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You Need Help: Is She For Real?

“I now have a million conspiracy theories in my head about the possibility that maybe the girl I met in person was not the same girl writing me these emails.”

Riese February 29, 2016 31 Comments
Movie Lists

The 10 Most Abhorrent Oscar Snubs of the Past 20 Years

“That’s the price you pay for thinking too far ahead, flying too close to the sun.”

olgalexell February 29, 2016 45 Comments
Health

50 Ways to Deal with the Aftereffects of Trauma

“The day begins when you say it does: I’m not talking about work. I’m talking about the soul.”

Riv Sokvy Voronezh February 29, 2016 26 Comments
AF+

Say My Name, Mey’s My Name Pt. II: Independent (Legally a) Woman

“As I write about my name now, I feel strength, and contentment and comfort and home. I feel more like myself than I ever have before.”

Mey February 29, 2016 36 Comments
Food Lists

29 Foods My Girlfriend’s Cat Would Like to Cook for Me

“I’ve collected some recipes that (way, way deep down) I think my girlfriend’s cat would secretly like to cook for me.”

Laura Mandanas February 29, 2016 26 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Meet You At Sunrise

Consensual non-consent, an electrosex checklist, tumblr is for porn, two things people in long-term relationships are good at, dating as a transfeminine girl and more.

Ryan Yates February 28, 2016 8 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Kate McKinnon Is Carol and Trans Actress Mya Taylor Makes History This Sunday Funday

Puerto Rico did in fact get that lesbian Supreme Court Chief Justice after all, Italy’s same-sex civil unions bill is gaining steam, Taylor Victor is gonna get to wear her badass lesbian tee shirt to school whenever the f*ck she wants, some Peeps re-enacted Hamilton for you, and the Independent Spirit Awards made trans history!

Carmen February 28, 2016 13 Comments
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Breaking Down the Apple iOS Back Door Fight

“We can not use a law from 1789 to regulate a digital space in such an overreaching way.”

A.E. Osworth February 27, 2016 26 Comments
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Saturday Morning Cartoons: Perfect Apartment, Part One

“This is gonna be our first apartment together, so it has to be perfect!”

Megan Praz February 27, 2016 15 Comments
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Boob(s On Your) Tube: Clarke and Lexa Are Totally In Love, Pass It On

The 100 is so unbelievably gay now, Billie Jean King shines on Fresh Off the Boat, and How to Get Away With Murder gets even more convoluted.

Heather Hogan February 26, 2016 80 Comments
Music

We Asked An Actual Entertainment Lawyer: Why Can’t Sony Help Kesha?

There’s only one (horrible) person responsible for the terrifying legal situation Kesha is in, and unfortunately he’s the only person who can actually set her free.

Stef February 26, 2016 57 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #196: Apparently I Look Like The Fish-Sandwich Type

Topics include Jay-Z, adult braces, heroin, women & guns, tumblr teens, San Jose, the Titanic, murder, teenagers & social media and more!

Riese February 26, 2016 8 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Running Toward My Degree Like AHHHHHHHH!

Things that are stressful: my thesis and Jessica Jones. Things that are great: talking with you in the Friday Open Thread! GET IN HERE AND TELL ME ABOUT YOUR WEEK.

A.E. Osworth February 26, 2016 178 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Feet Never Touch The Ground

We’ve got pasta currency, bows for your bush, pond scum and so much more!

Bren February 26, 2016 17 Comments
Community

Straddler Nation: We Started Meet-Up Groups and You Can, Too!

Welcome to Straddler Nation, a brand-spankin’-new series in which two rockstar meet-up group captains talk to folks building Autostraddle communities IRL around the world. For their first installment, they talked to some folks who started or are taking the reigns over their local groups.

Carmen February 26, 2016 57 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 20, February 2016

“I made dinner and our entire website fell apart”

Riese February 25, 2016 69 Comments
Politics + Activism

North Carolina Governor Pat McCrory Loves Hypocrisy, Hates Trans People Using Correct Bathrooms

NC Governor Pat McCrory is having a meltdown over a Charlotte ordinance that protects LGBT rights, new data shows that up to half of gay and bisexual black men are at risk for HIV, abortion restrictions go into law in Louisiana, and more news.

Rachel February 25, 2016 10 Comments
TV Lists

10 Sexiest Lesbian TV Scenes That Got Everybody Wet (Because Pools)

Regina George was right: You invite a lesbian to a pool party, and it’s gonna get gay.

Heather Hogan February 25, 2016 43 Comments
Politics + Activism

#EndRevengePorn With YouTube Stars Bria and Chrissy

“My initial reaction was terror and denial mixed with just shock and despair. It was like my life that I knew was shattered.”

Kelly February 25, 2016 13 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read a F*cking Book: “The Lillian Trilogy”

Mary Meriam doesn’t flinch at female eroticism, at emotional turmoil, at social upheaval, at the truth of human cruelty. She also doesn’t flinch at rhyme, rhythm, formal constraint, or ancient forms of poetry and language.

Siham Karami February 25, 2016 7 Comments
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