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First Person

Please Don’t Thank Me for Loving My Wife

My transgender wife and I are both people with a lot of serious challenges to face, and we chose to confront those challenges as a team. That’s not heroism. It’s love.

Genevra Reid September 13, 2013 88 Comments
Recipes

Get Baked: Baked Cinnamon French Toast

Revolutionize your brunch.

Ryan Yates September 13, 2013 8 Comments
Geekery

Queered Science: Why Social Justice and STEM Fields Should Hang Out More Often

“There is no space for subjects that could be classified as social, like talking about inequalities. Of course, this is a false differentiation, because there is really no way to entirely separate the two — social dynamics are just as important as technical abilities.”

Vivian September 13, 2013 24 Comments
Politics + Activism

Trans* Rights Gain 12 Million Backers As AFL-CIO Adds Workplace Protection To Constitution

The nation’s largest group of unions recently announced that it would be adding workplace protection for transgender people to it’s constitution in an effort to better represent all workers.

Mey September 13, 2013 5 Comments
Community

Team Pick: Straddler Grace Kim Launches Best Day Project Webseries, Makes Today The Best Day

“I’ve written out all the things I’ve ever wanted to do. Every week, I’ll pick one out of my jar at random, force myself to do it, and have the best day of my life while simultaneously making an ass out of myself for your viewing pleasure.”

Vanessa September 12, 2013 28 Comments
Politics + Activism

Judge Orders Cessation of Same-Sex Marriage Licenses in Pennsylvania

Commonwealth Court President Judge Dan Pellegrini granted the Pennsylvania Department of Health’s petition to stop Montgomery County Register of Wills D. Bruce Hanes from issuing licenses to same-sex couples.

A.E. Osworth September 12, 2013 3 Comments
Dating

Listling Without Commentary: Things We Say When We’re Not Quite Ready to Say “I Love You”

Because you can’t just say nothing before hanging up the phone.

Lizz September 12, 2013 86 Comments
First Person

Dear Queer Diary, Today We Found the Perfect Journal

“Whether you write a page-long treatise on your love of Jolly Ranchers or a meditation on the cultural currency of the alternative lifestyle haircut, you’re claiming a space on the page for yourself.”

Maggie September 12, 2013 36 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Lady Gaga Dishes On Loving Lesbians, Defends Miley Cyrus, Let The Flamewars Begin

“I find lesbians to be way more daring than straight men when it comes to coming on to you, and I really like that. And it wasn’t until I found a guy who could come on to me as strong as a lesbian that I fell in love.”

Riese September 12, 2013 135 Comments
Recipes

Get Baked: Garlicky Vegan Pesto

How to make one of the greatest foods of all time.

Ryan Yates September 12, 2013 17 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Kelsey Kisses Syd Tha Kid for Being Famous

Tracy Ryerson’s webseries is now free, a new webseries by a Maya Rudolph lookalike, Syd tha Kid’s new video, and an adorable viral video are partying like it’s 1999.

Brittani September 12, 2013 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

Trail Life USA Tries to Blaze A New Trail For Anti-Gay Scouting

Luckily there are other scouting alternatives for your kids!

Kristen September 12, 2013 13 Comments
Straddleverse

We Need Help: I’m Throwing A Birthday Bake Sale For Autostraddle’s Writers!

For my birthday, I wanna give gifts to other humans: specifically, Team Autostraddle. If you donate, you’ll be giving me the best birthday ever, and I’m willing to bake you cookies or even raffle off an A-Camp campership and more!

Riese September 11, 2013 57 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Get Baked: Bulkas (Yeast Buns), A South African Jewish Tradition

Let’s make bulkas together in anticipation of breaking the Yom Kippur fast on Saturday evening. This recipe includes a photo of Vanessa as a small child, a short instructional video, and an until-now top secret family recipe. L’chaim!

Vanessa September 11, 2013 39 Comments
Queer Fashion

dapperQ Infuses New York Fashion Week With Racial Diversity, Multifarious Gender Realness

dapperQ teamed up with Whitney Day Events to co-produce a diverse runway show for the unconventionally masculine during New York Fashion Week.

dapperq September 11, 2013 4 Comments
Queer Fashion

Queer Outfit of the Week: Autumn Hard Femme Dyke Night

The leaves are just barely starting to change and though it’s 80 degrees during the day it’s starting to get chilly at night. Your friends are all going to the local dyke bar’s “Back to School” night and this seems like a good time to put on your Saturday night best and flirt with some cuties.

Lizz September 11, 2013 19 Comments
Pets & Animals The Scene

Queering the Politics of Animal Rights with VINE Sanctuary

Learn about VINE Sanctuary and come to this awesome Vegan and Animal Rights Bookswap!

Jamie J. Hagen September 11, 2013 12 Comments
Community

The Poet and the Scientist: Gambling Gays Go To The Bookstore!

“We started out single, and without a queer community in our cities. Now we’re together and traveling the country, largely thanks to our extended Autostraddle family!”

Ashley Catharine September 11, 2013 3 Comments
Geekery

DC Hires an Openly Gay Writer for Batwoman to Appease Audiences

Its certainly been one hell of a week for DC’s PR team. (Emphasis on hell.)

Laura Mandanas September 11, 2013 4 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Tales of Sweet, Gay Retribution and Other Stories We Missed This Week

We’re getting smart about feminism, then collecting our cash rewards for having suffered at the hands of the kyriarchy. Also, a cat mayor exists.

Carmen September 11, 2013 4 Comments
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