyamorous folks, and lastly a little spread that’s just for loving your wonderful self.

Watch Bessie. Do it for the moments of bisexual badassery. Do it for the love of the blues. But goddammit, watch Bessie because her legacy is an important part of our history as queers in this world.

Alison’s brother’s imaginary friend is A, duh.

Your girlfriend wants an open relationship and you agreed to it, but now you feel terrible all the time. What to do?

Defining solo polyamory, new porn laws in the UK, talking more about sex, making long distance relationships last and more!

Where can I hang out with other queers in Portland? Is it okay that I was drunk when I filled out my A+ survey? Skins Fire: why? Why do straight people wear lesbian footwear? These questions of yours and more are answered in this here post.

Plus it’s finally time for ABC Family’s leztastic Christmas specials!

How to pick up chicks, how to escape your terrible date, how to handle rejection, how to effectively fight with your girlfriend — we’ve got so much advice for y’all.

The pAtriArchy is A, just as we suspected.

“Like did women get yeast infections and UTIs on the Oregon trail and if so wtf did they do about it.”

Bionix sex toys, two rules for polyamory, songs to not have sex to, dealing with gender dysphoria through lingerie and more.

Emily Yoffe isn’t alone! A lot of advice columnists have terrible opinions that they’re excited to share with bisexuals.

Sneak peaks for days, Brittani’s special workout recommendation, Stef’s pursuit of ERW, Rachel’s trip to Madison, early requests for AS 1.0 and so many more things you care deeply and passionately about!

There were 128 queer lady characters on TV this year, if you can believe that. It’s a brand new world.

Solo poly, being weird about sex, being weird about porn, how orgasms work, masturbation and more.