Is Archbishop Tim Dolan really ‘the archbishop of charm’? If being gay and having a short temper are similarly conquerable “character flaws,” how many Hail Marys do we have to do if our short temper and our homosexuality combine to make us want to throw this guy’s Jameson in his face? (Or just drink it)

An incredible amount of good news about gay marriage and then we take a nap.

Autostraddle Redesign vaults lesbian & bisexual website into uncharted territories of awesome. Let’s take a tour.

Topics include Nick Drake, the hunt for a missing autistic child, the morning-after pill, nannies, homeless teens in Boystown, teevee preachers, where i write and more!

This week on NSFW Sunday: oral sex, summer, desire, and a femme strap-on harness review.

Perhaps even more heartwrenching than the financial stress that these woman face is the constant reminder that their bodies do not fit the status quo.

You can be a Chief Executive Scout too! (As long as you aren’t female, queer or compassionate.)

The Boy Scouts of America decided to keep their anti-gay ban, while Jennifer Tyrrell keeps fighting. “How dare someone tell a mother they can’t be a part of their child’s life?”

Brittani got you started, Morgan keeps you going.

The Good, The Bad, and The Kanye, feat. Jan Brewer, Mitt Romney, and Sweden.

“The fact is, I’m gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud.”

Lillian Faderman. Fresno, CA. (1994) by Robert Giard

If I had the power to declare this the official book of Herstory Month, I would. But I don’t have that power. Only you have that power. And you should read this book!

The trailer for “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” debuted yesterday, and thinking about it made me think about all the other times a film put my love on the line — what are your favorite (and least favorite) adaptations?

One Million Moms got really pissed about Ellen DeGeneres — imagine how they’re gonna feel about These Two Dads!

Robert Griffin III of the Washington Redskins (Getty Images)

Brittani’s Team Pick: “You can’t discriminate. It’s just like black, white, same thing. You wouldn’t discriminate against my race, just like I wouldn’t discriminate against your sexuality.” -TJ Graham of the Buffalo Bills

PHOTO CREDIT: J. ROBERT WILLIAMS

1,000 of you placed votes for the hottest most amazing queer women in the universe and now it’s time to announce the 100 winners of the 2012 Autostraddle Hot 100!

This Sunday Funday, every single person on Earth will come out in favor of marriage equality. No but really, at least five will!