The feature image for this post on lesbian names is a word cloud made of the first names of everybody who’s ever signed up for A-Camp, a bi-annual week-long camp/conference hybrid event hosted by our website, Autostraddle.com.
This is a list of the most common names in the USA that the editors of Autostraddle have noted for their strong correlations with homosexual activity. So we are calling them lesbian names. If your name is on this list, you’re probably queer or gay or bisexual or whatever. If your name is not on this list, you might still be queer or gay or bisexual or whatever. My name isn’t on this list, and I like girls, so clearly there is no favoritism here.
100. Molly
YOU’RE GAY
99. Jane
Jane Doe? More like Jane HOMO!
98. Ryann
Girls have two breasts, and Ryann has two “n”s. Coincidence? NOTHING IS.
97. Lainy
See also: “Lane,” which is the path that leads you from heterosexuality to homosexuality.
96. Nikki
Maybe it’s short for Nicole, maybe it’s long for “Nick.” Either way, you’re gay.
95. Going By Your Last Name As Your First Name
Generally speaking.
94. Kimmy
“This might just be in the south, but Kimmy and its variations (kim/kimberly) are like power lesbians on casual fridays”
– Erin Sullivan, Staff Writer
93. Soph / Sophie
This story is gay, just like these stories
92. Marsha
MARSHA MARSHA MARSHA YOU’RE A LESBIAN
91. Mere / Mer
“Meredith” is a lot of syllables.
90. Taylor
89. Grace
Way back in the late ’00s, Grace Chu started an entire website called “Grace the Spot” and everybody who wrote for it was psuedonymed Grace. Furthermore, I had an Intern named “Intern Grace.” She lives in Ohio.
88. Maddie / Maddy
“I have three friends named Maddie/Maddi/Maddy who are all gay and I almost picked that name for myself.”
– Mey Rude, Trans Editor
87. Courtney
Alaina, Staff Writer: [A-Camper] Courtney Kist is chilling in Portland and is a budding sex educator and like, what is gayer than that?
Riese: Also she has an undercut
Alaina: Also she’s gay
Laura, Staff Writer: I used to make Courtney and Barbie kiss all the time as a kid. I assume everyone did.
86. Gloria
Hahahaha that girl just said I was gay and she’s right!
85. Carly
I have the gum that everybody wants
84. Gill / Jill / Jillian
I know a butch lesbian named Jill from Pond Creek, Oklahoma. If you can find a lesbian named Jill in Pond Creek, Oklahoma, you can find a lesbian named Jill anywhere.
See?
83. Karen
82. Zoe
According to Queen Trans Mey Rude, Zoe is the #1 most popular name for white lesbian trans women.
81. Stef / Steph
This name is especially popular amongst bisexual women. Just a tip. If you haven’t kissed at LEAST two Stefs/Stephs in your life and you’re not single, I recommend non-monogamy until you get that taken care of.
80. Ari
Ari Fitz was like “name your lesbian daughters ‘Ari Fitz'” and the world was like “seriously whatever you say thank you for talking to me”
79. Brandy / Brandi
“the first gay girl i ever knew was named brandy and she was my best kindergarten friend”
– Laneia, Autostraddle Executive Editor
78. Dee
One “Dee” is gay, two “Dees” (aka “DeeDee”) are not.
77. Kacey / Casey / K.C.
If your last name starts with a “C” and you have a baby, the best way to make sure that baby is gay is to make sure their first name starts with “K.”
76. Rachel
The reason “Rachel” isn’t higher on this list is ’cause there are so many Rachels out there that inevitably, there are a lot of STRAIGHT Rachels out there. When I think about the name “Rachel” as a concept I mostly think about a male friend of mine in college, who was Jewish and only dated Jewish girls because you should always have your eye out for your future wife because your mother loves you and wants grandchildren. (I have never dated a Jewish girl, sorry Mom.) He would joke that he got a degree in “Rachelology” because he had dated SO MANY RACHELS. I just checked Facebook and it looks like he married somebody who was not named Rachel. Maybe all the Rachels turned out to be gay?
