Autostraddle-exclusive insights into our nonbinary readers!

You get to talk about yourself, a fascinating topic.

“We met in 1995. I was in grad school and had a job at the campus women’s center. I helped her hang an art show. We later hung out at a feminist science fiction convention. We’ve been together ever since.”

“i don’t know if i’m bisexual or a lesbian but i am a girlkisser so jot that down”

“Technically bi cause Chris Hemsworth exists but basically gay”

“In 2021, our parents ran into each other at Lowe’s and were basically like “Hey, my kid’s gay and mentally ill too!”

Tell us how you really feel!

Here at Autostraddle, we know that lesbian and queer stereotypes sometimes have some truth behind them.

“Don’t talk to me or my 23,000 sexes until you’ve had a nice long think about cisnormativity.”

Where does the Autostraddle community stand on pressing criminal justice issues including bail, incarceration and police brutality? Here are our findings, based on the Autostraddle Reader Survey and Politics Survey that readers most recently took.

“Cate Blanchett literally only wants one thing, and it’s to play gay in movies directed by a guy named Todd.”

How do lesbians have sex? Well, we have an actual answer for you: here are the 15 sex acts we consider a regular part of our sex lives.

“I want you to know that three different people in my life sent me this video the day it dropped. I have not been the same since.”

I want fewer queer books slipping through the cracks.

This week on NSFW Sunday: films about sex, articles about sex, lube, orgasms, and a Lip Service sex scene.

This week on NSFW Sunday: lingerie, cunnilingus, thinking kink and a guide to writing erotica.

What does it mean when to identify as a “bottom” or a “submissive” in queer sex? I come armed with data and some very vague answers.

“EVERY GARLIC PRESS I BUY SUCKS.”

I thought that by 35, I’d be married. I thought by 35, I’d have kids. I thought I’d be straight.

We’ve been talking about tops, bottoms and switches for a few weeks and today we’re doing a little glossary of the other words you use to describe how you have sex!