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Playlists

Playlist: Getting Ready for a Femme Meetup

No matter what you like to do to express your own personal brand of Femme, this music will help you get there.

Mey May 23, 2014 18 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #128: His Favorite Place in LA These Days is Home Depot.

Topics include Michael Jackson’s “Thriller”, Alex Trebek, Murderabilia, privilege, egg donation, Dr.Drew, heroin addiction and moar!

Riese May 23, 2014 7 Comments
TV Feature

Rhymes with Witches: Blair vs. Georgina, The Battle of the Bitchy Brunettes

“Haven’t you heard? I’m the crazy bitch around here.”

Nina May 23, 2014 6 Comments
Sex

Bondage 101: How To Tie Someone Up By The Ankles

How to tie someone up by the ankles when you don’t know how to tie someone up.

Ryan Yates May 23, 2014 8 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Former Disney Child Stars

Do you know which former Disney child star wrote the lyric, “If the light is off then it isn’t on”?

Crystal May 22, 2014 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

36 Reasons Why QPOC-Only Spaces Are Very Necessary

I want to say things like “white people” without someone telling me we’re in a post-racial society and I wanna be surrounded by love that reminds me of my grandma’s house.

gabby May 22, 2014 213 Comments
LGBT Pride

Sober in the City: Surviving Pride Without Liquor

Here are some tools I employ to protect my sobriety while still allowing me to participate in all of the fun. If you’re concerned about being a sober queer at Pride this year, some of these tools may come in handy.

Ginger Hale May 22, 2014 21 Comments
Queer Fashion

Custom Suits, Kipper Clothiers, and Other Things That Are Worth Investing In

It’s time I invest in a suit that will actually fit me. So it’s a really good thing a company like Kipper Clothiers, who makes custom suits for the LGBT Community, actually exists.

Alex May 22, 2014 8 Comments
Sex

Let’s Talk About Sexting: A Roundtable

Sometimes a sext is just a sext, and sometimes it’s something else entirely.

Ryan Yates May 22, 2014 40 Comments
House & Garden

Dear Queer Diary: Let’s Take This Outside

It is time, my dear queer diarists, to abandon your dim, carpeted hidey-holes and venture out onto the verdant carpet of Mother Nature!

Maggie May 22, 2014 13 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Get Your Knit On With These Seven Garter Stitch Projects (That Aren’t Scarves)

Part of the reason that initial knitting attempts stall out (or never get started) is that we don’t have enough achievable motivation. Check out these easy, diverse projects that all rely on the simple garter stitch.

Rachel May 22, 2014 9 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Bros On Transportation Actually Just Saving Room For Cats

We thought they were just massive assholes completely unaware of their privilege/the patriarchy/other humans on public transportation. But no.

A.E. Osworth May 21, 2014 27 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Custom Queer, Feminist Pendant Necklaces

Join in the A-Camp fun with these awesome, customizable pendant necklaces!

Mey May 21, 2014 4 Comments
Food and Drink

Liquor on the Mountain: Our Whiskey Tasting Line Up

It’s that time of year again. The time of year when we get a bunch of people at A-Camp to go in on a few bottles of whiskey and we all taste them together and talk about how great whiskey is. And, as with every tasting we do, we encourage you to follow along at home!

A.E. Osworth May 21, 2014 8 Comments
Relationships

Five Lessons From Poly Relationships That Everyone Can Benefit From

1. Communication. 2. Lots of communication. 3. So much communication. 4. No really, communicate. 5. Seriously just talk about things!!!!

Ryan Yates May 21, 2014 49 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: The Page of Swords Starts a New Internship

The dilemma: ‘I’m anxious about starting my dream job!’

Beth May 21, 2014 12 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also. Prison Strikes, Striking Musical Gold, and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Fighting for rights, celebrating identities, raising money, listening to good music, and making powerful critiques–news as usual this week!

Leo May 21, 2014 1 Comment
TV Reviews

Last Tango in Halifax: Get On This Show and its Late-in-Life Gay Lady Character

One great thing about having Netflix in the British Isles is that you find out there’s a lot more to BBC programming than Doctor What and Benadryl Cucumber. Let me introduce you to the fantastic show you’re sleeping on: Last Tango in Halifax.

Kate May 20, 2014 28 Comments
Comedy

Comedy Crush: On the Mountain with Elicia Sanchez

Elicia Sanchez is a stand-up comedian living and joking in Seattle though this week she has temporarily relocated to Angelus Oaks as part of the talent line-up for A-Camp.

Brittani May 20, 2014 3 Comments
First Person

Starting a Different Conversation: On Mixed-Race/Biracial/Multiracial Visibility and Inclusion

“I began to step back. Not because of low confidence, or a fear of public speaking, or an inferiority complex — all of them were about my story, and my skin, and my inability to find a way to belong in spaces for people of color without first justifying and laboriously explaining both.”

the team May 20, 2014 71 Comments
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