75. Ash / Ashley
Stef, Vapid Fluff Editor: ashley is gay but also probably kind of a bitch (sorry ashley)
i don’t think ashley who works here is a bitch
just the ashleys i haven’t met, who are bitches
Riese: ash is like a good nickname for an ashley in a YA novel about a young masculine of center lesbian who could’ve be played by Ellen Page in the film adaptation if they’d done it ten years ago
Stef: ashleigh was the name of a girl in a YA series about horses that i loved as a kid
Ashley, Staff Writer: I hate most Ashleys and I don’t know a lot of gay ashleys
Stef: nobody believed in the runty sickly foal but ashleigh did and then she won all the kentucky derbies forever.
in retrospect this was very gay
74. Jodie Foster
73. Shannon
Stef: before shannon watters there was nothing, only darkness
and now there is only the soft glow of shannon
Carolyn, NSFW Editor (shannon watters’s wife): same
Stef: carolyn please tell me you get a slack alert for shannon’s name
Carolyn: um yes sure do
Stef: i feel like i thought shannon was a pretty straight name but then shannon happened to me
Carolyn: yhat’s what happened to her too
Riese: when i hear shannon, i think “soccer”
i think “girl in a fleece jacket who plays soccer”
Stef: i see shannon smiling jauntily and saying ‘oh hey’ and probably wearing a blazer
Mey: i think “girl with cute short hair”
72. Phyllis
“Jane makes almost twice as much money as Phyllis, they jointly own property and vehicles, and they have assigned each other as beneficiaries on wills and power of attorney forms.” – Counseling Lesbian Partners, by Joretta L. Marshall
71. Shane
If you’re straight and your name is “Shane,” you should change your name.
70. Vicki / Vikki
YOU BET
69. Becky / Becca
“Every Becky I’ve ever known has been gay. Everyone knows a gay Becky.”
– Cameron, Cartoonist
68. Carmen
Carmen De La Pica Morales. Has a more beautiful name of a fictional character, besides “Cookie,” ever sounded so sweet? Nope.
67. Idgie
I’m so gay I had to make up a new name and give it to myself to reflect precisely how gay I am
66. Marissa
“Marissa Paternoster. End of story. Queen of the Marissas.”
– Stef Schwartz, Vapid Fluff Editor
65. Gladys
Check out this picture of me being gay!
64. Cameron
- Cameron, The Miseducation Of
- Cameron, The Esposito Of
- Cameron, The Glavin Of
63. Liz
Honestly just searched for “Liz” in our media library to find a picture of our former Fashion/Style Editor Liz Rubin and this was the first picture of Liz Rubin that came up
64. Poussey
Like, objectively.
63. Lisa
“Lisa is the Jackie Warner of southern women.”
– Erin Sullivan, Staff Writer
62. Emily
“I dated two Emilys with the same first and last name.”
-Stef Schwartz, Vapid Fluff Editor
61. Kayla / Kaylah
First name Kaylah Last Name Cupcake Middle Name NOT STRAIGHT
60. Julia / Julie
A lesbian love story
Once I had an erotic third named Julia who had an ex named Julie.
59. Marisol
“Marisols are like, cool Mexican girls who wear high wasted shorts and flirt with you at the corner store.”
-Mey Rude, Queen Trans
58. Dusty
Remember that time in The L Word when Helena Peabody went to prison and ended up hooking up with a woman named Dusty? She was played by Ilene Chaiken’s personal trainer, Lucia Rijker, who is known as “the most dangerous woman in the world.”
57. Jordan
Let Her Know That She’s a Homo
56. AJ
This one’s for all the Ashleys and Ariels and Amelias out there who just cannot handle being Ashleys and Ariels and Amelias.
55. Mel
It started with Mel B and now there are Mels EVERYWHERE.
