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How to Have Lesbian Sex With a Trans Woman
Sex between someone with a penis and someone with a vagina gets a lot of representation, but not when the penis-haver is a woman. Here’s everything you need to know about lesbian sex with trans women who have penises.
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Mutual Masturbation Is a Very Underrated Lesbian Sex Act and You Can Too
Mutual masturbation isn’t a sexual cop-out — it’s actually a truly fantastic sexual activity.
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How To Have A Lesbian Threesome
Planning your first threesome? Here’s how to do it.
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How to Soundproof for Kinky Sex
If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.
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Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage
Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.
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A+ Sex Diary: FaceTime Fucking and Feeling the Distance
In this queer sex diary: long-distance FaceTime fucking, a dish rack full of sex toys, feeling sad, feeling S.A.D., and feeling goofy and good.
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How To Eat Ass
Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.
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You Need Help: When a Yeast Infection is Cramping Your Sex Style
Let’s get down to business. The business of getting down to business with an itchy vag.
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How I Started To Learn Trans Sex Ed (And How You Can, Too)
It took be months to bring myself to ask the question I’d wanted to ask since coming out: How am I supposed to have sex if I hate my genitals?
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Lesbian Fisting 101
Fisting is my number one favorite penetrative queer lesbian sex move. Fisting is AWESOME. Here’s how to do it right.
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How To Have Lesbian Period Sex
Here’s how to live your patriarchy-smashing lesbian period sex vampire dreams.
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What Are Dental Dams, and How Do They Work?
Why dental dams are the safer sex tool no one gives a shit about, and why it’s time to start.
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Your Hot Wet XXX Summer: 2018 Queer Porn Preview
All the glittery heart-driven DIY gay, lesbian, trans, and queer porn to watch right now.
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You Need Help: Two Bottoms, One Relationship
The thing about being a top or a bottom is that it’s all in your head.
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You Need Help: Getting Better At Feeling Good
“My body does not seem to be able to handle being aroused for more than 5–10 minutes at a time… Is there any way I can retrain my body to be better able to maintain arousal?”
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“Do Fingers Count?” Vulvodynia, Medical Heteronormativity and Me
Doctors agreed about what kind of sex I should want to have, and how much pain and inconvenience I should be willing to endure to have it.
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You Need Help: You (Want to Be) Too Sexy for Your Shirt
You can do a super hot striptease for your girlfriend even if you are not, in fact, a Pussycat Doll.
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A+ Roundtable: What Makes You Good In Bed?
“I’m a Scorpio, this is kind of what we… do.”
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You Need Help: When Doing [This Sex Act] Makes You Want To Lie Down and Curl Into The Tiniest Ball
“I want to fulfill her sexually and sensually and I want to help her explore her various interests and fantasies. But I can’t even think about hitting her without conflating it with my own memories of abuse.”
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You Need Help: You Think You’re Bad At Sex
“Forget all your ideas about what the person across the table from you might want until they tell you so you can actually listen when they do.”