Results for: Feel good
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You Need Help: You Think You’re Bad At Sex
“Forget all your ideas about what the person across the table from you might want until they tell you so you can actually listen when they do.”
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You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Has Body Issues And You Want to Initiate Sex
If you wait until your girlfriend with body issues is feeing just really attractive and good about herself to approach the idea of sex, you are, sooner or later, going to stop having sex together. Period.
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You Need Help: Negotiating A Queer Bachelorette Party
You want to have a bachelorette party together, but your girlfriend loves the spotlight and you don’t. Here’s how you navigate that.
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Why You Should Care About Lesbian Safer Sex (And What To Do About It)
If sexual health isn’t relevant to your interests yet, it should be.
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You Need Help: Will You Grow Together or Grow Apart?
“When my boyfriend came out to me as trans, he was worried what that would mean for me and us. It’s a few months later and I should be really happy for him. And I am! But I’m starting to feel kind of lost and scared and I don’t know if it has to do with the fact, that he is, of course, changing.”
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You Need Help: Always Her Bridesmaid and Never Her Bride
She’s engaged TO him, but engaged WITH you — and you’re not sure how much more of this you can take.
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You Need Help: You (Want to Be) Too Sexy for Your Shirt
You can do a super hot striptease for your girlfriend even if you are not, in fact, a Pussycat Doll.
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Bedroom Bloodsport: Navigating Unexpected Blood in Sexy Situations
Dating is a bloodsport unto itself, but for me it’s gotten too real — two too many times. Here’s some advice from my bleeding heart to yours on how to deal if you ever find yourself in a sexy bloody situation.
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You Need Help: Getting The Best Bang For Your Buck With Affordable Sex Toys
How (and where) to buy used sex toys, good budget-friendly toys and the best things to go big or save up for.
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Five Ways to Escape Your Terrible Date
Should I just go to the bathroom and never come out? Should I fake a heart attack? Tell them I got my period and it’s just a beautiful MESS that I need to stop and worship?
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You Need Help: So You Want To Try Being A BDSM Top
“It’s like a magic confidence talisman, that blindfold is.”
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You Need Help: To Text, or Not To Text?
You can’t focus your mind and make her text. You only have control over your fingers.
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You Need Help: Vulvas Taste Like Vulvas
If you’re nervous you won’t like vulva taste, this post is for you.
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Moving Beyond “Lesbian Bed Death” And Bridging The Libido Gap
Is it a libido gap? Or is it a sign that a major relationship change is in order?
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How To Keep A Girl For Ten Years: To Shack Up or Not To Shack Up?
Entering into the world of monogamy and dare I say, cohabitation is a terrifying new frontier and it’s arguably much safer to stay put in the safe confines of twin beds and roomies.
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You Need Help: Telling Someone How To Sex You Up
Fortunately, people DO come with a user manual, you just have to verbally speak it into existence.
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You Need Help: Moving On And Out
To leave or not to leave, that is the question.
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Long-Distance Lesbian Relationships: How To Make Them Work And When To Call It Quits
There is no right or wrong way to be in a long-distance relationship — maybe you thrive on independence or maybe you just need cuddles at night. Here are some of my protips on how to make it work and when to know that it’s over.
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You Need Help: How To Navigate a Social Event with Your Ex
You and your ex are going to the same social event? You should probs read this first.
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Oh Gay Cupid! Your New Best Friend Awaits
The first installment in Autostraddle’s OkCupid Series! Take a chance, meet some people who simply want more queers in their lives.