54. Patti / Patty / Peppermint Patty
“I’ve had like 12 writing instructors, all named Patty/Patti, all of them lesbians.”
– Kayla Upadhyaya, Staff Writer
53. Diane / Diana
“Kathy and Diane started couples’ therapy to improve their sexual relationship. At the beginning of their three-year-old relationship they were sexually active with each other, but they had been having sex infrequently when they came into therapy.” – Lesbian Psychologies: Expectations and Challenges, by the Boston Lesbian Psychologies Collective.
52. Brittany / Britney / Brittney
THOSE ARE GAY EYEBALLS AND I KNOW IT
51. Brittani
50. Amanda
Stef: i know two amandas who are married
Riese: to each other?
Stef: yes
and one took the other one’s last name
they’re queer porn stars
49. Chris / Cris
this is lesbian slang for “yeast infection”
48. Kelsey
“you’re practically turning your daughter gay if you name her kelsey. you did that to her.”
-Laneia, Executive Editor
47. Brianna / Brianne / Bri / Bre
We have so many Briannas at A-Camp I can hardly keep them straight, BECAUSE THEY’RE ALL GAY.
46. Lauren
“have we talked about how gay all laurens are? there are at least five gay laurens in austin. I don’t know if that says something about laurens or austin.”
– Intern Raquel
45. Alaina / Alanna / Alainna / Alana
You know one. We know you know one.
44. Morgan
Once upon a time I wrote a screenplay with my friend Carly, who as you can tell by her name; is gay. The lead character of our screenplay was named “Morgan.” I always wished that my name was Morgan, but it isn’t, so. That’s why I picked it.
43. Kristin / Kristen
Last year “Kristen” came in at 76, but this year it jumped many spaces because Kristen Stewart is out and about with her girlfriend St. Vincent. (There was no list last year)
42. Erin
– Erin Sullivan, Staff Writer
41. Sarah
This would’ve ranked higher but it seems like there might be a lot of lesbians and bisexuals named Sarah because there are a lot of PEOPLE named Sarah. I didn’t want to have to fight with a commenter about this.
But! I will say that we have had so many Sarahs work here that at one time they were all assigned numerals for easy identification. For example we have published works by Sarah Palmer, Sarah Croce, Sarah Hansen, Sarah Hall, Sarah Fonseca, Sarah Sarwar, Sara Wiseman, Sara David, Sara Century, Sarah Rosenblatt and Sarah Szabo! I COULD GO ON.
40. Amy
“speaking of first girls, amy is gay
amy is almost always gay
aimee, less gay but still probably gay”
– Stef Schwartz, Vapid Fluff Editor
39. Anna
38. Nat
37. Cheryl
If you’re a social worker and your name is Cheryl, you’re probably gay.
36. Sarah Waters
I know of two lady-loving-ladies named Sarah Waters. How many do you know? DM me.
35. Abby
They named a bar after all the lesbian Abbys
34. Jess
“Lesbian Jess has been made a synonym of Lesbian Jessica. Works and bookmarks tagged with Lesbian Jess will show up in Lesbian Jessica’s filter.” – Archive of Our Own
33. Alice
What does bisexual author Alice Walker have in common with bisexual TV character Alice Piesecki? Their first name. It’s “Alice.”
32. Jo
Oh I’m doing “Pony” at the drag king show tonight and you are NOT gonna stop me
31. Del
Phyllis + Del = Lesbians
30. Kai
“i’ve almost dated 8 kais
all the kais were slightly masculine of center, wore glasses, had dreadlocks.
also, i have a type
lmao”
-Alaina Monts, Staff Writer
29. Jamie / Jayme
Jamie and Jessie are not together, but they’re still gay.
28. Christie / Chrissie
What do you get when you take a Christina and you teach her how to scissor? You get a CHRISSIE!!!!
27. Carol
Well toodle-doodle-do
26. Cara / Kara
Stef: oh circling back to jill, another jill i know tried to make out with me AT her wedding to a man. jill, you’re gay.
