Hello welcome to your pop culture fix, a weekly edition of cool news for cool kids who like doing cool things with their cool pals.
The Teevee
+ Wanda Sykes just wrapped shooting a pilot for ABC called “Dream Team” in which she’s a lesbian OBGYN married to a woman with a daughter on the soccer team. I absolutely cannot wait and if it does not show up on my television screen I’ll die.
+ AND YET ANOTHER PIECE OF NEWS regarding a lesbian character of color on your teevee! Tattiawana Jones will be starring in the Untitled Weeks/Mackay comedy pilot about a lesbian and her straight best friend navigating their dysfunctional, co-dependent friendship. She’s best-known for Flashpoint but has also been in queer tv show Lost Girl and the lesbian film Tru Love.
+ In Season 2B of Empire, Tiana will have a new male companion and “Bre-Z hopes that the latter half of season 2 will “keep that realness,wp_postsbut that Freda learns to open up and transition out of that “dark spacewp_postsshe’s been inhabiting for so long and “learn to have a little bit more fun.”” Also, Cookie will call Naomi Campbell’s character a “half-lesbian” and ask Jamal to “pick a damn team.”
+ I wanted to see how gay/bi male deaths compared to gay/bi female deaths, so I made this list for Queerty! I was actually expecting there to be way more gay/bi male deaths than female, due to the fact that gay men outnumber gay women on TV at something like 3:2… but… nope.
+ On that note, let’s talk about how we got here: The Mary Sue discusses what led to the history of Media Burying Its Gays, and looks at lots of reasons including:
“It doesn’t matter if they die to violence (Boys Don’t Cry), disease (the recently released Freeheld) or AIDS (throw a dart, you’ll hit one), the number of films about queer people suffering and dying so far outnumbers all other kinds of media about them that it’s absurd.”
+ On an entirely different note, you might like this article from Bitch about Cameron Esposito’s new special, Marriage Material, especially this part:
So much Cameron and Deanne Smith!
The New Activists
+ Interview Magazine’s “The New Activists” issue is pretty kickass, and includes interviews with cool millennials like Hari Nef, Tyler Ford, Rowan Blanchard and Amandla Stenberg.
Amandla Stenberg:
I oftentimes receive the question, “What do you think is the most important social issue to focus on?” Or, “What’s the most important component of identity? Is it gay rights or race or feminism?” And I’m like, “Well, they’re all intertwined. It’s all one conversation at the end of the day. You can’t just pick one.” I mean, people experience all kinds of prejudice because of all different parts of themselves. And that doesn’t make one part more important than the other.
Rowan Blanchard:
In middle school there was literally a spot for the cool kids to sit. You could only sit there if you were cool, and I wasn’t. So I would go read Hugo Cabret under the slides. All my friends were literary characters. So that’s so important to me, that a girl on Instagram doesn’t see a group of girls and feel intimidated. No girl should feel scared to be friends with other females.
Film
+ Are you a female? Do you like film? Are you into things that are essential (besides essential oils, obviously)? Then you might want to hear about these feminist film essentials.
+ Indiewire’s film-in-progress series looks at Signature Move, a film described as “a romantic comedy meets coming-of-age story about Zaynab, a Pakistani, Muslim, lesbian who takes care of her sweet, TV-obsessed mother and is seeking her identity in love and wrestling”
Also!
+ What if your Mom was Gloria Vanderbilt and you were Anderson Cooper and suddenly your Mom was like, “oh hey Anderson Cooper, guess who had a lesbian relationship once?” I bet you’d be even more surprised than I was when I saw Anderson Cooper riding his bike in Chelsea looking totally perfect.
+ A Montreal artist re-created ’90s teen idol heartthrob posters with women and the whole thing feels ever so queer. If that story interests you, you might also enjoy:
- Butch Please: Butch and Her Boys
- Journey to the Center: Casual Looks Inspired by My Favorite Boys
- If Lesbian/Bi Celebrities Were 90s Boy/Girl Bands
- Tomboy Fashion According To Young Adult Novels I Read In The 80s/90s
+ Kristen Stewart and Soko: A Romance for the Ages!