Alaina: There was a Jill in my a cappella group who’s only goal was to date someone in the a cappella group…she did it. Now they’re married
Stef: Kara was the girl i DID make out with at jill’s wedding, i made jill’s new husband take her home
Alaina: STEF THE JILL I KNOW MARRIED A KERA!
Stef: wow
24. Gabrielle / Gabriella / Gabby / Gaby
This name is so queer that FIVE lesbian, bisexual and/or queer women by that name have written for Autostraddle.com! Can you even?
23. Danielle with one “n”
GAY
22. Dannielle with two “n”s.
GAYER
21. Dani
20. Robin
A young Robin Roberts is stoked to be queer
19. Kelly
Kelly has the van, Kelly will drive to the show, everybody it’s cool, don’t worry, Kelly has got this on lock. Kelly brought Gatorade for halftime, okay? She’s ready.
18. Tiana
17. Sue / Susan / Suzanne / Suze
She who Suzes
Never loses.
- Lesbian Proverb
16. Meghan / Megan / Meagan
I’M GAYYYYY!!!!!!!
15. Dana
As we mourn the loss of Dana Fairbanks, we remember all the Danas who are still with us.
14. Tara
There were so many queer Taras in my life in the late ’00s that we had to start developing code names for ease of conversation. This was unfortunate for my first Tara, who was given the nickname “DevilKitty” ’cause when you pick “DevilKitty” for your myspace handle in 2005, nobody should ever let you forget it. It was fortunate for Tara #3, who was somebody’s wife, I believe. They’ve since divorced.
13. Heather
Our Senior Editor Heather Hogan could’ve nominated herself for this position, but she didn’t have to because I already had “Heather” on the list.
12. Kate / Cait / Katie / Cat
“There were four Katies in my first A-camp cabin.”
– Laura Mandanas, Staff Writer
Is it short for Kaitlyn? Is it short for Katherine? Kathleen? Catharine? Caitlyn? You don’t need to know the answers to these questions, you just need to be her friend, even if she changes her name to “Kade.”
11. Alexis
Gay, party of one?
10. Al
This is short for the #1 most popular lesbian name “Alex” which is short for “Alexandra,” or else it is short for the #9 most popular lesbian name “Allison” or else it is short for the aforementioned “Alexis.”
9. Allison / Allyson
See “8”
8. Ali / Alley
When people ask me what kind of folks attend A-Camp, I usually say “people named Allison or Allyson, who often go by “Ali” or “Al.” I’m not lying. That’s who goes to A-Camp. The “A” is for Allison.
7. Nancy
If you were a lesbian feminist in the ’70s or ’80s, you probably went to a women’s music festival with somebody named Nancy.
6. Barb / Barbara
“One day, Lore looked Barb in the eye and said, ‘You are a lesbian.”
-Michael S. Kimmel, The Sexual Self: The Construction of Sexual Scripts
5. Jen / Jenn
Remember Jenn? From Field Hockey? She’s gay now.
4. Deb
“Every Deborah I’ve met over 45 has worn well pressed jeans and button ups tucked into them, but still gets their nails done. She’s a very specific kind of woman.”
-Alaina Monts, Staff Writer
3. Ellen
Ellen DeGeneres, the world’s most famous lesbian, is named “Ellen,” which inspired the website named AfterEllen. Ellen Page is also named “Ellen” and she is the namesake for our website right here, AfterEllenPage.com.
2. Sam
If you give birth to a lesbian, you might want to save yourself the ink and not bother naming her “Samantha” because she’s gonna drop that “antha” like a hot potato / her middle school boyfriend, who was also named Sam. Isn’t that cute? They were both named Sam!
1. Alex
Whether you’re gay, kinda gay, or just know gay people — you know a gay person named Alex. See also: Top 5 Queer TV Characters Named Alex.
Okay, time to yell at us about how wrong our list is! What names are egregiously missing? WHO HAVE WE WRONGED TODAY. Remember to use all-caps, lots of punctuation, and language that expresses vitriolic incredulity if you want us to take you seriously. Threats to our livelihoods and well-being are encouraged.
[ETA: I’d like to pre-emptively apologize to all ye Hannahs and Lauras out there. You were in an earlier draft but something happened between then and now, and I lost you. I’ll make it up to you next year.]
Well well well. How the turn tables. And here I was, so convinced my name was just cool and off the radar. Now it’s hot and definitely not off the gaydar.
lol same im lesbian and is Gabriella/Gabby lol.
I go by both “Kate” and “Kai” as well as “Kay.” Does that make me double-gay?
That make me wonder to
I think this list is pretty accurate.
I think this list is pretty spot on.
I’m lesbian par mani single hu😔😔😔
STEF I LOVED THOSE FUCKING ASHLEIGH BOOKS
She really hated men and I really liked that about her
I cannot believe that not only is my relatively obscure name on this list, but that my even rarer spelling is listed first!!! Thanks autostraddle for the Official Gay Name confirmation
#16! Wow I didn’t realize my name was so gay! Awesome, because I’m just as gay.
List sounds quite spot on actually, I am Andrea but also go as Liz of lizzie, it is my first name.
I am bisexual
All the Hanas I know are queer.
(I only know one.)
Thats prime
If you’ll be my bodyguard, I can be your long lost pal…I can call you Betty, and Betty when you call me you can call me Al, call me Al…
I’m double represented here! more importantly the names of at least half the people i am friends with are also on this list. (except amber. i know a lot of gay ambers)
23! Clearly, I chose my name well.
Tara? Tiara? Eh, close enough.
Also I keep running into queer Caseys and Sophias.
My current girlfriend has a name so rare I can’t even find anyone else in the world with the same name. She says she got it from some French book somewhere and it stuck with her, but it is a mystery.
what a true delight this was
My name is Sarah. But at one point I also worked with a ton of Sarah’s, so they renamed me Alex. I feel like I need to go flirt with a bunch of girls and earn it retroactively!
Yay for Kai!!! I often go by Kai, Kailey too sounds pretty gay though, no? Hate it when people pronounce “kay-lee,” I feel like screaming in their faces “it’s spelled with an i, not a y!”
full of serious gratitude for #27. I was hoping! :-)
Sorry, my name is more lesbianish than all of these, it’s just not common enough to be on the list. 1/1 famous Tegans of the world agree.
As a bisexual named Amanda, I’m thrilled my name is number 50. Everything makes sense now. Can’t argue with facts. :)
I thought you were straight
I’ve never been number 2 at anything. Thank you for publishing my life story.
Same
Excited to discover my lesbianismness in the top 10!
Slightly disappointed that Pam didn’t make the list. Such a gay name. But v happy I made it on there.
HAHAHA IM A MEL
Both my birth name and the name i picked for myself are on here oh god
I always knew I’d be #1 at something. *raised hands emoji*
lol same my name is Alex to
HAHA SAM IS NUMBER TWO! YESS. WIN.
I got scared cuz I didn’t see my name for awhile but it was #5! Top ten represent. I don’t go by Jen/Jenn but maybe I will if it sounds more gay xD
Hey I didn’t pick the spelling my mom did.
I have always been a firm believer that Chris/Cris, Taylor, Megan/Meghan/Meagan and Alexandra’s shortforms have always been the gayest names ever.
I also find that, while my first name is not very gay, the fact people call me by my first and a short form of my last name (Lori DK) to be very gay. Spoken outlook first name-last name is oh so very gay.
This is KD Lang levels of gayness
I love this! My ex an I used to have conversations about the gayest names, so reading this was pretty exciting! One of our top names, Nancy, is on there.
Omg my nane is sam and hate samantha and am a lesbian am i dreaming
My name is Cheryl, I am a social worker and a lesbian. Had no idea I was such a stereotype!