Yes. That is all.
I am so excited about the 2 new lesbian comedies, especially Wanda Sykes; I love her!
I am not surprised about there being less dead gay male characters, they seem to get other types of trope-y stories though.
Also, re: lesbian comedies- they can’t die in these types of shows, right?….RIGHT???
As far as I know, I don’t think so. I also agree, Wanda is seriously amazing and funny.
Agh, those comments on the Queerty dead gay list. So thankful for AS commenters!
Yeah, those comments were the worst.
i read the first four and then was like :-( i guess i’m not gonna read the comments anymore! i know the queerty editors and i like them a lot, so that part is all good. idk i find most websites that have mostly male readers have really combative comment sections in general?
I for one am really glad to see that list though. Would you add ones that were missed as you did for Autostraddle? Because Lance in Cucumber (as someone pointed out in the comments) is a great example.
yes i will! can you do me a favor and tell me which ones need to be added and what information they gave me about them and then i will! i just want to avoid getting unnecessarily riled up about the comments that scratch my thin skin.
Sure, his name was Lance Sullivan, year 2015, murdered by the man he was about to hook up with. The other guy had extreme internalized homophobia and lashed out really suddenly. It was terrifying, but really well handled, here’s some more info: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/feb/27/homophobic-murder-cucumber-gay-viewers-grim-reality-sexual-insecurity
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If you’d like me to be more specific – it was a blow to the head from the other guy (Daniel) that killed him
This may sound like an exaggeration, but I’m really worried about the number of negative comments because it shows that part of our community is having a very hard problem with empathy.
Queerty has 29 comments, was posted 5 days ago and I didn’t see the article circulating around the way your original dead list was.
“Circulating around” for me is a key, because it gives you the opportunity that the issue will be known for people who didn’t have an idea about it, but also means that a bunch of trolls could show up, increasing the chances for negative comments.
Well, your lesbians and bisexuals dead list has more than 1200 comments, its still going around the web and has almost no negative comments, except for a few little feuds (Xena, a weird obsession with a particular movie, some one-episode cases, but that’s it).
The responses to Queerty gives me the creeps.
I was going to say that posting on NewNowNext may have had more positive comments as there was some positive reaction to your 148 article, but revisiting it, it kind of looks the same. *sigh*
Yeah I thought the same thing! Apparently you know lashing out against “Bury Your Gays” is like some conspiracy theory for the gay agenda cause people die, so just get over it.
I know! Riese, it was such an interesting and comprehensive list (so much stabbing! Why so much stabbing?) and I’m disappointed in those dudes for not appreciating it.
Oh my god, yes to this.
I have never been to this site before, but from a gay site I expected a bit more compassion or even similar outrage. Instead they come up with those arguments that you typically get from the straight white male.
I didn’t look, but aren’t the comment sections on most sites generally awful, even many LGBT sites (excluding here, of course <3 )? I just avoid them altogether, with a few exceptions. It's far too depressing, otherwise.
There are so many comments where I just think “Why are you even here?”. Like, they contribute nothing of substance, so why even bother to comment?
Comment sections terrify me (AS being an exception!) so I won’t check the comments on Riese’s Queerty article, but I hope the response was positive.
Also, I never really paid attention to American Horror Story and what happened in it, but, um. Wow. Looks like Ryan Murphy is working through some issues with that show, huh?
Aaaaannnd looks like it wasn’t. Ugh. Glad I didn’t check!
I did read the comments, and unfortunately a lot of the comments were “but straight people get killed too”, “why are you making such a fuss”, “this isn’t really an issue”.
It’s a shame, because there’s so much *history* to it that people aren’t aware of and could know, yet instead spend their time defending the things that hurt them and their communities. :(
Did you read the Mary Sue article? It was perfect. ♥
Yeah, it was a great article! It summed up neatly the common tropes for both men and women, which was a good idea because I’ve seen accusations of the Trevor Project charity and the movement attached to it being focused on women. But as the Queerty list showed, it appears that queer men… don’t care? Seems like shooting themselves in the foot to me, but oh well.
Some even complain that the Trevor Fundraiser is only aimed at lesbians and therefore does exclude bisexuals. Stupid.
What do you mean? :O I watched the 3 seasons but then just…gave up and never looked back x.x
Excited to see the Wanda Sykes show.
Thankful for AS commenters.
Let’s just say I’m a masochist because I had to read the comments.
Lovely to see a bunch of comments related to the “it’s just a TV show, get a life” trend.
But this was a learning experience because it’s a real example as how places with gay men leadership, like Human Rights Campaign, work.
Empire, just…. Ugh. The mighty fell so fast.
I just opened up a bookmark to your Queerty list, Riese! I’m interested to see the comparison.
Isn’t Rowan Blanchard like 13 or 14? So she was in middle school yesterday. I’m not saying that in anyway to belittle her, I think she’s very important to young girls and wise in a lot of ways beyond her years. I’ll even admit to being an occasional Girl Meets World watcher, even as an adult. I just had a little chuckle to myself when she started “In middle school this happened…” as if it was many years ago.
And YAY WANDA SYKES! Though that probably means she’ll be leaving her role on blackish (she’s Anthony Anderson’s boss), which is unfortunate because she’s one of the best parts. But this is a better career move for her AND she’ll get to play a queer lady, so, yay!
Looking forward to the new lesbian sitcoms. I just wish not all lesbian adult characters on TV has kids
Us child free folk need representation too!
Agreed.
Thank you! We really do need that representation, and not in a until they U-Haul, and get lesbian bed death, so decide to have kids way.
Also, I couldn’t help but notice that Angels in America counted as TV for the dead men list but Fingersmith, Tipping the Velvet, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit weren’t mentioned on the happy endings list…
I’m curious to know how TV compares to movies. Cause I know there are way more movies with men who aren’t straight characters than with women who aren’t straight. And that’s before getting into the indie films that make you wonder is it a skin flick or just a movie with nudity and a bad plot?
I know Patton Oswald talks about on one of this cds, he was offered the roll of the gay, sassy best friend to the girl with relationship issue, which even he says is a common trope. He jokes that if he does the roll, it has to be the gay best friend who is clueless. But, I’m sure that stereotypical role would increase how many non-dead, queer male character there are, no?
In response to the “Bury Your Gays: Dude edition” I don’t think Beaver (Cassidy Casseblancas) from Veronica Mars should be on the list, because I don’t recall any evidence that he was queer.
Explaination and spoliers for season 2 of Veronica Mars in the reply to this comment.
Beaver, along with other boys on his Little League team were molested by Woody, their coach and a public figure. When two of the boys (including Nester Olivos) wanted to come forward about the assault, Beaver orchestrated the bus crash in order to keep them quiet. One of those kids, Nester Olivos, was queer. Beaver was only ever attracted to women, as far as I know.
Also, thanks for the link to the Mary Sue piece. It was phenomenal.
I’ve put Lance’s details above here are some more:
Troels Hoxenhaven, Borgen, 2011, suicide – the exact same storyline as Ray on Damages, and both were the only gay character on that show but it was even worse because Borgen is Scandinavian! It looked like they were going to make up for it by having the PM’s daughter come out, but that didn’t happen and instead they introduced a more well adjusted gay character in season 3.
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Leo, The Line of Beauty, AIDS, 2006
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The 90s teen heartthrob project is fascinating!!
Of course Anderson Cooper looked totally perfect riding a bike around Chelsea. That guy! I’ll bet he sleeps in a tuxedo that never gets wrinkled!
Is anybody else seeing random Vimeo videos embedded throughout the comments section? Or do I apparently have a really weird Mac virus?
Nope I have it happening to me as well, and I’m reading this on my phone.
The comments on the Queerty article made me sad :( It made me miss the lovely comment section over here!