My name is Anika and I wasn’t expecting to see it here, but they had Nikki which is what some people call me. I’ve never thought about Alex being a queer name until this haha
Social worker Cheryl.. I know youuu
I take issue with the fact that Susan is not higher on this list. Was every lesbian before 2000 not named Susan?
I’m SHOCKED that Chloe isn’t on there.
When I got on Tinder/okcupid/Her, i realised I’d have to divide my choices by at least 2 because I refuse to date someone with the same name as me.
Obviously I’ve been doing it wrong?
I dated another Hannah for a bit and it was pretty fun. I think you should give Chloes a chance!
My name is only 12th gayest?
On behalf of Ellens everywhere I just want to say it’s an honor to be nominated
All I’m saying is the name Elaine should be on that list
Started as an Emily, am changing my name to Morgan. Pleased to see I’ve increased in gayness!
Do I count for 45? It’s close, and my girlfriend’s name is 44 so I’d be right next to her. :D
Shout out to all the Tammys who coached high school sports in the early aughts, and all the Lynns trying to make meaningful eye contact while they play guitar at Pride after-parties.
I have half a dozen of these names in my friend group alone omfg
Ummmm. Terri, Terry, T and Tammy, Tammi. So gay I’m salivating like Pavlov’s dog.
Yes. #24 I can’t believe I was so high on the list. yessss
What about ivy? That’s a gay af gal. (*cough* me *cough*
Damn, this was one list I thought my name would actually be included in for once
As a Kelly, I’m so relieved to be on here. But my wife, Maureen, isn’t and made the point, “Even after Rent?!” so thought I’d mention it. XD
Every elder lesbian I know is a Betty. This may just be a “Sarah” situation where every baby was just called Betty circa 1940/1950 though.
Literally my entire straight female family members’ names are here and not mine!
Aimee is 1000% gayer than Amy.
“Girls have two breasts”… so I guess many trans women and many women who’ve had single and double mastectomies don’t count to you? This kind of exclusionary statement is so avoidable. I thought your team was supposed to be inclusive.
I was not surprised to not find my name on this list. I was more surprised than I should’ve been to find the name of EVERY GIRL I’VE EVER DATED on this list. Coincidence? I think not.
Im Alex and I am confirming that I am very gay
lol same
Miriam and Liza are lesbian twins I knew and they’re names are très gay
I am shocked me and the other gay lady Austins I know didn’t make the list. Come on, Austin.
CAITLIN. CAITLIN. IT’S IN YOUR WORD CLOUD BUT NOT EVEN TECHBICALLY IN THE ACTUAL LIST OH MY GOD I AM SO UPSE….
Nah, guess I’ll take it anyway.
feeling pretty insecure because i can only think of straight Alex’s.
my gf Laura (thx honorable mention) and our gay friends Rachel Sarah and Katie will enjoy this list tho ;)
Only ranked in the 60s?? Booooooooo!!!
My names Danielle, and I sometimes go by Dani, so I average out to about “gayer” lol
Hey, I’m on there! Kind of. I’m a Kaitlyn and used to go by both Katie and Kat at different stages of my life. Now I am very very gay. Congratulations, you got it right!
I’m feeling…targeted. I’m literally the Jill featured in this article. My wife, Kera, and I say hello. Small world…
the jill and kara i mentioned in this article are annoyed i did this but TOO LATE
was disappointed to find I was ranked #9 I thought there wound lesbians named Nancy.
Lol me and my cousin are both Omnisexual and both our names are on here :)
i didn’t expect to see my name here tbh lol, to bad I didn’t see my gf’s name. but i did see my rabbit’s
ooooof this needs some redaction for elliots sake
Omg your not wrong. All of my hay friends names are on here.
This is the first time lesbian name list I haven’t made an appearance on
I am despised by every bull lesbian at first sight.Im a straight male and have great affection for bi sexual females a lot of my girl friends have been bi and I’ve never had any problem when they bring a girl friend their not bull lesbians but still, why the hate
yall both my middle name and first names are like 1 and 18 on this list lmao…. turns out im gayer